asking a girl out without saying "would you go out with me"

GTac01 · 11-01-2005, 07:43 PM

What are ways to ask a girl out without saying it? Anything that would signify we're "going out" if she "accepts" it...

Morphiex · 11-01-2005, 07:56 PM

wanna hang out sometime ?....

wanna go and eat at (.....) ?

we should do soemthing one day.....

i know something fun we can do on ...day

ect... ect... ect....

lots of ways

use your imagination.....

GTac01 · 11-01-2005, 08:10 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Morphiex
wanna hang out sometime ?....

wanna go and eat at (.....) ?

we should do soemthing one day.....

i know something fun we can do on ...day

ect... ect... ect....

lots of ways

use your imagination.....

sounds good but... if she accepts, is she my girlfriend basically?

Zan · 11-01-2005, 08:16 PM

Who cares about the title of your relationship?

GTac01 · 11-01-2005, 08:18 PM

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Originally posted by Zan
Who cares about the title of your relationship?

good point... well, i wana have a "girlfriend" and i want her to say to her friends she has a "boyfriend"

DJ4Real · 11-01-2005, 08:24 PM

Get date. Get kiss. Get date again. Get kiss. Eventually it'll click to her that she's going out with you, act like her boyfriend. You'll have to be more envolved with her life, but at the same time keep the game up.

Good Luck

GTac01 · 11-01-2005, 08:27 PM

uhh, well yeah... once the mouth kiss happens, we're deff "going out"... hmm interesting... but what about before that?

jenzos · 11-01-2005, 08:51 PM

uhh okay.

im not sure how old you are. but once u hit high school. you cant really ask girls out like that. Its not really an instant thing anymore. you 1. have to be "talking" for awhile, 2. have to go out a few times. 3. all the above, and then it has to be said to be official.

GTac01 · 11-01-2005, 08:53 PM

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Originally posted by jenzos
uhh okay.

im not sure how old you are. but once u hit high school. you cant really ask girls out like that. Its not really an instant thing anymore. you 1. have to be "talking" for awhile, 2. have to go out a few times. 3. all the above, and then it has to be said to be official.

im a junior... HAH, sad...

DJ4Real · 11-01-2005, 08:55 PM

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Originally posted by jenzos
uhh okay.

im not sure how old you are. but once u hit high school. you cant really ask girls out like that. Its not really an instant thing anymore. you 1. have to be "talking" for awhile, 2. have to go out a few times. 3. all the above, and then it has to be said to be official.

Who are you talking about?

But, before hand, you have to make her attracted to you. Do things like, make her laugh, bust on her, give her mixed signals (to keep her guessing)...all those things combined will amplify attraction.

GateKeeper · 11-01-2005, 09:21 PM

Yes, less rules.
After the first kiss... your not "officiall going out". That just sets yourself up for disapointment.

I know it's HARD to here and practice, but it's essential that you don't care about that kind of thing. BECAUSE, after a while, when you practice what DJ4Real said... you will be a couple.

Good luck friend.

Docs · 11-03-2005, 09:54 PM

holy ****..

Ok, so we have this random girl...any girl..pick any one out there.

- Connect on an interest (books, tv, movie, clothes..), more commonly referred to as the ICE BREAKER.

- You talk with her for a bit, depends on your stance on the rules of this game.

*following my rules now..*

- You try to find a point in the convo where you can suggest meeting up with her to talk more...about whatsuch wonderful things already (math!! wooo) or just to have coffee. It's not a date, and it's a good spot. Even the highly blunt "You want to go to 'x' for coffee??" works wonders.

Basically, though all that blabber I just talked about, by the end of this convo, you want to come out with a meeting, or some knowledge of where to find her next time

- So you contact her again though whatever method. You talk and here is where you throw in some personal mix and jingles. IE) C&F, etcetc.

The rest...the progression to couple status...is up to how it all works out. It'll fail maybe, maybe it'll pass, who knows.

---

Now...here's one of those cheezy FRs to help prove the point.

So I have this friend of 2 years over msn, seen her once a long time ago so there's been some time between sightings. Just for the random hell of it..since I got a car (and i've been doing crazy stuff with the car lately), I decided to start proding about her and driving cars. It turns out that she's never driven before.

So I suggested some driving lessons, and all in one, I picked up her address and phone number (because I needed it).

So I pick her up and brought her to a relatively quiet area (it's about a figure 8 with a few turn arounds). Pulled over to the side of the road and switched. Explained a few things, got her to start moving, turn the corner and yea.

Bascially, it was Driving 101. The difference was that after she got the hang of turning/stopping, you take the wheel and demostrate somewhat proper turns. This is where the turn arounds were good. Because I was such a random person, I flew into this turn around, geared down (only 4 cylinder, not enough HP) and spun the car around, geared out and took off out of the turn around. I then proceeded to acclerate and turn a few corners with lots of speed. Gave her back the wheel and let her drive for a bit and then took it back. (it scared her o.0)

I then drove elsewhere while talking to her, just basic what's up/talking about stuff/etc, got lost so she helped me find my way slightly...

*Click*, Fast Forward.

