Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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For a woman to do anything, she needs to have emotional drive. If she's not "feeling" positive about something, she's not going to do it. Emotions dictate a woman's life. Logic dictates a man's life.
Some things can help push her emotions in a certain direction. In dating, Kino and ****y/Funny are extremely effective in this aspect. However, when it comes to the issue of pregnancy, the push can come from external sources. If a woman has had negative experience with children, that is going to push her emotions in the "no kids" direction. However, if all her friends and relatives are getting pregnant, having babies, and these women are clearly enjoying what they carried for 9 months, she is going to have a more positive push on her emotions, thus giving her a desire to have children. According to her words, this translates into "having children someday".
Another thing that pushes her emotions in the direction of having kids is her biological clock. The older a woman gets, the stronger her desire to have children before menopause hits and it's too late.
The emotions will help feed a woman's desire to have children, no matter what logic dictates. If she is not financially stable, but her friends are having kids and she hears that internal "tic-toc", her financial situation is the least of her concern. She must have a baby!
Since women are emotionally driven to do anything, let's take a look at how it affects getting pregnant:
- A woman who is desperately wanting to have a child will take her folic acid pills religiously.
- A woman who doesn't want children will have her tubes tied.
- A woman who wants to have a child "someday" will not take her birth control pills religiously.
Women who want children will be emotionally driven to encourage that need. That's why women are so horrible at taking their BC pills.
Women who are strongly emotionally driven to have a child will desperately do whatever it takes to have that child. They will lie about being on the pill, getting the shot, and even having their tubes tied. Some will resort to rescuing a used condom out of the garbage and try impregnating themselves.
So, where does all of this leave men? If they DO NOT want to have a child anytime soon (and when a man says it, he means it), they will have to take the birth control into their own hands. They are the ones driven by logic, not emotion. Emotion isn't reliable for making decisions. Logic is.
When a child-wanting woman is with a man who desires to have children later, she will take whatever necessary steps are needed to ensure that she gets pregnant. She will lose her pills (read: dispose of them), she will tell the man she's on the pill, the shot, or tell him that her tubes are tied, and will pull the "you don't trust me" card when he persists in using the condom.
Men, you are the only ones who are reliable when it comes to the issue of birth control. Take the responsibility away from her, and ensure that you are using birth control. The only sure way to know birth control is being used is by wearing a condom.
As for the "you don't trust me" card, her temporary happiness is nothing compared to 18 years of child support payments.
Some things can help push her emotions in a certain direction. In dating, Kino and ****y/Funny are extremely effective in this aspect. However, when it comes to the issue of pregnancy, the push can come from external sources. If a woman has had negative experience with children, that is going to push her emotions in the "no kids" direction. However, if all her friends and relatives are getting pregnant, having babies, and these women are clearly enjoying what they carried for 9 months, she is going to have a more positive push on her emotions, thus giving her a desire to have children. According to her words, this translates into "having children someday".
Another thing that pushes her emotions in the direction of having kids is her biological clock. The older a woman gets, the stronger her desire to have children before menopause hits and it's too late.
The emotions will help feed a woman's desire to have children, no matter what logic dictates. If she is not financially stable, but her friends are having kids and she hears that internal "tic-toc", her financial situation is the least of her concern. She must have a baby!
Since women are emotionally driven to do anything, let's take a look at how it affects getting pregnant:
- A woman who is desperately wanting to have a child will take her folic acid pills religiously.
- A woman who doesn't want children will have her tubes tied.
- A woman who wants to have a child "someday" will not take her birth control pills religiously.
Women who want children will be emotionally driven to encourage that need. That's why women are so horrible at taking their BC pills.
Women who are strongly emotionally driven to have a child will desperately do whatever it takes to have that child. They will lie about being on the pill, getting the shot, and even having their tubes tied. Some will resort to rescuing a used condom out of the garbage and try impregnating themselves.
So, where does all of this leave men? If they DO NOT want to have a child anytime soon (and when a man says it, he means it), they will have to take the birth control into their own hands. They are the ones driven by logic, not emotion. Emotion isn't reliable for making decisions. Logic is.
When a child-wanting woman is with a man who desires to have children later, she will take whatever necessary steps are needed to ensure that she gets pregnant. She will lose her pills (read: dispose of them), she will tell the man she's on the pill, the shot, or tell him that her tubes are tied, and will pull the "you don't trust me" card when he persists in using the condom.
Men, you are the only ones who are reliable when it comes to the issue of birth control. Take the responsibility away from her, and ensure that you are using birth control. The only sure way to know birth control is being used is by wearing a condom.
As for the "you don't trust me" card, her temporary happiness is nothing compared to 18 years of child support payments.
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