Becoming truly successful in the area of seduction requires one to cultivate the habit of courage. That much we know for certain. You won't get far with women if your knees start shaking the moment you think of approaching one.
But how do you develop that priceless habit? Just like any other: through repetition. "Fear is conquered through forced repetition of acts of courage." Read that quote again. Understanding of this principle is absolutely crucial.
It's so important that i edited it into my desktop wallpaper to ensure that i'm reminded of this fact many times throughout the day. Beside it is a question: "What am i afraid of doing RIGHT NOW?"
I ask myself that question every hour of every day and immediately force myself to do whatever it is i'm afraid of. The trick is being honest with myself about what i'm afraid of. Remember, there are many forms of fear. Procrastination is a very common one.
Believe it or not, you procrastinate because you're afraid. Of what? The effort. For example, say you need to make a phonecall, one you think may turn unpleasant. The task takes two minutes and yet it can easily take you two weeks to do if every day you tell yourself that you'll "do it tomorrow."
Eventually, you start to feel so bad about it that you give up and make the call. Five minutes later, you feel relieved... and a little surprised. "What the hell took me so long? This actually felt GOOD!" Conquer one small fear like that and then move on to another.
Give this a shot f and i guarantee that meeting chicks will become a whole lot easier. If you spent your entire day conquering your fears, when you finally see a girl you like in the evening, you'll instinctively approach her, without thinking. What's more, you'll be in a great mood because you've been kicking ass all day.
Try it and see!
But how do you develop that priceless habit? Just like any other: through repetition. "Fear is conquered through forced repetition of acts of courage." Read that quote again. Understanding of this principle is absolutely crucial.
It's so important that i edited it into my desktop wallpaper to ensure that i'm reminded of this fact many times throughout the day. Beside it is a question: "What am i afraid of doing RIGHT NOW?"
I ask myself that question every hour of every day and immediately force myself to do whatever it is i'm afraid of. The trick is being honest with myself about what i'm afraid of. Remember, there are many forms of fear. Procrastination is a very common one.
Believe it or not, you procrastinate because you're afraid. Of what? The effort. For example, say you need to make a phonecall, one you think may turn unpleasant. The task takes two minutes and yet it can easily take you two weeks to do if every day you tell yourself that you'll "do it tomorrow."
Eventually, you start to feel so bad about it that you give up and make the call. Five minutes later, you feel relieved... and a little surprised. "What the hell took me so long? This actually felt GOOD!" Conquer one small fear like that and then move on to another.
Give this a shot f and i guarantee that meeting chicks will become a whole lot easier. If you spent your entire day conquering your fears, when you finally see a girl you like in the evening, you'll instinctively approach her, without thinking. What's more, you'll be in a great mood because you've been kicking ass all day.
Try it and see!
The point to keep in mind though, is that the great majority of our fears are small, day-to-day things that are brought on by destructive habits such as procrastination. For instance: vaccuming the carpet, fixing the squeaky chair, tuning the audio system, repairing a leaking faucet, going grocery shopping, buying light bulbs, painting a wall, taking out the trash, doing the laundry, etc. It is IMPOSSIBLE to feel confident and in control when you have a dozen of these annoying little chores in the back of your head. That's why the first assignment in a certain self-improvement workshop is to write down five things that should have been done a long time ago, and do them, right now.
