Ganji Games: "A Last Ditch Effort To Get The Girl"

[jakeyboy]

i think these ganji games should only be used by people who wholly understand the concept.. it will be very effective if you understand the reason for the game and your desired outcome.. i know of people who've tried the ganji games and it totally backfired. he didn't do it proper.. the girl started *****ing bout him (pretty popular chick) and a couple of guys actually tried to look my friend up to bash his face in for supposedly being "rude" to the girl.

ganji... use with caution... you can either get a really good response... or a really bad response..

[neoncola]

Originally posted by jakeyboy
i think these ganji games should only be used by people who wholly understand the concept.. it will be very effective if you understand the reason for the game and your desired outcome.. i know of people who've tried the ganji games and it totally backfired. he didn't do it proper.. the girl started *****ing bout him (pretty popular chick) and a couple of guys actually tried to look my friend up to bash his face in for supposedly being "rude" to the girl.

ganji... use with caution... you can either get a really good response... or a really bad response..

She probably lashed out because her ego was hurt. If she didn't care if he spoke to her then she wouldn't complain about it. I can only see her taking revenge and getting 'other guys' to sort it out for her because she actually cared that he wasn't giving attention anymore. But no that's not the outcome you want, and I can see how it can end up this way.

I do agree, I don't think it works if it's someone you have to see often, school or work or something. You will definately come off as being rude.
If you would never or hardly have to deal with the person in everyday life then it is more likely to work. Plus it's more like a disappearance than if they still feel your presence.

[jakeyboy]

my point exactly.. if its someone familiar at work.. some one you see everyday (or most of the time anyway)... its definitely gonna come across as being rude and aloof. like you're suddenly pissed off with her for not showing interest in you.

however if shes not someone you see on a regular basis.. it'll just seem you have better thnigs to do now she's let you know her IL is low.

[toasttopper1879]

say i should use this gangi method right.but the particular girl that i want to use it on is part of my everyday life.how do i work it then.
fair enough i could cut of the texts and a good amount of the social scene but as us work in same office the rest will be hard.got to spend 8 hours a day 4 days a week about 30 feet apart.
any ideas

[Seizing The Day]

wow, this thread has really generated a bunch of thoughts. Even tho I still dislike this "fooling around with mind games" stuff, I admit that there is a certain amount of merit to this tac...

First, this is strictly a "use your instincts" tactic. As has already been observed, this is NOT something you would do to someone who is a casual aquaintance.

This is a pretty old school of thought where it concerns women. I call it "focussing your inattention" upon someone you desire. It has been called "push and pull back" also.

I see its biggest advantage in letting a guy sit back, and avoid risk. It goes w/o saying that anyone conciously doing this is hoping that it will generate some interest.

It also requires some good discipline, you make up your mind to forgo contact, you'd better stick with it, otherwise, when you do happen to make contact, and the interest level isn't what you were hoping for, you may be devastated to learn that you weren't "missed" at all.

I would caution all guys here trying this tac to not sit by the phone, etc. The call may never come.

Get on with your life and pursue other females and other interests while waiting.

[sapphire]

Good point Seizing... In my case, I was quite surprised that the girl called at all.

[jakeyboy]

Originally posted by toasttopper1879
say i should use this gangi method right.but the particular girl that i want to use it on is part of my everyday life.how do i work it then.
fair enough i could cut of the texts and a good amount of the social scene but as us work in same office the rest will be hard.got to spend 8 hours a day 4 days a week about 30 feet apart.
any ideas

nope... ganji games shuoldnt be applied then. because it would most probably come off as ignoring her and being rude and idiotic simply because she wasnt showing interest in you.

you should... socialize more with every one at work. except her. just be very cool and aloof, like let her know you have got a very exciting life out of work and just too bad she didnt choose to be a part of it..

like basically flirt with her still.. and flirt with the other co-workers as well. the ladies will definitely warm up to you... and will show that woman you're trying to get just how much in demand you are!

then maybe one day she'll say... hey toasttopper... there's something different about you

and then you can smile and say "aint nothing different bout me sweetie. the only difference bout today is, you agree to go out with me" -wink-

tried this out before... so its personally certified workable, unless the girl is a total co*k teaser.. anyways, the girl blushed and said okay, lets do dinner after work.

[becker]

Originally posted by neoncola
What kind of questions do you think it answers around here?

Yeah people find me very physically attractive but it means nothing in the end because I confess I am a total AFC. Like I said, I never get the girl in the end. You could be the best looking guy on the planet but if you act like an AFC you will get NOWHERE. I've been going insane and low self esteem.

The last situation that I described before in that long post I drove a girl away by being so needy - she just wanted to get away from me. Alot of ignoring and I just kept trying and pushed harder I did alot of damage even after she wanted to get away from me, like asking why etc. So she said she only wanted to be friends. I know she must have been turned off me.

