This whole post comes down to just ONE thing:
ALWAYS BE POSITIVE!
This simple statement can and must be taken in two different ways:
1. Always be positive externally.
2. Always be positive internally.
Always be positive externally
This one is fairly easy to get used to and will make a BIG difference in the way people think of you. Rules are simple. Don’t complain about anything. Not your ex g/f (which is bad anyway), not your co-workers, not your boss, not your parents. I could go on whith things like: don’t complain about the weather, about your lack of money, about your car etc but I hope you already got the point by now. Also: don’t be seduced to gossip about anyone.
Explanation: Even though you might be faily optimistic in general, complaining about the tiniest things will cause people to have a negative image of you. For example, when you meet a nice girl, do not talk about the things you don’t like, instead, talk about the things you do like, or even better: talk about what SHE likes. This way people will eventually end up having a lot of respect for you. This behaviour shows them you can handle anything and you will not be brought down by difficult situations.
Always be positive internally
This one may be a little harder for you to actually put into practise but trust me: it can be done and it will affect your life in ways you can’t even imagine.
I don’t care how rich, goodlooking, carefree or healthy you are: EVERYONE eventually runs into difficult situations. Some you can handle, some you’d try to run away from but the fact is: It all depends on how you view the situation. In any of these situations, try to see the positive side.
Got laid off? It was probably time for you to get another one anyway since you never really liked it there anyway. Being laid off in this situation is actually a push to go out and get something else.
It’s raining outside while you were planning on going to the beach? Screw it: Just do some of the paperwork that has been waiting for you, so next time the sun shines, you can go to the beach without this paperwork on your mind.
The examples might not be the best but I hope you understand the point. Being positive like this will make you carefree and optimistic and will eventually lead to a naturally positive attitude that can affect many things like your selfesteem, the way you handle people in general and the way you deal with problems in all areas of your life. You will feel so much better about yourself and everyone around you.
Good luck.
ALWAYS BE POSITIVE!
This simple statement can and must be taken in two different ways:
1. Always be positive externally.
2. Always be positive internally.
Always be positive externally
This one is fairly easy to get used to and will make a BIG difference in the way people think of you. Rules are simple. Don’t complain about anything. Not your ex g/f (which is bad anyway), not your co-workers, not your boss, not your parents. I could go on whith things like: don’t complain about the weather, about your lack of money, about your car etc but I hope you already got the point by now. Also: don’t be seduced to gossip about anyone.
Explanation: Even though you might be faily optimistic in general, complaining about the tiniest things will cause people to have a negative image of you. For example, when you meet a nice girl, do not talk about the things you don’t like, instead, talk about the things you do like, or even better: talk about what SHE likes. This way people will eventually end up having a lot of respect for you. This behaviour shows them you can handle anything and you will not be brought down by difficult situations.
Always be positive internally
This one may be a little harder for you to actually put into practise but trust me: it can be done and it will affect your life in ways you can’t even imagine.
I don’t care how rich, goodlooking, carefree or healthy you are: EVERYONE eventually runs into difficult situations. Some you can handle, some you’d try to run away from but the fact is: It all depends on how you view the situation. In any of these situations, try to see the positive side.
Got laid off? It was probably time for you to get another one anyway since you never really liked it there anyway. Being laid off in this situation is actually a push to go out and get something else.
It’s raining outside while you were planning on going to the beach? Screw it: Just do some of the paperwork that has been waiting for you, so next time the sun shines, you can go to the beach without this paperwork on your mind.
The examples might not be the best but I hope you understand the point. Being positive like this will make you carefree and optimistic and will eventually lead to a naturally positive attitude that can affect many things like your selfesteem, the way you handle people in general and the way you deal with problems in all areas of your life. You will feel so much better about yourself and everyone around you.
Good luck.