Been in the same situation. status: unresolved. i dont know what to make of it to be honest.
We were all out clubbing, and a couple of buds n myself were doing shots like M&Ms.... and she had told me earlier that day that she had a bf (well i saw a picture of him n her on her computer, and she told me who he was). She kept asking me if there was anything going on between other girls i was friends with, which was a bit odd since i had only known her for a couple of days. No problem...moved into 'friend' mode.
Then, at the club.... 3 shots and 3 beers later, she comes up and says "so do u like 'thisothergirl' ?" i say...."yeah shes cool. nice bunch of ppl, all u new guys seem great fun. its going to be a great semester" then she says "i really like you, your a great guy. Anytime you goto the beach let me know."..blah blah blah. i missed the rest of what she said...loud music and alcohol kicking in. Buddy pulls me away to do another shot.
After that, she pretty much ignores me completely for months. just plain awkward. id say hello, and only her friend(whos always with her) would talk to me, she wouldnt even say hello.
My attitude. shes got a problem...she can take care of it. i wasnt being rude or did anything wrong(that i know of). I dont know what was going through her mind though. but i didnt stop being friendly with her and she chose to ignore me. oh well.
If anyone can shed some light on this behaviour, please do.