Can't really comment on your girls judgement of you. However, if you've been with her for awhile she may see a change in you that she doesn't like. It's a relationship, so you should assume that she's always going to have an opinion.
Now, social situations don't really have to be a hassle as long as you're comfortable with yourself. Opening up to people about the goals you have set or the things you would like to accomplish is sometimes a good idea. You never know if someone my have a contact or a way of helping you achieve your goals. Often, people like to help other people that they have a good social rapport with.
I remember back in my late twenties needing $2.5 million to purchase a business, and I remember being nervous asking for it. The one thing that helped was having a good social network and good rapport with some influential people. I was able to get the deal done in 2 weeks.
Embrace the things you want to do. Talk to people confidently about them. When someone says "they don't want to talk to people about things they haven't accomplished yet" I always assume they really mean "I don't want to say anything in case I fail". The problem here is that you haven't sold yourself 100% on what you can accomplish.
Maybe it's time to reignite that fire inside, dig deep down for that confidence you buried, and start climbing that mountain........ Or you could sit at home alone binge watching Netflix.
Your choice. Which ever path you choose, Be blessed.
Now, social situations don't really have to be a hassle as long as you're comfortable with yourself. Opening up to people about the goals you have set or the things you would like to accomplish is sometimes a good idea. You never know if someone my have a contact or a way of helping you achieve your goals. Often, people like to help other people that they have a good social rapport with.
I remember back in my late twenties needing $2.5 million to purchase a business, and I remember being nervous asking for it. The one thing that helped was having a good social network and good rapport with some influential people. I was able to get the deal done in 2 weeks.
Embrace the things you want to do. Talk to people confidently about them. When someone says "they don't want to talk to people about things they haven't accomplished yet" I always assume they really mean "I don't want to say anything in case I fail". The problem here is that you haven't sold yourself 100% on what you can accomplish.
Maybe it's time to reignite that fire inside, dig deep down for that confidence you buried, and start climbing that mountain........ Or you could sit at home alone binge watching Netflix.
Your choice. Which ever path you choose, Be blessed.
