Alphas and betas versus the natural world - theory and practice

It has come to my attention over the past few weeks that there are two completely different axis of game.

The alpha-beta axis is defined by its competing, whether on money, status, looks, or capacity to inflict violence. Success along the alpha-beta axis depends primarily on these things but is influenced by skill in the game.

The natural axis is defined by its non-competing on any of these terms. Success along the natural axis depends primarily on game but is influenced by the things on the alpha-beta axis.

The axis of game that a man uses may depend on unchangeable brain chemistry. Neither axis is better or worse, and neither alpha nor beta is better or worse. They simply depend on the hand one is dealt through genetics and circumstance. That said, some men who have an open mind may be able to learn how to harness aspects of the natural axis.

Here's my best guess at the breakdown:
- 95% of men are on the alpha-beta axis
- 2% of men are on the natural axis
- 2% of men are gay
- 1% are sociopaths

I am on the natural axis. I employ two extremes of personality. When I am resting I am a total introvert. When I am at a social gathering I am a total extrovert. I have an extremely high level of empathy. When I am in a social state I can readily influence the emotional state of others through body language mirroring and leading. When I'm in a really really really social state I can feel the energy level of the party ebb and flow with my own energy level.

Almost every single man that I talk to argues with me about my theories, including men who have seen me pull off seemingly impossible manouvers in the field. Every single woman that I talk to intuitively accepts the central principle of my theory without question, and some seem contemptuous that I actually needed to work it out. From this I would guess that at least 99% of women are on the natural axis.

I am starting this thread as a personal diary to catalogue the things I have learned over the last six months. Even though the entire game plan is only applicable to 2% of the population, specific tactics may benefit the 95% of guys who are on the alpha-beta axis.

I am happy for anyone to jump in at any time to offer advice, criticism and perspective or to ask questions.

Here is a link to the report from the night that confirmed for me once and for all the existence of the natural axis of game. At this stage I didn't know that there were two different axis.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=211682


Lessons learned:

• Confirmed social non-competition as a strategy for sex

Discovering the alpha-beta versus natural axis

After my massive success with the natural non-competition method of game, I spent a few fruitless weeks trying to convince my friend to use it. I did everything possible to show him. At parties I manipulated the social dynamics to become the absolute centre of everything and break down walls to connect separate social groups.

I even spent several hours during one party trying to connect him to a girl that he was, in my mind, uselessly chasing after and spending heaps of money on. Every time I extended the boundary of the natural world to include them, she moved closer to him and his body language became more natural. But every time I moved away, she started moving away and he started chasing her again.

A girl that I had been bouncing my theories off, HBFriend, kept trying to push him towards the provider/beta strategy. Given that she accepted the principle of my theory I couldn't figure out why she would do such a thing.

This all came to a head during a massive night of partying.


The party started at my hostel. I was depleted from previous parties and was taking a while to warm up socially so I consciously pushed myself into the natural axis about one third of the way. When I got to the party there was sex in the air and I immediately became aware of two women who were connected to the world more than normal and hence were probably around their fertile window. I'll call them HBTall and HBShort.

HBTall started to engage in manouvers to catch my attention. She walked towards the centre of the room so I mirrored her, but my calibration was slightly off so she turned around. I did the same thing.

HBShort merged into a set with HBFriend probably because she could see we were friends. I chatted with them for a while. Me and HBFriend were doing most of the talking with HBShort simply observing. The party failed to reach critical mass so the three of us decided to head to a club. As expected, the rest of the party started making moves as well, led by HBTall.

Me and an all girl group moved down to a balcony and HBTall started hanging around in front of me with her intentions obvious. I went hard kino and she didn't resist at all. But one of the girls said to me "Her boyfriend's coming!" to which I responded "Boyfriend?!?". It finally clicked and I broke contact just before he entered the balcony. Phew!

We moved out to the street and I attempted to make friends with the boyfriend but my intentions were too obvious so he got angry and left with his friends and their girlfriends. Me, HBFriend and HBShort went off in a different direction towards the backpacker bars. HBShort was still in play but HBFriend was getting jealous. I could see things starting to slip away so I consciously pushed myself into the natural axis as hard as I possibly could.

