Afraid to approach?

rapsta · 08-18-2005, 09:12 PM

So many articles on here, and I don't doubt a second that many people on here actually go home from a club or a bar without approaching a single woman.

Say u wanna approach women/girls/slvts whatever. Say u want a girlfriend/ONS/loving?
Well I've been thinking of something lately. And don't read this shyt like a magazine article. Try to feel what I'm actually saying.
It's probably written a hundered times but I just wanna let you know what motivates me alot.

Most people on here, I believe we're around 20-25yrs old/young?
Time ain't on our side either. From the moment you clicked on my thread, you've probably spent 30 seconds reading this.
Don't take time for granted. In fact, don't take anything for granted. We're not immortal! U read me? NOT IMMORTAL. We're all dying.

So what will happen if you approach a girl? She might have a insecure boyfriend that will try to kick the shyt out of you? Will she pull out a gun and shoot you for saying hello? No she wont.
And even if she will, who the fvck cares? We're all dying.

"Yeah but that would be stupid, if i don't approach her none of that will happen", well u know what? if u don't approach her, NOTHING will happen.
But INSTEAD, you might get ran over by a bus on the way home. Having nothing achieved, hows that?

"Whats all this bullshyt about dying?" Well I just wanted to remind ya'll that we're not robots.
We're AGEING. GETTING OLDER. You've prolly spent 2-3 minutes now. Doesn't sound like much huh? Yeah I know. But it is.

"Yeah but I'm getting educated on how to be a pimp", you can do that on your own my friend. You know? A REAL WORLD! You forgot about that? Too much media, video games, internet, webcam? Too much virtuosity messed up your mind?

Ever thought about how your mindset would be if you were living in a non-computerized world? Ever tried to symphatize with that kind of world?
"Why would i wanna do that?, I'm having fun chatting on messenger and playing GTA"
Did you forget that you wanna have sex/be loved/etc?

APPROACH GOD DAMNIT!!!!!!!!!!
We're not getting any younger. You might not pay attention to your ageing but you're getting f*cking older man. Enjoy life on this planet. Don't be so f*cking serious about everything. Let loose.
F*ck what THEY think of you!!!!!!! because we're all the same species. They are going to die one day as well, just like you are.
And who gives a shyt about your mistakes and failures then? Do you think anyone actually cares man? They just want something to hate on because you've got more game than them.

You think you will look desperate in the other girls' eyes if you approach a girl and get rejected? So be it. They'll have a great time laughing at you. Stupid hors probably think they are better than you, that they will live forever

don't realize that you're all the same species. YOU'LL DIE ONE DAY AS WELL!!! LAUGH AT THAT YOU SMART HOR!!! ====))))))))))))))))))))))))

Now seriously, live your life instead of reading about other peoples lives. If someone wanted you to live Señor Fingers life (for example), you would be born as a clone of him instead and not as yourself. So enjoy your youth, because it won't last forever.
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Now I didn't write this shyt to get status on the boards =) I really don't give a shyt what people think about me on the internet. I just wanted to let ya'll know what motivates me, might motivate you too. Peace

Flogger · 08-18-2005, 09:18 PM

Amen brotha! (no, seriously)

selfmademob · 08-18-2005, 11:52 PM

This seriously is a great post. props man!

animal crackers · 08-19-2005, 03:14 AM

SO true...

The problem is that guys will read this late at night, and get all pumped up.

"yea tomorrow i'm gonna approach"

But the guy won't be in the same mood tomorrow as right after he read this post, and then tomorrow never comes.

The universal truth is you just have to do it. That's it.

animal crackers

rapsta · 08-19-2005, 05:22 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by animal crackers
SO true...

The problem is that guys will read this late at night, and get all pumped up.

"yea tomorrow i'm gonna approach"

But the guy won't be in the same mood tomorrow as right after he read this post, and then tomorrow never comes.

The universal truth is you just have to do it. That's it.

animal crackers

feel you animal crackers. thats exactly why i wrote "feel it, dont read it like a mag article"
hope it helps people like it does to me

bbestar · 08-19-2005, 07:37 PM

oh man, im old..

Oh well, if I never approach, so be it...
Atleast I have God in my heart.

Smooth Player 056 · 08-20-2005, 12:36 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by animal crackers
SO true...

The problem is that guys will read this late at night, and get all pumped up.

"yea tomorrow i'm gonna approach"

But the guy won't be in the same mood tomorrow as right after he read this post, and then tomorrow never comes.

The universal truth is you just have to do it. That's it.

animal crackers

exactly

- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique

Mojo604 · 08-20-2005, 03:57 AM

Thanks for that, dude... really needed to read that right now.

Visceral · 08-20-2005, 05:38 PM

When you let things like fear, pain, and difficulty stop you from doing something, it says that it doesn't really mean that much to you.

