Naturalism: Part IV - The Truth Of Being The Catch

[Eric Smith]

Its one thing to really say you are a great catch. Its another to actually be the catch. You are getting a good body so props to you on that. However its your personality that reels her in. The attraction is just a hook. Developing interesting personalities is pretty tough. The first thing is to look inside to that inner child. What does that little inner child want?

To skydive?
To paint?
To freestyle rap?
Go on a nature hike?

Never let anything hold you back as long as it doesn't harm others. Notice I said inner child, not inner AFC. Inner AFC is telling us to supplicate like a reflex and stick to the proven. The inner child likes to explore. Do that. Meet up with interesting people. You may be as repressed as thinking that talking to a black man is an exploration (if you're white) Yes, our white ancestors did bad but who cares? They are people. Join a club. Be in an intramural sport. Just do what you feel like.

Most people initially like other people unless they are bitter. Be the life of the party. Of course that means not being smashed because you are just a fool that has nobody's respect. You will feel even better about yourself. Pursue those passions. I find it hard to believe that people's true passion is to sit on their ass, watch TV, and play PS2 all day. That is their inner AFC, the one that wants everyone to be held down and submit to the demands of negativity.

Be funny. I heard a quote that said the key to a woman's heart is laughter. In many cases its true. Why?

1) It shows you are lighthearted
2) It shows you are easygoing
3) You are not afraid to say something
4) You can force emotions onto people

Best of all, you are fun. Sarcasm works to an extent. Its a tad overused but the key here is variety. I love comedy movies. I like James Bond movies more but thats another matter. With a great comedy movie, you can start watching it feeling bitter and end feeling great.

The catch brightens up the room as he enters. All eyes are on him, waiting for him to speak. I once missed a college class to study for a more important test. I got three girls and a guy calling me wondering where I was because the class seemed empty! Even the teacher asked where I was at and said it wasn't the same! I'm not stroking my ego but it shows how you can impact the emotions of others by being the catch.