Since I knew of this little overlook on a hill deal on this side road, I took that road with some speed (short...400m), turned the corners ever so fun and pulled in quickly to the spot. Looked at the pretty lights and commented on them. I then put the car in reverse (to back out), but saying "I know what to do now!" and whipping the car in a backwards donut somehow caused her hand to go to the E-Brake..(magic I swear :P).

Held her hand, went for coffee, drove her home, end story.

[]D [] []V[] []D · 11-04-2005, 08:26 PM

And this is supposed to pimp her out?

Phat · 11-05-2005, 08:16 AM

Just ask her out.. If she likes you then shes deffently going to say YES either its the most cornist way of doing it.

11-01-2005, 07:43 PM	#1
GTac01 Senior Don Juan Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 253	asking a girl out without saying "would you go out with me" What are ways to ask a girl out without saying it? Anything that would signify we're "going out" if she "accepts" it...

11-01-2005, 07:56 PM	#2
Morphiex Master Don Juan Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 668	wanna hang out sometime ?.... wanna go and eat at (.....) ? we should do soemthing one day..... i know something fun we can do on ...day ect... ect... ect.... lots of ways use your imagination.....

11-01-2005, 08:16 PM	#4
Zan Don Juan Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: SoCal Posts: 6	Who cares about the title of your relationship?

11-01-2005, 08:24 PM	#6
DJ4Real Master Don Juan Join Date: Sep 2005 Age: 27 Posts: 963	Get date. Get kiss. Get date again. Get kiss. Eventually it'll click to her that she's going out with you, act like her boyfriend. You'll have to be more envolved with her life, but at the same time keep the game up. Good Luck

11-01-2005, 08:27 PM	#7
GTac01 Senior Don Juan Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 253	uhh, well yeah... once the mouth kiss happens, we're deff "going out"... hmm interesting... but what about before that?

11-01-2005, 08:51 PM	#8
jenzos Don Juan Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 92	uhh okay. im not sure how old you are. but once u hit high school. you cant really ask girls out like that. Its not really an instant thing anymore. you 1. have to be "talking" for awhile, 2. have to go out a few times. 3. all the above, and then it has to be said to be official.

11-01-2005, 09:21 PM	#11
GateKeeper Don Juan Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 70	Yes, less rules. After the first kiss... your not "officiall going out". That just sets yourself up for disapointment. I know it's HARD to here and practice, but it's essential that you don't care about that kind of thing. BECAUSE, after a while, when you practice what DJ4Real said... you will be a couple. Good luck friend.

11-03-2005, 09:54 PM	#12
Docs Banned Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Kingston, Can-a-duh Posts: 3,627	holy ***.. Ok, so we have this random girl...any girl..pick any one out there. - Connect on an interest (books, tv, movie, clothes..), more commonly referred to as the ICE BREAKER. - You talk with her for a bit, depends on your stance on the rules of this game. following my rules now..* - You try to find a point in the convo where you can suggest meeting up with her to talk more...about whatsuch wonderful things already (math!! wooo) or just to have coffee. It's not a date, and it's a good spot. Even the highly blunt "You want to go to 'x' for coffee??" works wonders. Basically, though all that blabber I just talked about, by the end of this convo, you want to come out with a meeting, or some knowledge of where to find her next time - So you contact her again though whatever method. You talk and here is where you throw in some personal mix and jingles. IE) C&F, etcetc. The rest...the progression to couple status...is up to how it all works out. It'll fail maybe, maybe it'll pass, who knows. --- Now...here's one of those cheezy FRs to help prove the point. So I have this friend of 2 years over msn, seen her once a long time ago so there's been some time between sightings. Just for the random hell of it..since I got a car (and i've been doing crazy stuff with the car lately), I decided to start proding about her and driving cars. It turns out that she's never driven before. So I suggested some driving lessons, and all in one, I picked up her address and phone number (because I needed it). So I pick her up and brought her to a relatively quiet area (it's about a figure 8 with a few turn arounds). Pulled over to the side of the road and switched. Explained a few things, got her to start moving, turn the corner and yea. Bascially, it was Driving 101. The difference was that after she got the hang of turning/stopping, you take the wheel and demostrate somewhat proper turns. This is where the turn arounds were good. Because I was such a random person, I flew into this turn around, geared down (only 4 cylinder, not enough HP) and spun the car around, geared out and took off out of the turn around. I then proceeded to acclerate and turn a few corners with lots of speed. Gave her back the wheel and let her drive for a bit and then took it back. (it scared her o.0) I then drove elsewhere while talking to her, just basic what's up/talking about stuff/etc, got lost so she helped me find my way slightly... Click, Fast Forward. Since I knew of this little overlook on a hill deal on this side road, I took that road with some speed (short...400m), turned the corners ever so fun and pulled in quickly to the spot. Looked at the pretty lights and commented on them. I then put the car in reverse (to back out), but saying "I know what to do now!" and whipping the car in a backwards donut somehow caused her hand to go to the E-Brake..(magic I swear :P). Held her hand, went for coffee, drove her home, end story.

11-04-2005, 08:26 PM	#13
[]D [] []V[] []D Senior Don Juan Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Canada Posts: 279	And this is supposed to pimp her out?

11-05-2005, 08:16 AM	#14
Phat Senior Don Juan Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 390	Just ask her out.. If she likes you then shes deffently going to say YES either its the most cornist way of doing it.