We moved into the nearby plaza and sat down with one girl on either side of me. HBShort had her hand near me so I started holding it. I attempted to defuse HBFriend's jealousy by making moves to include her in any sex but she was too angry to let it fly and I couldn't push through it. I started to feel my energy level pick up and amplify through the people around me so I led the two girls back towards the clubs. HBShort finally got fed up with my inability to deal with HBFriend's jealousy and left with some other people. But for some reason my subconscious told me to stay with HBFriend and we went into the club.

At this point I could feel myself moving HARD into the natural axis from the reflected energy of the people around me and things started to get a little crazy.

I must have been wearing a massive "I'm gonna f*ck your girlfriend" look on my face because the moment I hit the dancefloor I was practically attacked by three guys who had clearly been availing themselves of the local Colombian delicacy. I danced, dodged and weaved around them with amazing fluidity then turned around and used my mirroring and leading facial expression trick to make friends with all of them. It was all over in about five seconds. One of their girlfriends saw it happen and came up to me with a knowing look on her face and we talked (translations in brackets):

Her: "I used to know a guy like you" (Are you a secret society guy?)
Me: "Who? Tell me. This is important." (I'm still trying to accept it.)
Her: "Never mind, it's nothing." (You haven't accepted it yet or are pretending.)

She could be right. Maybe I am pretending. Maybe I never will truly reach enlightenment. But I've gotten closer than most other guys and I sure am having a lot of fun doing it!

Anyway back to the story. Another aggressive guy started hitting on HBFriend. I made friends with him then suggested to him that we go halves in her. He got all freaked out and thought I was gay. Oops! More accidental stating in open communication what should have remained hidden.

I took HBFriend back to the hostel to attempt to have sex with her. Out on the balcony she started to get more and more angry.

Her: "Why are you keeping me here?"
Me: "No reason"
Her: "Just come out and say it!"
Me: "Say what?"
Her: "I just want to go out to xyz club"
Me: "Sure, we can go out after"
Her: "After what? AFTER WHAT?!?"

I lost my nerve and gave in. When we got to the club, my friend and the girl he had been chasing were waiting in line. As soon as his back was turned, I girlcoded with her (eye communication) and gave her what felt like permission to hook up with my friend. She nodded.

HBFriend didn't want to go into the club so we went and sat on a wall. She then proceeded to unleash a series of bombshells on me (with translation):


"All these theories you keep talking about are making your friends really uncomfortable" (Stop talking about the secret society you moron)

"You think you're the first one to ever work this out" (Girls know this stuff instinctively and they don't have to keep talking about it)

"People ... think they're socialising but they're not" (Meaning of this one eluded me for a few weeks and is for another field report)

"I knew you were [different] from the moment I met you" (All these theories you keep trying to inflict on your friends are totally useless to them)


This stuff hit me like a ton of bricks and in the middle of me trying to make sense of it all she finally got fed up and left.

On the way home I went into another club and did my trick of making friends with the guys but this time I gave away nothing but a ****y grin and started grinding their girlfriends on the dancefloor while the guys wandered off. This was probably the craziest thing I had ever seen in my entire life up to this moment. They probably thought I was gay. But anyway it was getting close to 6am and my energy was fading fast so it was time to go home.

Holy sh*t, what a night! It took me over a week to figure out all the stuff I saw and turn it into lessons.



Lessons learned:

• There are two axis of game, alpha-beta and natural
• Most guys are on the alpha-beta axis
• I have the potential to enter the natural axis perhaps only due to a quirk in brain chemistry or openness and connectedness
• Alpha males do well following their own strategies and don't need to enter the natural axis
• Beta males follow their own inferior strategies either because they have no other choice or because they are too scared to try anything else
• The natural world is synonymous with Tyler Durden's secret society
• Do not talk about secret society
• DO NOT TALK ABOUT SECRET SOCIETY!!!
• If you absolutely feel you must communicate something, use subcommunication
• Guys can rationalise you spending time with their girlfriends by you either being super friendly or being gay

Memories and behaviour

A week after my crazy night I was finally back down to earth again. I went out with HBFriend to the weekly party at a local hostel. The place was absolutely full to the brim so I used a strategy of yielding to aggressive people and making friends with them.

