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"My parents won't let me"

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Have you ever had a girl say to you "I would but my parents won't let me because they are afraid of me getting hurt. I would go out with you if I could though." If you can help me out understand this meaning or how to let the parents let her date me.
 
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ummm she dunt wanna go out wit u cuz who would tell their parents they are going out with a boy its the same as let me ask my parents
 
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There is one of two things she could be trying to get a cross to you:

1) She doesn't like you and is only trying to blow you off...

2) She does like you and she is telling the truth about her parents

If you are in category one, then sorry buddy... you're screwed and you might as well next her.

If you are in category two, then you are in luck. The attraction she feels for you can't be removed by anyone, not even her parents. I would work on building up her interest level until she doesn't care what her parents think and she will do anything with you if she can.
 
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If thats the exact quote i would guess its a blowoff. Its very corny and all she is really saying is "your a sweet guy and that if she really was attracted to you then she would go out with you".

If she was attracted to you then she would still go out with you at least unoficially and do **** with you. Attraction isnt a choice and if she really was attracted to you then she wouldnt have blown you off with the parents thing, its like your parents telling you that you cant like this girl. But no fvck it isnt going to work...
Now if she is in some wierd obsessed catholic family or something she may try to keep your relationship a secret and might not bang you in fear that they will find out but she wouldnt have told you off on the spot? understand where im comming from?

Truth can suck but it wouldnt suprise me if you see her going out with some ass who might actually hurt her in a week from now.

Review how you approached this girl and make sure you didnt do anything afc and go find another. GL bro
 
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Sounds like a textbook dodge to me. Find some other girls to DJ, forget about her for now.
 
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bump,

my first post was so cute :flowers: :moon: :up: looks like I changed a bit since I first got here :cool:

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Haha wow, I was looking at that and thinking, "that can't be the comic_relief who gives all that advice around here!" Then I looked at the date :p
 
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comic_relief said:
bump,

my first post was so cute :flowers: :moon: :up: looks like I changed a bit since I first got here :cool:

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Why did you bump up a 3 year old thread?
 
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TheVirtualMind said:
Why did you bump up a 3 year old thread?
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well if you would like to know Virtual Mind,

Sound good reason: Everyone gets to know that I was worse off than some people at some time way back when, and that means that if I was able to, than everyone should be able to change into a DJ/Man/whatever you call it.

Real Reason: I was just really bored and decided to have a good laugh by looking back at my first post. Then, I thought might as well give everyone else a good laugh :wave:

C'mon Virtual Mind, you cannot argue with me that when you saw it you didn't chuckle :trouble:


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So what happened?

Id've said that girls who "really" like you, wouldn't care what their Parents thought.
 
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WesCottII said:
So what happened?

Id've said that girls who "really" like you, wouldn't care what their Parents thought.
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they gotta care if they live in their house and are bound by their rules. or risk being grounded forever.
 
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Raikojo17 said:
they gotta care if they live in their house and are bound by their rules. or risk being grounded forever.
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Man you don't know girls. If they like a guy.....it wouldn't matter.
 
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WesCottII said:
So what happened?

Id've said that girls who "really" like you, wouldn't care what their Parents thought.
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Well, I stopped caring about her and just went on my self-improvement regiment and nothing ever happened with her because she didn't like me in any sexual way. She was pretty fvcked up too, just like I was at that point.

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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bump with a purpose.

comic_relief said:
bump,

my first post was so cute :flowers: :moon: :up: looks like I changed a bit since I first got here :cool:

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RIP Liz :(

I found out about two or three months ago that the girl that I was after passed away (cell phone driving accident) :(

It's weird to think about...

but this post still makes me giggle a little bit whenever I read it.

Oh I wish that I could go back and do it all over again with the personality that I have now. I would rule the fvcken school :p

comic_relief
 
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RIP Liz :(

I found out about two or three months ago that the girl that I was after passed away (cell phone driving accident) :(
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Thats sad.
 
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comic_relief said:
Have you ever had a girl say to you "I would but my parents won't let me because they are afraid of me getting hurt. I would go out with you if I could though." If you can help me out understand this meaning or how to let the parents let her date me.
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Translation: If you were more attractive, I'd go out with you. I am not interested in you and I might go out with a jerk who will beat me to a pulp.

Honestly, I did get a laugh out of this. If the girl had interest in you, she'd still make an effort to see you.
 
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