The emoticon rollercoaster

[check_mate_kid_uk]

I remember my post on, "the secret to popularity is making people feel good about themselves"

This will get you friends for sure, but will it get you women? I’m still not convinced!

What emoticons do you think you have to put women through for them to like you?

I was told by Desdinova you need to put them through an emotional rollercoaster, sounds like he’s on to something but its to vague.

Here are sum of the more commonly known emotions we may feel

* Envy
* Disgust
* Worry
* Stress
* Boredom
* Sadness
* Loneliness
* Optimism
* Fear
* Anxiety
* Happiness
* Depression
* Disappointment
* Excited
* Sympathy
* Passion
* Fluster
* Embarrassment
* Affection

If you feel all of these it most certainly is an emotional roller coaster. So I’m looking at these, do you want her to feel envy? Well a celebrity is envied, yet women flock to them. I do not think there are many people who shout about how they want to be friends with a celebrity!

But in a relationship people can feel jealous and envy each other and split up as a result because the other person is so popular and leads such an exciting life that it makes you feel crap. IF you are envied a girl will like you till she gets to know oyu better.

Women want a guy who is more then ordinary, but don’t portray yourself as to great. Making them envy you for what ever reason be it your job or the girls chasing after you is good in small amounts, because envy is the feeling that some one else has something you do not and you want it! Do not over do it or they will get sick of feeling like number 2

Make them envy your life style but not excessively, do not brag

Disgust is something that is not good, it is a very strong word and if a women feels disgusted with you it is truly bad, so do not try and make her feel disgusted.

Worry is a negative feeling, there are some negative feelings you do want to make her feel, one of which is similar to worry, but worry is something you do when you owe the bank $10,000 and just lost your job and are totally broke, you do not want to make a girl feel that.

Stress is a lot like worry and again you do not want to make her feel stressed!

Boredom, I don’t think I even need to explain how bad this one is.

Sadness, this is very hard, truly a negative feeling, but i think it could be an all important part of the roller coaster ride. If you make them feel sad and depressed they will hate you, but what if you make them feel sad then happy then sad, you will really take them for a ride, druggy’s feel lows but they still take drugs for the highs.

Make her feel sad sometimes, take her for a ride!

Loneliness is the feeling of not having any one else, and you certainly want to make her feel like she does not have you from time to time, because this will make her want you more.

Make her lonely for you, if she feels like she does not always have you she will want you more, so don’t always be there for her

You should be optimistic, as for making her feel optimistic that’s not something you should try and do you are not her therapist, just be optimistic yourself, but don’t over do it, look for the best in things but do not over do it because it just looks lame.

Fear and anxiety, I will do together. You want her to feel this sometimes that is why going to a theme park is so good. Do not make her fear you, or be anxious because of you, but if from time to time she feels like this then that is good, even if you don’t like a theme park ride you still come back for more unless it makes you feel ill. She could be anxious because your all alone at night in the woods and she hears something in the bushes but don’t make her anxious because of you, although you make her anxious because of the situation, like when she says what is that in the bush make a sudden movement towards her to make her jump!

It is good if she feels fear and is anxious from time to time but not if it is fear of you

She should be feeling happiness most of the time other then the small gaps when she is feeling the negative emoticons, happiness should be the majority of the time otherwise when she thinks of you she will not think of being happy!

Depression is like sadness but is far more extreme so you do not want her to feel depressed, sometimes people say depressed when they mean sad but depressed is far worse and long term compared to being sad.

Disappointment, is when she wants to meet up and you are busy, its good to make her feel disappointed, not because being disappointed is good but because the other feelings she gets from the situation, she sees you are not there for her the whole time, you have a life apart from her etc

Excited is really important its like happy but even more so its hard to make a girl feel excited, but when you can do it, could be because you are taking her somewhere she really wants to go!

Sympathy is bad, if she hits you jokingly and you pretend you are hurt, that’s fine its just a joke, she finds it cute. Do not make her feel sympathetic for you and pity you don’t just go and tell eh how bad your day was do not make her pity you

Do not make her pity you

Passion and affection I will do together, there’s are just the feelings the other emoticons will get, you want her to feel these but there are by products of the rest, sure you need to do certain other things such as flirting, but after flirting can be categorised as being certain ones of the above emoticons.

Fluster is important, making her feel confused, in fact it is what you are doing with all the above, she is feeling very confused when you do all that and it is a good thing, but don’t try and confuse her with what you say such as just say things that confuse people, but confuse her with your actions!

Confuse her with your actions

Embarrassment is when you feel inadequate but that’s a strong way to put it. Don’t make her feel embarrassed of you but if you make her feel embarrassed about something else she has done but not truly embarrassed, you just point something out jokingly that makes her faces go red with embarrassment, used in this way it is a great feeling to make a girl feel from time to time.

So remember, make her feel mostly happy but often sad because this up and down effect will drag her towards you. Make her feel excited when ever you can, its hard to do so don’t waste any chances. Make her feel embarrassed from time to time as well. It works wonders, now throw in the, loneliness and slight envy mixed in with the occasional anxious moment and disappointment.