Various women came up to me and HBFriend throughout the night. They were somehow using her to get to me. But every time it happened, some other guy would use me to interrupt and blow out the set.

In one set with the hottest girl in the party the other guys were too scared to approach and instead I let HBFriend's jealousy get in the way and blew myself out.

Eventually after a few hours we decided to go upstairs. I was getting tired and HBFriend decided to play for advantage.

HB: "I don't have any money left."

Me: "That's ok, I can pay for you."

I figured it was fair given she had been buying me drinks all night. But the moment yielded to her this tiny amount she unleashed a barrage of sh*t tests. This time rather than letting them flow around me I met them head on.

Me: "HB, shut your mouth now."

HB: "You're an a**hole. I don't even know why I'm here with you."

Me: "HB, SHUT THE F*CK UP."

She stormed out.

I went upstairs and spent half an hour regaining state. I decided to push through to energy depletion and try to figure out what on earth was going on with this woman. I texted her:

Me: "You will never speak to me like that again"

HB: "Maybe if you stopped being an a**hole people would actually be nice to you."

Go ghost.

I hit the dancefloor with my best moves and immediately became the centre of attention.

This woman is clearly delusional.

A friendly local guy gave me some pointers and I used them on a girl on the dancefloor and she started grinding me. Oh my god these girls are hot and they definitely know how to use their bodies.

Why am I wasting so much time on this woman? There are hundreds of cute girls that I could be talking to but instead I am letting her lead me around like a chump.

I reached energy depletion at around 4am and headed back home.

It took me half a day to figure it out. An image from a shadow of a memory began to coalesce in my mind around a word that had always formed the absolute core of my values. The values that people had used against me again and again.

It wasn't a bad or abusive memory, but it was an amazingly emotionally intense one. Over the next week a few more images flowed back and I started to connect the memory with my lifelong dual strategy of conflict avoidance and subsequent overreacting.

Got it! Now destroy it.

For the week before the party there had been a constant stream of angry people making noise and carrying on around my room. I had been avoiding them and letting them get away with it.

I left my room and saw the cleaner acting passive aggressive and making a racket in the hallway. I looked him straight in the eye and gave him a knowing look. I continued my way through the hotel and out into the street, through all the angry people. (Yes, being a gringo in Colombia can be hard.)

For the first time in a week, and maybe in my lifetime, they left me in peace.



Lessons learned:

• Most men are separated from the natural world by something that happened in childhood.
• Men wanting to move towards the natural world should search for someone or something to trigger the memory and connect it to a word or image.
• Use the connection to destroy the link between the memory and any self-limiting behaviour.

where can i get more information about the alpha beta axis/natural axis stuff?

It's a theory that's still in progress. I have about 10 more field reports to write up, each with a bunch of lessons at the end.

If you want to work it out for yourself, a good place to start are these three books, in order of importance:
- Sex at Dawn
- Sperm Wars
- The Selfish Gene

The 48 Laws of Power is also a good book to read once every year or so as a general reference. It's my personal bible. It took me six years to finally get Law 48, which is the most important for developing your natural game.

You'll also need to allocate some serious time in the field. It took me over six months of non-stop travelling, socialising and partying to start seeing it properly.

You will meet a series of people who will serve as your guides. Do not discount anyone. The most unlikely person turned out to be the most important to me.

Two steps forward one step back

I finally decided to leave the city and go to another one. I went to a restaurant near the airport and as I was about to sit down a Canadian girl HBPilot appeared, so I opened and she invited me to sit with her and her two male coworkers. I quickly made friends with her coworkers then went to work on her.

I used my now extremely strong eye contact (a side effect of breaking through my childhood memory) combined with a variation on the classic two steps forward one step back method that I had recently rediscovered.