Without knowing it I ganjied her, would have been about 6, maybe 7 weeks after she LJBFed me to her coming around to see me one night. I ran into her once though where she seemed happy to see me, only talked for a few mins.
But what I did was not contact her for about 5 weeks (I didn't hear anything from her either) and then sent her a text message that was neutral and she was responsive. Then she came over to see me (it's all in the post above).

I think I made much less damage than this over the latest girl that I originally came into this thread for. But she still thought I was too 'clingy'. I think she's doing the same thing by trying to get rid of me. So I'll give her what she thinks she wants. She will be free of my clinginess and I'll ganji her. Before coming to this site I would have just tried harder and pushed her away even more.
I hope it works as well as the last one, do you think it will?
I know she was very interested at first, and it was completely my AFC that drove her away. After reading through this site I've worked out my AFC patterns.

So yeah to answer your question, if she's pushing you away and ignoring you (like happened to me) lay low and have no contact (ganji). Do this for a number of weeks, if the damage is worse then probably wait longer. Then try something simple like a text message, make it neutral and seem as if you are doing it out of courtesy or something. By ganjing her she's let her guard down and will be much more receptive to you than before.
If she was so attracted in the beginning, and being an AFC drove her away, ganji is the only way to remove this obstacle.

In the meantime, find someone else. I did but ended up with the exact same situation.

I don't know if this will work if she was only moderately attracted to you in the beginning and then you drove her away by being an AFC.

Yeah, it sort of adds to the whole looks vs. personality debate that often resurfaces on this board. I'm sure that no looks can overcome extreme neediness.

Anyways, this girl that I was involved with I only saw once, and after the first date, she acted strange, so I asked her what was wrong in an instant message. She gave me that whole LJBF speech (she was going through some serious crap at the time, and still is, so it was very justifiable). Anyways, I kept telling her it was fine if we'd be friends, but I just wanted to hang out with her once in a while, and that was it.

Apparently, she agreed to be friends, but eventually after me not contacting her in a few weeks, I tried to get a hold of her, and she never replied. Then I kept sending e-mails to her asking why the heck I'm being ignored if it was established that we were friends. At this point, I just wanted to be friends with her and that's it, but apparently this didn't come off too well or something. I have not heard back from her, and it's been over 2 months now. I haven't contacted her at all.

I spoke to a friend of hers last week online, and her friend seemed to be pretty cool with me, and I invited her to do something on Halloween, with some other friends. She seemed to be interested in that.

I'm wondering now whether I should call this girl and try to see what's up. It's one of those things that I'd like to resolve either way.

[neoncola]

Originally posted by becker
Yeah, it sort of adds to the whole looks vs. personality debate that often resurfaces on this board. I'm sure that no looks can overcome extreme neediness.

Anyways, this girl that I was involved with I only saw once, and after the first date, she acted strange, so I asked her what was wrong in an instant message. She gave me that whole LJBF speech (she was going through some serious crap at the time, and still is, so it was very justifiable). Anyways, I kept telling her it was fine if we'd be friends, but I just wanted to hang out with her once in a while, and that was it.

Apparently, she agreed to be friends, but eventually after me not contacting her in a few weeks, I tried to get a hold of her, and she never replied. Then I kept sending e-mails to her asking why the heck I'm being ignored if it was established that we were friends. At this point, I just wanted to be friends with her and that's it, but apparently this didn't come off too well or something. I have not heard back from her, and it's been over 2 months now. I haven't contacted her at all.

I spoke to a friend of hers last week online, and her friend seemed to be pretty cool with me, and I invited her to do something on Halloween, with some other friends. She seemed to be interested in that.

I'm wondering now whether I should call this girl and try to see what's up. It's one of those things that I'd like to resolve either way.

I think you should call her. You've got nothing to lose.

Looks like her ignoring you kind of worked on you ie. ganji, even though she wouldn't have known she was doing it.

But you never know what's happening in another persons life, especially if they don't tell you for whatever reason. I know sometimes when I'm in the sh!t with my family, work and stuff I don't really feel like putting effort into a relationship, and it can only add to the stress.

If she had her guard up against you before (not replying to emails) if it's been over 2 months I'm pretty sure that time away would have let her guard down and she will be much more responsive to you now. The smoke would have cleared long ago. Maybe her problems have died down too or she can better handle them.
I don't think you should ask her what's up and why she ignored you, her guard might go back up again, if you're in a possibly delicate situation people don't like to feel they have to justify themselves to others. And also don't let her think that her ignoring you has affected you at all.
Call or email her just saying hi and say haven't spoken in awhile just wanted to see how you are and be friendly.
If you want to be friends with this girl, extending your friendship again after a few months and even though she knows she ignored you (don't mention it though) will show to her you're likely to be a genuine friend instead of keeping up the silence. She'll probably like it, you've got nothing to lose anyway.

