Hi guys Simo' here. I only found this site 2 days ago and I must say top stuff. If only they tauhgt this stuff in schools. It gladdens my heart to see men getting together and sharing their experiences in the name of self improvement. I work on a 3 strikes and I am out principle. This applies to all areas of my life not just in matters of the fairer sex. But seeing as that is the focus of this site I will share my experiences in this area. 18 months ago saw the end of the 3rd long term relationship for me. This last one leaving me with a daughter that I am no longer allowed to see. There is nothing more devastating than to be allowed to hold your child once then have her taken away. I had every right to be bitter but I chose to look within instead.I decided that If I could not have a happy relatlionship with a woman then I would learn to live without. I asked myself could I be happy without a woman in my life. This is not to say I did not want one I just did not want to be unhappy ever again. So I started dreaming of the things I wanted to do with my life. And there began the journey to freedom. Once I had life goals that had meaning to me, instead of ones I thought I needed to follow just to impress the babes,my life started to change. I started to pursue financial freedom so as to be able to afford my goals and peak physical fitness so as to have the energy to achieve them. Basically I am busy building my foundations, on top of wich I will build my grandest version of my grandest vision of what I can become in this life time. 'Surprise' 'Surprise' there's women comming from every where. I am not saying that I am slaying babes left right and centre, I am saying that many are getting interested and I have not done one bit of chasing. The bottom line is that when you focus on your own inner greatness your inner light begins to shine and like moths to a flame people will be attracted to you. When your only motivation in life is to discover your own greatness ,then you do not want or need anything from others, so they feel safe to be around you.When you stride out with the strength of your purpose every day people will follow for so few no where they are going.When people see you toil from dusk till dawn without expecting any reward they will come to ask why.When you can stand tall within yourself and know who you trully are, then you will unconciously give those around you permission to do the same. Just concentrate on discovering yourself. You will automatically become purposefull,charming,mysterious etc. A great man lies in all men but only you yourself can find him. It is the road less travelled.Only about 10% of people follow it but the rewards are great, for those 10% stand out from the crowd. And don't worry about the chicks. When you know yourself you get to pick and choose from the girls who also have had the courage to know themselves and they are the quality ones.