yes, but do they like the abuse? no one has answered the question. I wasnt talking about actual fisical abuse or even verbally telling them they are whoes and stuff. I was asking wether they are more attracted to a man who has an attitude that tells them that he only wants them for sex and he thinks they are nothing but pieces of meat?
do they in fact, contrary to everything they say, want to be *****s and sluts and want to get ****ed by guys who have nice bodies and big ****s even if these guys will just use them and dump them? is that what they want? being ****ed and dumped and treated like *****s? do they like guys with this attitude?
the attitude that says "u dumb hot c*nt, Im going to **** you and dump you like the peace of meat you are because u dont have anything else to offer me, stupid b!tch".
guys who act this way even if they dont say it verbally, do they excite women sexually more? is this what they are looking for?
why do women say some guys are losers when they arent popular or dont have girls or try to ask them for dates etc?
also, do they like being called c!itches and *****s?
do they like to feel like sluts and whoes when it comes down to it?
Im really wondering because even though I am a super cool and confident person and most girls respond very well to my prescence and way of being, with the sexual aspect of it I dont have a large success and its still difficult for me to get a date and attract girls in that special way where they get wet thinking about me (but its getting a lot easier every day, especially with the tool known as kino) but I still have a long long way to go. and eventhough I might not entirely fit in the dj definition some of u people here at the site have (girls still say Im "good" and "sweet" and I dont get a lot of action and a few other things, people here have called me an afc, said Im stuck in my RAFC phase, sh!t like that) I am a man who knows what he wants out of life and definitely is working and fighting to get it.
the thing is I really want to have a lot of sex throughout my life.
I want to learn to be really good at it as well. not only do I love womens physique and its a very fun activity, its also great excersise to keep u in shape =)
Im 19 so Im still young enough to make a difference about it eventhough Im still a virgin. I could have lost it at 16 and at 17 but I ****ed up cause at the time I felt like I wasnt ready.
havent gotten any real chances since then actually. I have made out with girls but thats about it.
anyway, I notice all the time like girls in high school and college and up to their mid 30`s like the guys who have fame of f*cking lots of women etc. o them this guys are "winners" and being their sluts is better than being the nice guys (a very vague term) "losers" girlfriend.
so I am in a point where I dont know what to do. should I be myself, the dj that I think I am (eventhough according to what sosuave says, the fact I get called "good" and "sweet" and have lack of success in the getting laid department would porpbably categorize me as an afc) or should I go all the way and become a jerk? some people say Im egocentric as well, though that couldnt be farther from the truth according to myself which ios the only opinion that really counts. should I view girls as pieces of meat and *****s and sluts and not care about who they are as persons and act all suave and charismatic just to get the sex or should I keep listening to girls and being interested in who they are as persons their personalities and what they want out of life (which is not the same as being the shoulder to cry on afc friend)
whiule still applying kino and perhaps makinf fun of them a little in a ****y funny way and still be cool and charismatic eventhoguh I might get labeled as nice and sweet and good because I actually listen to what they have to say and they think care about people and show empathy (and therefore they view me as serious "boring" relaionship material and not wild sex material)?
what to do?
It ain't a fun ride;p