isotope,
Right now, CU is on a spring break, so MOST of the girls are gone! No journal update for a week, unless I find some other chicks in another non-pickup venue. Maybe, I will update this journal when the girls get back from Spring break March 28
btw are you sure that youre not just rationalizing an excuse to not do your daily quota?
Hehe, I expected a response like this! My original goal(from the first page) was the ability to approach any girl, at any time, and at any place. Now, I feel like I can do it without having to approach one chick a day.
I've approached girls everywhere: in the library, in the food court, on the street, stopping girls walking around campus(hardest to do), at the bus stop, on a bench, in the computer lab, in front of restaurants, etc.
I get plenty of numbers for myself. I do want to have a life outside chicks! Everyday during the school week, I'm on campus going to class, studying for tests, reading books, painting, writing papers, meeting for clubs and fraternities(co-ed business frat), and trying to line up a summer internship right now. And believe me, it takes more than a minute to find a chick I want to approach.
No doubt, I love to approach women, but I recognize I don't need to prove I'm better "man" to anyone because I can get 10 dates a week or approach a certain "quota" each day. Why should I approach more girls than I need? I WILL NOT make chasing girls my life. In fact, I think it is good to take a break from girls from time to time to clear your mind and focus on yourself.
it just seems to me that you would have to do more than 1 a week to get results
I get more than one number a week if I want!
but even if u dont have time for dates it might still be a good idea to do it for the hell of it and stay in practice for when you do get time
Exactly! I still have time to go on dates, but not as much as I use to. Also, I still approach girls for fun and practice, but I don't go out of my way intentionally as often to find girls and get numbers. Hmm....a good possibility of a journal update coming soon!!!!
kairos,
It is great to hear you are having the success you want! I think you and me think very similar, and we both use the approach in the best venues congruent to a non-pickup environment. This approach has two objectives: 1) find out if the girl is taken 2) find out if the girl is interested in you.
i believe you can try two approaches - one is "are you single" and if "yes" go straight for the email/number, or you can talk a little more and then go for the email/no. - both work, second one is safer...
True! Establishing rapport with the chick shows her what type of guy you are like, and you can find out if she is the type of girl you like.
most important thing is to just be indifferent and keep going for approaches, men tend to get really afraid of rejection - that's what keeps guys from doing a lot of things in their life, fear of rejection, just get passed that and you'll be reaaalllyy powerfull...
Indeed, the fear of the rejection keeps a man's life stuck in conformity. Most people like being average and normal, but they won't admit it, ever! Putting your ego aside and going for the number changes everything.
What do we have to lose asking for RANDOM chick's number? Absolutely nothing! The chances of seeing the same chick again are slim. Even if she did see you again, she would look at you differently: as a guy not intimidated by a beauty, and the willingness to risk rejection.
But you shouldn't care what she thinks of you, you should only care about yourself breaking new boundaries. Breaking into new territroy unleases a power that escaped you all these years, but you realize the power was with you all along...
Cue Governator Arnold in a *slow mechanical robot voice-tone*: "I'll be back...."
JW
