My Ex Gf "BEGGED" me to GET BACK WITH HER

So today on 1st January 2015, My ex girlfriend's brother texted me to unblock her number because she wanted to talk to me. I said I don't want to talk to her. After completing my No Contact Challenge last month I obviously changed a lot.


So she bombed my phone with so many calls that I had to pick the call and she cried a lot and said can we get back together I said I made myself clear the last time we talked.

She begged me to take her back and her exact words were " Please I beg you please don't leave me I promise I would be a better girlfriend than before". I said No.

But she later on said that can we just talk like friends and I said how about you post a facebook status saying sorry to me. She did that.


And I made her my friend. A Hi Hello friend.

Not getting back with her ever.

And yeah I have a date on saturday and a new girl is actually taking me out for a dinner. She broke up with her boyfriend recently and I told her that I am going out with you only if you won't talk about your pain and heartbreak.

The change is awesome. And yeah I am not making my ex a **** buddy. Lol

Lmaoo you totally should make her a **** buddy bro. Take as much as you can and keep her on the leash. That's what women do anyways with their so called "friend" hahahaha

Careful. Keeping an ex as a f*ck buddy can make old feelings to resurface. Unless you can keep a highly detached mind from the constant sex with her, you're best truly moving onto another woman or better things.

1. The first time i posted a question here http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=216974

2.When i dumped her http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=217826

3.When we broke up next month and she gave me reasons for breakup http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=217934

4. I abused her http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=217912

Then we got back together completed 10 or 11 months and then i was DONE with her **** attitude because of the stuff i read on SS.

5. When i implemented NC and Swallowed the RED PILL.http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=221816

6. When i completed NC and ****ed more girls

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=222618



You can see that i did too much AFC **** at that time and you can notice the difference between my 1st pots and the post where i completed NC.

I can't thank SS enough for this transformation.

El Payaso said:

Careful. Keeping an ex as a f*ck buddy can make old feelings to resurface. Unless you can keep a highly detached mind from the constant sex with her, you're best truly moving onto another woman or better things.

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Exactly! I did that once and the feelings came back and it was much harder the next time. Why f*ck an old p**sy when i can surely get new ones. The guys having scarcity are the ones that would keep their ex as a f*ck buddy and again pedestalize her and be ruined again.

I don't understand. why she even care ? she did all the things we read in the links. he vanished like a thin air and she contacted him. am i missing something?

Because I lost weight and had more girls with me than I had before. My Value increased in her eyes. And no girl would ever like to lose A Catch.

Good to see young guys transforming like this. It took awhile but that was a toxic relationship that was going no where. I'm with PairPlus she needs to be cut from your life, stop feeding your ego by keeping her as a fakebook friend.

Nice work OP, keep it up

Zarky said:

Nice work OP, keep it up

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Thanks Zarky

EvilSpirit is the brother who keeps me up strong ... 60 days of NC .

Something all guys should know, is when an ex, or any girl, begs you to take her back, it's not about you. It's never about you. It's always about her. Your value to her is nothing more than how you make her feel. Thus it always goes back to her. So don't believe she's doing this for you. Because she's not. If she was happier without you she'd drop you in a heartbeat. So don't fall into the trap and give up your dignity just for pu**y.