What is your take on this? I'm thinking about asking out that girl I talked about recently (the one that gave me her number but who I think has a boyfriend). I want to make it casual, I want to ask her out for drinks in a nice bar. I'm thinking about doing it in a text message kinda like the following: me: Hey, how was your night the other day? her: blah, blah, blah me: reply to whatever she said me: you know what, we should go out for drinks one night next week. When are you free? if she says yes: me: great! I'll meet you at x place, at x time. Sound good? her:blah, blah, blah me: cool, see you then. if she says no: me: oh, that's cool, see ya around. if she says no then I'll just put her in my casual friends category. But hopefully she'll say yes. So what do you think about my approach? Keep in mind that I probably won't phrase it exactly the same, this is just an example.