In a conversation the basic strategy is:

• talk about anything you want
• do some kino that is appropriate to what stage you are at
• when the conversation dies, look away and back your kino off
• wait a few seconds, then look back and wait for them to start talking again

Within a few minutes she was hooked. Eventually she started talking logistics including the fact that she would be in the same city as me in a weeks time. I used this to say that she should get in contact with me and did a complex number close that she spent quite a bit of time on to make sure that she would be able to contact me. I told her that she better get back to work, even though she was obviously having such fun talking to me.

When they left she paid for my lunch.

I went back into the airport and started mirroring the energy of all the people around me. I picked a table to sit at near the centre of everything. Within ten minutes, one of the hottest women in the place came and asked if the seat was free. I told her to sit down then started talking about nothing in particular. After a while she started with the standard "what do you do" question to try to figure out if I had much money. I looked her dead in the eye and made something up about being a gigolo. Hilarious!

She was hooked soon as well. She started asking about logistics, and finding out when my flight was, telling me when hers was, and figuring out the cities that we were both going to. We were both going to different cities and her flight was too soon, so I couldn't figure out how to have sex with her. I ejected.

Not much spectacular happened in this field report. It was more of an ego boost to get opened by an extremely hot woman and it showed just how important inner game is.



Lessons learned:

• Use strong eye contact for everything
• You can talk about anything at all if you are confident enough
• If the conversation drops, it is sometimes better to force the girl to pick it up again
• When number closing, be completely forthright and come straight out and say that you want to meet up again
• Two steps forward one step back is a conversational strategy as well as a sex strategy

No such thing as friends

I meet up with some local people at a hostel. I make friends with a guy who is beta orbiter to a girl that I could be interested in. I want to get closer to her but her orbiter is not moving one inch and there is no way in.

I start opening up the table and moving around. As I start talking to some cute girls the orbiter follows me and uses me as a way to start talking to them. I open up the table even further then see an opening back to the original girl and sit next to her. Another girl joins us and they start competing for my attention.

Two more guys join in the fray, again using me as a way in. They are both wannabe players. One of them is doing the "I'm gonna burp and fart and act all alpha" method and the other is doing the "dancing monkey PUA" method. How annoying.

I try not to compete but the obnoxious guy is pretty much forcing it. As I try to get him to chill out the set starts closing against me. I eject and hit up another set.

Five minutes in the wannabe PUA comes in and uses me for an indirect opener. One of the girls is totally into me but he is getting in the way. I start closing off my body language against him and he starts ploughing through his routines to keep the attention of the table. I make friends with the father of another potential 19-20 year old target but I miss the phase shift signal and he starts chewing my ear off about things of no great importance as the target's attraction wanes.

I decide to hit up a local bar with some people who are leaving. There are two girls and two guys and as we sit at the table the guys organise seating such that they are in between me and the girls. I chat and keep up good spirits for as long as possible but I slowly come to a realisation.

Alpha-beta axis guys will NEVER willingly let me get at ANY girls, and they will stay for as long as it takes to stop me, even if they have no chance at all.

I decide to leave on a high note and head home.



Lessons learned:

• If you try to compete with other guys, they will c*ckblock you out of spite.
• If you make friends with them, they will use you to join sets and then blow you both out.
• The answer is to make friends with them just enough to neutralise them.
• You will know when you have done just enough when they start trying to impress you. Then you can go for the girls.
• Do not expect help, fairness, or reason from anybody. You are on your own.

Trust your instincts

I go out on my own to a popular park and run into a group of people from the hostel in the previous field report. There is one girl HBLeader who is the social centre of the girls in the group and is also into me. I decide that she is the target.

We go to a local club where they are playing crossover music. As I start to do my dance moves I start getting attention from people around me but I ignore them and keep my attention on HBLeader.

As I give her attention she starts flirting with other guys. I respond by starting to open up the sets around me. I don't give the other sets much attention, just enough to throw HBLeader off balance a little.

As I try getting closer to her she starts moving away and I'm having a hard time doing two steps forward one step back to keep her interested. Eventually her jealousy games with the other guys and my jealousy games with sets around me get out of control and she leaves.