The emoticon rollercoaster- written by check mate kid, inspired by Desdinova

Have you got any ideas of your own?

[manuva]

I don't think I've ever put anyone through an emoticon before.

[WesCottII]

I do not mean to be an arse. However, you recently made a post entitled "help", women only ever see me as a friend. What makes you think we should try this advice if you have had no success?

[Reiki]

Originally posted by WesCottII
I do not mean to be an arse. However, you recently made a post entitled "help", women only ever see me as a friend. What makes you think we should try this advice if you have had no success?

You shouldn't just take blind advice from people on messageboards, even if they are and/or appear to be the expert, always research it yourself.

But I can vouch for this tip, its true that women don't just want 'good' feelings, they also want the 'bad' feelings in a relationship.

[Desdinova]

Very cool post! If I may elaborate on some of the things you brought out...

So I’m looking at these, do you want her to feel envy?

This is one that usually comes before having any kind of relationship with a woman. She'll see women flock to you, or she'll see you kiss one of them. She'll want to become that woman who should be so lucky. This drives women to become competitive.

But in a relationship people can feel jealous

Jealousy is good in small doses. Women will get jealous when another woman is attracted to a man they're dating. They will get jealous if their man is talking to another woman. It actually helps them realize that their man has value.

Disgust is something that is not good, it is a very strong word and if a women feels disgusted with you it is truly bad, so do not try and make her feel disgusted.

I think it all depends on the level of disgust. I've had many women tell me "You're disgusting!" However, that may come into the category of women not always meaning what they say.

A dash of disgust here and there isn't going to be bad. However, being overly-disgusting won't go over well. Creating bits of disgust using cocky/funny will work well. "I know you fantasize about me letting you stick your finger up my ass." It will cause an emotional reaction, and probably will earn you a playful slap on the shoulder while she says, "You're disgusting!"

Worry is a negative feeling, there are some negative feelings you do want to make her feel, one of which is similar to worry

Worrying about you isn't necessarily a bad thing. Depends on who she's worrying about and in what context. She will start to worry when you're late. She starts thinking about you and what could have happened to you. It gets her thinking about you.

If she's worried that she's with the wrong guy, she's not thinking about you; she's thinking about herself.

Stress is a lot like worry and again you do not want to make her feel stressed!

I'll agree with this, but people usually cause stress on their own. Perhaps the word you're looking for is pressure. Pressuring someone usually indicates a controlling person. Pressure should not be used.

Boredom, I don’t think I even need to explain how bad this one is.

Agreed, but people can bring on their own boredom.

Sadness, this is very hard, truly a negative feeling, but i think it could be an all important part of the roller coaster ride.

Sadness is good in small doses. She'll be sad that you're working overtime and can't see her tonight. Again, it gets her thinking about you.



What you want to avoid is having her associate the negative emotions with you. That's why the negative ones are fine in small doses. The positive ones are good in large doses, and you'll do well if she associates you with happiness and excitement.

Loneliness is the feeling of not having any one else, and you certainly want to make her feel like she does not have you from time to time, because this will make her want you more.

Agreed. If she's lonely, she'll be thinking about you. A great example of this is when a girl you broke up with (and cut all contact) ends up wanting you back.

You should be optimistic, as for making her feel optimistic that’s not something you should try and do you are not her therapist,

Optimism isn't really an emotion, it causes emotions.

Do not make her fear you, or be anxious because of you

Fear is usually caused by one's self. She can fear losing you, which yet again gets her thinking about you. She can fear losing something valuable, but fearing you isn't a good thing.

She should be feeling happiness most of the time other then the small gaps when she is feeling the negative emoticons, happiness should be the majority of the time otherwise when she thinks of you she will not think of being happy!

I agree 100%.

Depression is like sadness but is far more extreme so you do not want her to feel depressed,

Agreed. Depression is usually brought on by one's self.

Disappointment, is when she wants to meet up and you are busy,

This can be good in small doses. Again, once she relates disappointment to you, you're out.

Excited is really important its like happy but even more so its hard to make a girl feel excited,

Excitement is the result of the emotional rollercoaster ride.

Sympathy is bad

Sympathy is a way of relating to someone's emotions, just like empathy and pity.

Passion and affection

These are words that describe ways of displaying emotions. You show a passion for an activity. You show affection for a living being.

Fluster is important

It is the emotional rollercoaster in effect.

Confuse her with your actions

The result of the emotional rollercoaster. If you've given her more happiness than the negative emotions, confusion will be written off by happiness. If she is confused in a more negative way, she'll be avoiding you.

Embarrassment is when you feel inadequate but that’s a strong way to put it

Just like disgust, it works well in small doses. If you make her feel like an idiot and an a55hole much of the time, she's going to stay away from you.

I don't know if you noticed this when you were writing your post, but there is really only one positive emotion: happy. The rest pretty much fall into the negative category, although they can have positive results.

[Iamnotacrook]

emotions = feelings

emoticons =

[The-Sultan]

Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
emotions = feelings

emoticons =

thats the whole post right there.