For most DJs, sooner or later, they're going to consider an LTR. In a short term relationship, physical attraction is all that matters; if her attitude stinks or if she's clingy, you can easily NEXT her. In an LTR, a DJ has to determine if the chick he's considering marrying and becoming the mother of his kids is not only a hot babe physically, but also an intelligent woman who can stimulate him intellectually. If the DJ has a bachelor's degree, can he marry a high school graduate who's only interested in eating bonbons and watching Oprah Winfrey and the Young and the Restless? Rest assured that the sex may be great and she still has a high Interest Level in the DJ, but the sex will level off and then what's there to keep the relationship/marriage going for decades? It's stimulating conversations that will keep the embers of an LTR burning strongly. Being able to converse with your wife who went to university, earned her degree and kept herself up-to-date with current events and has made educating herself a lifetime affair will energize your LTR and keep you intellectually challenged. Consider strongly the gal's penchant for higher education and continued learning before you ask her hand in marriage. There's more to an LTR than great sex. Compatibility is a bigger issue. Are you two compatible on an intellectual plateau? That hot ****tail waitress who dropped out of high school and that single mom with 2 kids from a relationship with a jerk with a Grade 6 education whom you are both dating, are they LTR material?