That's it. No more mister nice guy. I put on my best dance moves and use them to crash through the energy barriers (a.k.a. b*tch shields) of every single set around me.

The guys in the set next to me start inviting me in to dance and have drinks. Then they start getting me to dance and grind with the girls in their set that I assume are their girlfriends. It is as hot and sexy as all f*ck but I am having a hard time figuring it out. Are they proving how much they own these girls by getting them to dance with a complete stranger or what? Given there are two guys and three girls, are they polyamorous?

It's getting late and I can see the facades on the people around me starting to fade. Why the f*ck are these people still here? I center myself to enter full empathy mode and start reading the people around me. It's clear that these people are still here for a reason, but what?

The next time the guy tells me to grind one of the girls I refuse and say that I'd rather just talk with her. I look for a crack in her facade.

Me: "Are you enjoying yourself here?"
HB: "Of course."
Me: "In my country, when two people get together, we are allowed do it for love."

Her facade cracks wide open as I hit home. But it still doesn't explain everything.

The guy tells me to grind with a different girl but I again talk to her instead.

Me: "I'm having a hard time with how relationships work in Colombia."
HB: "How do you mean?"
Me: "I can't figure out which of you are together."
HB: "None of us are together, we are just friends."

What the f*ck!?! I have NEVER before in my life seen friends dance like these girls are dancing with these guys. This is information overload and I leave to go back to my hotel and attempt to make sense of it all.

When I get home, I realise that in my confusion I have failed to number close anyone at all.



Lessons learned:

• Trust your instincts over anything based on social protocols.
• Different cultures may do things that seem absolutely crazy but attraction is the same everywhere.
• Spin more plates and don't focus your attention too much on any one person.

Trust the message

HBPilot from my field report at the airport arrives in the city a week later and starts texting me.

HB: "We are in town having dinner at xyz restaurant if you wanna join us"

I don't like the idea of having to figure out how to extract her from her friends so I counter.

Me: "I've already eaten but I'm going out in the area and you can join me if you want"

HB: "I'd love to but I'm really tired"

Me: "k"

Leave phone and go out. When I check my phone the next morning there are two texts.

HB: "How is your hotel?"

HB: "Have you seen much of the city yet?"

Me: "Dang these people know how to party"

Me: "Wanna grab a beer tonight?"

HB: "We are going for dinner at xyz restaurant. I think it will be an early night. My colleague has to get up at 5 tomorrow morning. Ouch!"

I look up the restaurant and it's really really expensive. Like a meal there could pay for four days accommodation at my hotel expensive. In my annoyance I decide that she is playing games and I send back the following absolutely retarded message.

Me: "Have fun!"

I delete her number and wait for a response, but there is nothing but radio silence.

It is only the next day that I realise just how much detailed logistical information she had hidden in her final message, and that I had been a complete b*tch and blown her off.

What a f*ckup.



Lessons learned:

• There is logistical information in every message.
• If you are not seeing it, it is probably due to your own insecurities.
• By not responding to a woman's signals, you are forcing her to look elsewhere to fulfil her sexual needs.
• Don't be a p*ssy!

Hide your plans

I launch another mission into the town centre. I find the obnoxious "I'm gonna burp and fart alpha male" character from a previous night out and he latches onto me. I open a two-set with him. He is absolutely useless and is going to blow us out so I project onto him as much energy as I possibly can. After five minutes I run out of energy and pull back. As expected, the set stales. As we walk away, he asks me "what did you say to them?".

I open another two-set that we had seen previously but this time let the guy try to run it on his own. He stales out within a minute. This time I ask him "what did you say to them?". Sweet revenge.

He starts complaining so I walk away and open a set of musicians (3 guys 1 girl). They are super cool people and I have no problem talking to them. The guy comes to use me to try to hit on the girl and this time I give him absolutely nothing. This time he finally walks away, for good this time.

I wander around with the musicians while they are busking and test different ways of projecting energy onto them. The girl is clearly interested in me and the other guys are super friendly and not obstacles at all. We go back to their hotel for some drinks but the hotel won't let me in.