[davester88]

So the girl I like is getting back from Soccer Nationals in Toronto. When everyone crowds around her when she gets back, do I go in, or just hang back?

[becker]

Originally posted by neoncola
I think you should call her. You've got nothing to lose.

Looks like her ignoring you kind of worked on you ie. ganji, even though she wouldn't have known she was doing it.

But you never know what's happening in another persons life, especially if they don't tell you for whatever reason. I know sometimes when I'm in the sh!t with my family, work and stuff I don't really feel like putting effort into a relationship, and it can only add to the stress.

If she had her guard up against you before (not replying to emails) if it's been over 2 months I'm pretty sure that time away would have let her guard down and she will be much more responsive to you now. The smoke would have cleared long ago. Maybe her problems have died down too or she can better handle them.
I don't think you should ask her what's up and why she ignored you, her guard might go back up again, if you're in a possibly delicate situation people don't like to feel they have to justify themselves to others. And also don't let her think that her ignoring you has affected you at all.
Call or email her just saying hi and say haven't spoken in awhile just wanted to see how you are and be friendly.
If you want to be friends with this girl, extending your friendship again after a few months and even though she knows she ignored you (don't mention it though) will show to her you're likely to be a genuine friend instead of keeping up the silence. She'll probably like it, you've got nothing to lose anyway.

Yeah, I may try to contact her again, I don't know if I should call or e-mail her. I'm not sure, but the problem is that this girl was going through a divorce at the time I went to see her, and I think it's not even going to be official until the end of November. This is why she freaked out on me, which is justifiable.

Anyways, I'm sort of hesitant to contact her at this time mainly because of that. Perhaps I should back off until maybe after that, but I'll have to be in touch with her friends and make friends with her friends to find out how she's doing.

I definitely don't think I should bring up the topic again with her. I was thinking to just leave a funny message if I don't get her voice mail, but I don't want her to think I'm some weirdo either.

[ohhhmr4tay]

To whom it may concern(ganji believers)

Ganji is proven to have a 100% success rate if used properly, there are certain concepts of ganji that i feel are at times forgotten, for the amount of people that are currently using ganji, there are 1 or 2 out of each 10 people who display a complete ignorance of what ganji is truly about, if you dont mind, here are some concepts to keep in mind


1) Cracking(mostly, if not 90%, applied to AIM users)- Listen, I know that its hard to not be able to say what you want, but if you crack (unnecesary contact, by all means, please do not "Crack") do yourself a favor to not only me, but other ganji users, and move on. "Cracking"....in this case....is lethal.

2) The forefathers of Ganji, and there intentions- The man who created this wonderful theory was a man who still engages in ganji today, and he meant it more for the LDRs more than actually being in person and pulling the ganji card, if we could ammend the original ganji post, id like to put a clause in there, the clause would be you cannot live in the same state as the girl you are exploring your ganji options with, if you apply ganji in a same city relationship, not only do i find you to be a loser, you are the reason ganji has become so popular, therefore weakening its true meaning



Guys, Listen....Cutting off contacts is the only way to go in a last ditch effort to get the one you want, if you dont understand certain concepts please post your questions and ill be happy to answer them

[jocksivs]

Cracking the Ganji Code

4tay formerly known as ganji game nirvana is also closely related to the gangi master himself, we both grew up having met him a few times. i'd like to comment and confess with regard to cracking.

yes , i the ganji game thread starter have cracked in the past. by all means remove your batteries from ur cell phones in times of complete alcohol abuse. do not even allow urself use of ur cell phone when u are bombed (drunk) and are actively involved in a ganji game.

the ramifications of ganji game cracking can be catasrophic for results. if you crack you are liable to blow the game completely and seeing as how this is a last ditch effort to get the girl, u'd better be sure you are ready to responsibly use it.

what's important to remember is that you must not hesitate after a crack, you must go boom ganji immediately or give up on the ganji. this game is only meant for the hardcore believers and followers of the "Ganjeai'"

[kris sippa pippa]

Although in the past I have refrained from discussing the ganji method in this type of forum, I can no longer stand idle. I, along with the framer of this thread, JockSivs, have practiced and preached ganji methods for over 9 years with what could only be described as 'rock solid results.' If you are a true student or disciple (in my case) of Dr. Ganji then you are already aware of the effectivness of this technique. For me, this is not a tactic or game, it is a way of life. We all know the spoils that can come w/ proper implementation of ganji but I want to share with you all one of the methods' shortcomings which I have had to regretfully deal with. For the past 3 years I have been defaulting to ganji whenever things b/t myself and my semiserious girlfriend have gone sour. Not only do I ignore and cut contacts(ganji basics) but I would go out of my way to get with as many girls as I could while we were on our 'breaks'(an optional tactic). Initially, this worked wonderfully to not only make her jealous but also constantly remind her that I (or you) could get with many other girls if thing didn't end up working out. Although I felt as though I was gaining control I was creating an environment for disaster. After several successful cycles of this kind, things have changed. I went to the well one too many times and now fear that I have done irrepressible damage to my relationship. I have bred resentment and sadly things may never be the same. Use ganji in moderation, know when to be human. DONT LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU.

