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I hear you, Jophil. And it's such a shame. At least, the one good thing that has come out of all of these experiences I've had is that now that I'm aware of the manner in which many women in this country behave, I have developed more of an edge to myself. I don't let them talk to me just anyhow or try to disrespect me. I wouldn't say that women in my part of the world are necessarily financially dependent on men. Most of them too are independent and hold professional jobs. The only difference is that when a woman gets to a certain age and still isn't married, it is seen as somewhat of a stigma. I mean...one of my ex-girlfriends back home has been e-mailing me recently after so many years of non-communication. She's in her late 20s and is feeling the pressure to get married.
In all of this, I really do respect American men for the most part considering all the crap guys have to put up with when it comes to many women in this country. Many young women here are just so spoiled and shallow and self-centered and used to being put on a pedestal that they think they can get away with doing almost anything and men will be on their knees pleading for their mercy. I'm not sure if you read one of my posts from several months ago where I talked about a young woman at my gym who got up from her seat when she was working out next to me and proceeded to yell in my face, thinking it would intimidate me. I told her not to disrespect me and to get out of my face. I'm not gonna give any woman a chance to try to talk to me like that. They say they want men to be men and to act like men, yet at the same time they encourage AFC behavior in many respects and feel threatened when masculinity is too assertive.
I hear you, Jophil. And it's such a shame. At least, the one good thing that has come out of all of these experiences I've had is that now that I'm aware of the manner in which many women in this country behave, I have developed more of an edge to myself. I don't let them talk to me just anyhow or try to disrespect me. I wouldn't say that women in my part of the world are necessarily financially dependent on men. Most of them too are independent and hold professional jobs. The only difference is that when a woman gets to a certain age and still isn't married, it is seen as somewhat of a stigma. I mean...one of my ex-girlfriends back home has been e-mailing me recently after so many years of non-communication. She's in her late 20s and is feeling the pressure to get married.
In all of this, I really do respect American men for the most part considering all the crap guys have to put up with when it comes to many women in this country. Many young women here are just so spoiled and shallow and self-centered and used to being put on a pedestal that they think they can get away with doing almost anything and men will be on their knees pleading for their mercy. I'm not sure if you read one of my posts from several months ago where I talked about a young woman at my gym who got up from her seat when she was working out next to me and proceeded to yell in my face, thinking it would intimidate me. I told her not to disrespect me and to get out of my face. I'm not gonna give any woman a chance to try to talk to me like that. They say they want men to be men and to act like men, yet at the same time they encourage AFC behavior in many respects and feel threatened when masculinity is too assertive.