I do some recon to try checking into their hotel the next day. Then me and the girl go to my hotel to look at the reverse logistics for them checking into my hotel. Kiss on the cheek to say goodbye.

That night, I dream that me and the girl make plans to meet up but fail to keep them hidden from her beta orbiter so he disrupts them.

The next day, sure enough, when I went to change hotels it turns out that "they don't accept foreigners".

Racist b*stards!



Lessons learned:

• The only point to verbal communication is logistics
• We hide our logistics within subcommunication, stories, jokes, gossip and everyday chit chat to keep it hidden from the sorts of people who have no other strategy except for disrupting ours
• The extreme "pathetic individual" (e.g. sociopath) strategy is to (1) find out as much information as possible and then (2) use this information to disrupt the plans of the highest energy individual

Phase shift

I hit up a local restaurant and one waitress is instantly attracted. Her and her coworker work together to help me hook up with her. As I hit hook point I feel for the second time in my life the phase shift signal between what Mystery Method calls A2 and A3. I had felt it months before but only while I was pushed extremely far into what I now recognise as the natural world.

The other guys in the restaurant also feel the phase shift signal (probably subconsciously) and start hanging around to try to disrupt our ability to make logistics. I go for it anyway but fail in organising a later date because my suggested reason doesn't flow logically from her suggestions. As I try to salvage the situation I see the musicians from the night before. The girl with them is more attractive so I abandon my set and go for them instead.

We go to a park and they start getting their hippy on. I decide not partake. The group starts their interrogation, led by the target's brother, to make sure I'm a cool guy. As I hit hook point with the group I feel the phase shift signal again. I stop trying and now start letting the group try to impress me. Unfortunately they are all too paranoid by this stage and I make the strategic decision to head home.

I leave on a high note and with an open invitation to stay at the house of the target and her brother in her home city.

That night, I dream that a woman spy on our team is discovered and killed after giving up all the information that she has.

My interpretation of this dream is that under some circumstances you must keep even the existence of the possibility of communications hidden by making it look like everyday communication connected by logic. You must hide some information even from the girl so that it is impossible for her to know if you are interested and what will happen. This protects her under all circumstances. In the extreme case, assume formlessness and extreme flakiness to hide the possible result even from yourself, and do not decide until the last minute whether you will give in.

This is probably irrelevant to most guys on this site. Unless you are gaming in a somewhat dangerous country where it appears that the hottest girls are already bought and paid for by the guys who have the most money and power, and who could quite possibly have obtained it by dubious means.



Lessons learned:

• Make then chase me!
• Recognise the hook point and phase shift accordingly.
• Once girls are chasing you they will provide information needed for organising logistics.
• Use this information and only this information to organise a later meet up.
• Make it flow logically to escape detection.
• You may only have a few seconds after hitting hook point before everyone else realises it too, so make them count.

Hiding in the cracks

One night, I dream that we are a guerilla squad within enemy lines. Upon spotting the enemy, one of our team gives the alert, others move off to distract the enemy, and squad leader hides and waits for the others to find him again.

As I wake from the dream, my mind goes back to my time in a high-stress hostel, trying to get away from the chasing women and jealous guys so that I could get some sleep. The first girl to arrive would give a distinctive signal as a guy would approach.

I had also heard this distinctive signal in another high-stress communal environment by other girls hanging around its alpha male (although he was only alpha by virtue of his attractiveness and my own self-limiting beliefs at the time).

My interpretation of the dream is that women are on my team and men are on the enemy team. We need to remain hidden because we are attempting natural style hookups within an extremely unnatural environment in the face of of c*ckblocking and competitiveness.

The dream also provides a hint as to the first and only concrete strategy I have ever come up with for dealing with energy draining and pathetic people (e.g. sociopaths).

Dealing with sociopaths

The night after my dream, I meet up with some friends to go out clubbing. With them is an energy draining individual who is prone to small petty acts of violence when he believes one one is watching. He is probably a sociopath.