My psychologist said to me that this is the only real explanation for this phenomenon, that when you find yourself paying attention to the pitfalls of pursuing something and being discouraged by them, it means that whatever that something is doesn't have sufficient value to you.

People tend to ignore the effort when it's something they really want.

08-18-2005, 09:12 PM	#1
rapsta Senior Don Juan Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Sweden Posts: 349	Afraid to approach? So many articles on here, and I don't doubt a second that many people on here actually go home from a club or a bar without approaching a single woman. Say u wanna approach women/girls/slvts whatever. Say u want a girlfriend/ONS/loving? Well I've been thinking of something lately. And don't read this shyt like a magazine article. Try to feel what I'm actually saying. It's probably written a hundered times but I just wanna let you know what motivates me alot. Most people on here, I believe we're around 20-25yrs old/young? Time ain't on our side either. From the moment you clicked on my thread, you've probably spent 30 seconds reading this. Don't take time for granted. In fact, don't take anything for granted. We're not immortal! U read me? NOT IMMORTAL. We're all dying. So what will happen if you approach a girl? She might have a insecure boyfriend that will try to kick the shyt out of you? Will she pull out a gun and shoot you for saying hello? No she wont. And even if she will, who the fvck cares? We're all dying. "Yeah but that would be stupid, if i don't approach her none of that will happen", well u know what? if u don't approach her, NOTHING will happen. But INSTEAD, you might get ran over by a bus on the way home. Having nothing achieved, hows that? "Whats all this bullshyt about dying?" Well I just wanted to remind ya'll that we're not robots. We're AGEING. GETTING OLDER. You've prolly spent 2-3 minutes now. Doesn't sound like much huh? Yeah I know. But it is. "Yeah but I'm getting educated on how to be a pimp", you can do that on your own my friend. You know? A REAL WORLD! You forgot about that? Too much media, video games, internet, webcam? Too much virtuosity messed up your mind? Ever thought about how your mindset would be if you were living in a non-computerized world? Ever tried to symphatize with that kind of world? "Why would i wanna do that?, I'm having fun chatting on messenger and playing GTA" Did you forget that you wanna have sex/be loved/etc? APPROACH GOD DAMNIT!!!!!!!!!! We're not getting any younger. You might not pay attention to your ageing but you're getting fcking older man. Enjoy life on this planet. Don't be so fcking serious about everything. Let loose. F*ck what THEY think of you!!!!!!! because we're all the same species. They are going to die one day as well, just like you are. And who gives a shyt about your mistakes and failures then? Do you think anyone actually cares man? They just want something to hate on because you've got more game than them. You think you will look desperate in the other girls' eyes if you approach a girl and get rejected? So be it. They'll have a great time laughing at you. Stupid hors probably think they are better than you, that they will live forever don't realize that you're all the same species. YOU'LL DIE ONE DAY AS WELL!!! LAUGH AT THAT YOU SMART HOR!!! ====)))))))))))))))))))))))) Now seriously, live your life instead of reading about other peoples lives. If someone wanted you to live Señor Fingers life (for example), you would be born as a clone of him instead and not as yourself. So enjoy your youth, because it won't last forever. ------------------ Now I didn't write this shyt to get status on the boards =) I really don't give a shyt what people think about me on the internet. I just wanted to let ya'll know what motivates me, might motivate you too. Peace

08-18-2005, 09:18 PM	#2
Flogger Don Juan Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 115	Amen brotha! (no, seriously) __________________ Floggerology

08-19-2005, 07:37 PM	#6
bbestar Banned Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Monte Carlo, Monaco Posts: 824	oh man, im old.. Oh well, if I never approach, so be it... Atleast I have God in my heart. Last edited by bbestar : 08-19-2005 at 11:29 PM.

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08-18-2005, 11:52 PM	#3
selfmademob Banned Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: San Antonio Age: 26 Posts: 259	This seriously is a great post. props man!

08-19-2005, 03:14 AM	#4
animal crackers Senior Don Juan Join Date: May 2003 Location: Project Chicago Age: 27 Posts: 347	SO true... The problem is that guys will read this late at night, and get all pumped up. "yea tomorrow i'm gonna approach" But the guy won't be in the same mood tomorrow as right after he read this post, and then tomorrow never comes. The universal truth is you just have to do it. That's it. animal crackers

08-20-2005, 03:57 AM	#8
Mojo604 Senior Don Juan Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Vancouver Age: 28 Posts: 224	Thanks for that, dude... really needed to read that right now.

08-20-2005, 05:38 PM	#9
Visceral Master Don Juan Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 581	When you let things like fear, pain, and difficulty stop you from doing something, it says that it doesn't really mean that much to you. My psychologist said to me that this is the only real explanation for this phenomenon, that when you find yourself paying attention to the pitfalls of pursuing something and being discouraged by them, it means that whatever that something is doesn't have sufficient value to you. People tend to ignore the effort when it's something they really want.