[jocksivs]

Ganji Addict Diagnosis

I have undoubtedly done my share of Ganjies in my time and have found that no matter how much ganji you use it is never too much. However, I would like to advise against repeated Ganji Abuse on one target. Although, unassuming and altogether unknowing of the concept of ganji, repeated ganji abuse can make you look like an idiot. I like to call this the (on/off) ganji user. This typer of user get so caught up with the ganji that no matter what happens they implement it. It is easy to get carried away with lazyness and outright abuse of the ganji method. Methodological studies suggest that repeated ganji abuse on one specimen can be up to 100% detrimental to your relationship and overall reputation, whatever reputation you have for having game. If you don't have game (as in the ability to get laid by girls that want to fuk you), then do us all a favor and stay way the hell away from ganji. Dr. Ganji was a player and still is. If you have no ways with women, then the girl is going to see right through ur ganji. If you feel you might be an (on/off) abuser , please get help or contact me at your earliest opportunity and I will be happy to walk you through the Ganji Recovery Techniques, for Ganji Addicts if you will.

[ohhhmr4tay]

My next post may give the unfortunate "loser" of a ganji games a very queasy, uneasy feeling. It addresses the inevitable path of destruction that is a lost ganji game

Just like a family pet, ganji games get better with time, training. But just as joyful as the family pet is to you, there will come a day when it dies.

A lossed ganji game can lead you down a nasty beaten down path that can only be compared to the death and damage caused by hurricanes ivan and jeanne.

Briefly, if you do lose in a ganji game, its moreso your fault than anybody elses. Please do not take out your frustrations with your cracking, misuse of ganji on us. Thats the last thing we need, after all, were all in the same boat

I want to address the losers of their own personal intricate ganji game(as every ganji scenario interests me, lets get these people out of the way first), the fact of the matter is you need to move on. By cracking, which i now suspect to be the cause of over half of ganji failures, you have in a sense strangled your own child(son or daughter). You have committed the ultimate ganji sin, and should be punished, which is why your in the irreversable situation, I'd advise you to make your bed, and sleep in it.

Let me also address the incredibly untrue notion of a "ganji game miracle". Im not going to mislead you, such a notion is 100% false. If you fail in your ganji game venture, the predicament is so far beyond comprehension, use common sense.

[jocksivs]

ALL USERS SHOULD BE AWARE THE FAILED GANJI ATTEMPTS CAN HAVE DAMAGING PSYCHOLOGICAL EFFECTS ON THE USER AND TARGET. THIS IS WHY I LIKE THE GAME SO MUCH. NOT ONLY DO YOU WIN, SHE LOSES BIG TIME. I'D LIKE TO BRING ABOUT A NEW CONCEPT AND OPEN IT UP FOR DISCUSSION. IT'S SIMPLY CALLED ANGLE FOR THE GANJI. ANYTIME YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP, ANGLE FORTHE GANJI. REMEMBER GANJI MAINLY WORKS W/ LONGER TERM RELATIONSHIPS BUT IT CAN WORK FOR RELATIVELY NEW ONES. IN THAT LIGHT, ANGLE FOR THE GANJI. BASICALLY, ANY GIRL YOU KNOW, GANJI HER. THEN U CAN BE GANJIED W/ NUMEROUS GIRLS. THE MORE YOU GANJI, THE MORE YOU GET AND THE MORE YOU HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO GET. I KNOW OVER 90 HOT GIRLS AND I AM GANJIED WITH ABOUT 80 OF THEM. THE ONLY TIME GANJI CEASES IS FOR SEXUAL ACTIVITY ETC. TRUE SECRETS.

[RotheStyle]

Gentlemen...

I must say, I agree with the idea and I agree with the game. I have personally seen its success, however, I have also seen it completely fail. BUT...the only reason it has ever failed was do to cracking. UNACCEPTABLE BOYS....

GANJI GAMES

[becker]

Explain "cracking" guys. I have the general idea, but maybe a more clear example?

[LanceX]

First time post here guys,....

Just an observation,... isn't the "Ganji Game" just a natural progression of your way of life if you develope all, or most, of the other DJ ways of thinking?

BTW: great site