But this time I have a weapon. Just like in my dream, I make the required signal to the HB in the group who is the social leader, then go and hide out. When I return around 10 minutes later, he is gone.



Lessons learned:

• It takes both the natural alpha male and the natural alpha female working together to rid the group of a sociopath or similar pathetic individual.
• Violence has been used in tribal societies against such individuals but is not an option in today's society.

Secret society

A memory of a memory comes to me in the middle of a dream. I am back on the night (see third post above) when every woman asked me if I was part of the secret society. But this time I realise that HBFriend had actually told me!

"Oh yeah cool let's go back to the hostel so we can get all the sh*t out of the way. Aww we're just friends, we don't know each other, it's too soon, blah blah blah."

I wake from my dream and realise that there is one other girl who can tell me whether what I think I am seeing is real or not. It is my ex-girlfriend of five years who I broke up with so I could make my journey.

I center myself and connect my subconscious directly to the computer keyboard then send off an email that would make absolutely no sense to 95% of guys but that would make sense intuitively to a woman if I were right.

Translated, my message is as follows.

Is what I am seeing real?

The answer comes back 10 minutes later. Translated, it is as follows.

Yes.

Plastic world

Armed with new knowledge from my ex, I re-contact HBFriend with a message that translates to "I know you wanted to have sex with me so I'm giving you another chance". Sure enough, she has followed me to my current city and wants to meet up.


Day 1

We go for drinks and I start escalating physically. This time she isn't stopping me.

I use my standard extraction routine of wanting to watch a movie on my computer. We take a taxi back to her hotel so she can get some stuff. On the way she must have had second thoughts as she decides to go for her own hotel. I don't push it.


Day 2

The next day I invite her for lunch. She is starting to get cold and it looks like a friendzoning is imminent.

We go to check out a gallery nearby. I am struck by a mural painted on a wall near the gallery. It is of one of the perfectly scuplted paisa women, but this time made so perfect that it appears plastic.

We go to a bar nearby but this time when I try to escalate she is back to her normal attitude. I go to sit on the grass with the intention of pushing for it again but she decides to leave. I don't follow as I know she is moving into my hotel the next day and will come and see me again.

On the walk back to the station I consider the mural I have seen. If we made a human so perfect that everything natural had been taken out and replaced by something unnatural, would it still be human?

My thoughts on this matter are in their own post here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=213500

Strangely, the people around me are now starting to look unreal and caricaturish just like in the mural. I can more easily see the desire and lust on the faces of the women, just like when I push too hard into the natural world. It is probably due to the reality distortion field of HBFriend giving me a contact high. She is a 7 at best but acts like an 11, and her reality is so strong that it is sucking me into it.

Back in my hotel, I have received an email from my favorite girl back home recommending a book detailing the four seals of Dharma in Buddhism. At first glance they make no sense whatsoever but on further reflection they are an absolutely perfect philosophy for the DJ.


The four seals of Dharma (translated for DJs)

1. Life is a video game.
2. Keep playing until you realise this.
3. Even the person playing the game is not real.
4. So just have fun!

Lessons learned:

• Some people, such as alpha females, HB10s and DJs have a reality so strong that it can warp the reality of those around them
• This may be due to a contact high that is delivered through the mirror neuron system

Gatekeeper

HBFriend has checked into my hotel. Something I was struck by was the amazingly cold body language between her and the women who run the hotel. It is as if they recognise her as stiff competition, even though they are more physically attractive.

The night after HBFriend ditched me in my previous post, she comes to my room in the hotel we are sharing. We discuss philosophy for around an hour. A story she tells me provides more hints as to her role in the game.

One of my friends was interested in a guy that she through might know the path to enlightenment. She brought the guy to me as if she wanted to see if he could hook up with me.

My interpretation was that her friend was testing the guy to see if he was a player or not. If he was, he would be able to hook up with HBFriend. If he wasn't, he would be useful for using for his money.

After around an hour I feel the phase shift signal so I leave briefly and then come back. I start moving into her personal space but each time I do it her anxiety signal goes higher and she starts sh*t testing harder than anyone I have ever met.

