Baby Momma issues

MarkHammond · 06-01-2004, 10:22 AM

Look my baby moms is 19 years old which is fairly young. She used to be real clingy until i urged her to chill with her friends and stuff because it isnt healthy to be under me all the time. Now she is going out more and hanging with her friends and its great but now I feel like I should just step off for a while and enjoy this while it lasts. I dont want her to get to comfortable with her friends and start doin the wrong thing. But will she get clingy again if I give her this space?

Chewy Bagel · 06-01-2004, 01:23 PM

I have one of those magic 8-balls. I'll let you use it.

ShortTimer · 06-01-2004, 06:59 PM

"Oh magic 8 ball, is death really the answer?"

:shakes his 8 ball:

8 ball says: "Shut up and die."

penkitten · 06-01-2004, 07:48 PM

why dont you just make coffee on your way out?

WaterTiger · 06-02-2004, 12:22 AM

She's chilling with friends...and you're "stepping off".

Who's watching the baby?

PuertoRican_Lover · 06-02-2004, 02:19 AM

You mean she will get clingy again if you 'don't give her this space. This isn't that latina you were dating which you referred to in your last post, is she?

Why can't she still hang out with her friends but not 'party' - is it the going out to party that is bothering you?

FratAndDiddy · 06-10-2004, 12:06 AM

where is markhammond?

nothing like posting a thread and not getting the benefit of advice.

MarkHammond · 07-01-2004, 07:56 AM

ok a lil update. I recently graduated college so I have been focused on gettin a job and taking care of our daughter. My baby moms being only 19 wants to do all the things like go out eat and stuff. So recently she tells me that she has been going out with some dude who spends money on her and treats her to food and stuff. lol She says she not gonna have sex with him because she wants to continue having sex with me she just likes the fact that he does all them other things. Now me personally view this dude as a lifesaver because I love her as my daughters mother but i really dont have time for all that bf gf sh!t. So im thinking I should just cut her off sexually and just take care of my kid. What yall think?

Eileen · 07-01-2004, 12:56 PM

What do I think?

I think your child is going to need therapy. There is no substitue for having parents that love and are commited to each other.

You did ask what we thought.

Golden Arms · 07-01-2004, 01:46 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Eileen
What do I think?

I think your child is going to need therapy. There is no substitue for having parents that love and are commited to each other.

You did ask what we thought.

Hellooooooo professor !!

thissucks003 · 07-01-2004, 02:34 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Eileen
What do I think?

I think your child is going to need therapy. There is no substitue for having parents that love and are commited to each other.

You did ask what we thought.

I think Eileen brought up a very good point and we shouldn't discount how important a two parent family is to the development of child. The first five years are instrumental to what kind of adult your child will become. Pushing your girlfriend into other guys just so you don't have to deal with the boyfriend/girlfriend issues is doing a diservice to your child's development. Your child needs to see and be part of a loving relationship.

TS

06-01-2004, 10:22 AM	#1
MarkHammond Don Juan Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 163	Baby Momma issues Look my baby moms is 19 years old which is fairly young. She used to be real clingy until i urged her to chill with her friends and stuff because it isnt healthy to be under me all the time. Now she is going out more and hanging with her friends and its great but now I feel like I should just step off for a while and enjoy this while it lasts. I dont want her to get to comfortable with her friends and start doin the wrong thing. But will she get clingy again if I give her this space?

06-02-2004, 12:22 AM	#5
WaterTiger Master Don Juan Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Wine Country, Ca Age: 50 Posts: 1,728	She's chilling with friends...and you're "stepping off". Who's watching the baby? __________________ The only woman in America that actually LIKES the Three Stooges If a man talks dirty to a woman it's sexual harrassment. If a woman talks dirty to a man, it's $3.95 a minute.

06-01-2004, 01:23 PM	#2
Chewy Bagel Senior Don Juan Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Hoovering near HB8-10s Age: 39 Posts: 459	I have one of those magic 8-balls. I'll let you use it.

06-01-2004, 06:59 PM	#3
ShortTimer Banned Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: In my field of paper flowers and candy clouds of lullaby. Posts: 918	"Oh magic 8 ball, is death really the answer?" :shakes his 8 ball: 8 ball says: "Shut up and die."

06-01-2004, 07:48 PM	#4
penkitten Master Don Juan Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: at our house Age: 35 Posts: 8,076	why dont you just make coffee on your way out?

06-02-2004, 02:19 AM	#6
PuertoRican_Lover Banned Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Wisconsin. USA Posts: 4,287	You mean she will get clingy again if you 'don't give her this space. This isn't that latina you were dating which you referred to in your last post, is she? Why can't she still hang out with her friends but not 'party' - is it the going out to party that is bothering you?

06-10-2004, 12:06 AM	#7
FratAndDiddy Senior Don Juan Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Ohio Age: 55 Posts: 215	where is markhammond? nothing like posting a thread and not getting the benefit of advice.

07-01-2004, 07:56 AM	#8
MarkHammond Don Juan Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 163	ok a lil update. I recently graduated college so I have been focused on gettin a job and taking care of our daughter. My baby moms being only 19 wants to do all the things like go out eat and stuff. So recently she tells me that she has been going out with some dude who spends money on her and treats her to food and stuff. lol She says she not gonna have sex with him because she wants to continue having sex with me she just likes the fact that he does all them other things. Now me personally view this dude as a lifesaver because I love her as my daughters mother but i really dont have time for all that bf gf sh!t. So im thinking I should just cut her off sexually and just take care of my kid. What yall think?

07-01-2004, 12:56 PM	#9
Eileen Senior Don Juan Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 405	What do I think? I think your child is going to need therapy. There is no substitue for having parents that love and are commited to each other. You did ask what we thought.