HB: You know all that stuff you keep saying about sociopaths...
Me: Go on. Say it.
HB: I think you know what I'm saying.
Me: But you're right. Our methods differ but the results are the same.

The battle of the wills continues. Eventually she gets up to leave the room.

HB: You know what your problem is? You don't have the balls to do what you should do. Go on. Do something.

I just laugh because I know she will be back again tomorrow.

HB: Yep. I thought so.

Yes. She definitely has a reality distortion field around her. She believes she is a HB11 and her reality is so strong that it becomes real.

I check my own reality in emails from my ex and current primary partner and in my Facebook photos. I was in a relationship with my ex for five years. At times we both agreed that certain individuals showed sociopathic tendencies and were to be avoided. This implies that I am probably not a sociopath.

That night the answer to the question of HBFriend's role in the game comes to me in a dream. I do not recall the dream, except for one word.

Gatekeeper.



Lessons learned:

• There are alpha females that one must go through to access all other women that they are guarding.
• The alpha female status may be based on things other than physical attractiveness, such as brain chemistry and social status.
• It may not be necessary to sleep with them, and with some their level of alphaness is set so amazingly high that it may be impossible.

Opposite

I do some research into the nature of HBFriend's particular suspected mental problem to confirm my theory. It all checks out.

Later on she knocks on the door. She starts talking about her day but since I believe I've figured her out I decide to see if she wants to hear it. Her anxiety ramps up immedietly and she comes into the room and sits down.

I'll cut to the chase and give you the most important bits of the dialog.

Me: "So I'm pretty sure I've figured you out."

HB: "So you spent all day obsessing about me."

Me: "Well actually the answer came to me in a dream."

HB: "Right. Ok let's have it then."

Me: "You know, you only made one mistake which is what gave it away. You told me things that I could check against reality with women that I've had sex with."

HB: "Do these women even exist? I've never seen them."

This could be the truth or maybe not. She has never seen them. But let's go with it.

Me: "I'm not sure, I have emails and photos with them but it could all just be in my head."

HB: "You know everyone thinks you're gay. I had to stop you getting your head smashed in by some guy in a club."

Me: "Yeah I can't believe I haven't had the sh*t beaten out of me ever in my life, I must be so lucky."

HB: "There's something wrong with your brain. You need medication."

Me: "Yeah I managed to hold a job down for a bunch of years and get promoted continuously but maybe you're right."

HB: "All this stuff you keep talking about the natural world is absolutely hilarious. Sorry but I live in the real world."

Me: "I talk a lot of crap, I have no idea what I'm doing."

HB: "You've dragged me into this room."

We have a breakthrough! This one is an obvious lie given that she followed me to a new city, changed hotels to get closer, knocked on the door, and is currently sitting in the room. Now I can figure it out.

Me: "How do you do it?"

HB: "I don't trust anyone in this country. There is absolutely no one that I trust."

Me: "It's like you're somehow suppressing a part of your brain to separate the words from their meanings."

HB: "I hate every single person in this country."

Her anxiety signal is higher than I've ever seen from anyone and I get the biggest contact high in my life from it.

Me: "That's crazy! How do you make it say the opposite?"

HB: "You're an a$$hole and I fvcking hate you!"

Slams door and storms out.


We have just lost cabin pressure.



Lessons learned:

• The gateway to the natural world is hidden in plain sight between the words and actions of sh*t tests and their actual meanings.
• Sh*t tests are based on taking small pieces of information that you have given and using them to check for holes in your confidence.
• The more solid your confidence, the bigger the sh*t test will be.
• When fully merged into the natural world, sh*t test meanings are the exact opposite of their words or actions.
• The classic example from field reports of hundreds of DJs is "I'm not having sex with you".

Theory into practice

I have checked all the lies of HBFriend against what I know from friends and girlfriends but there is one more check left to do. The concept of the sh*t test itself as a lie. Out into the field!

I go to my favorite lunch place and a couple walks in. The woman immediately begins eye flirting with me. I start returning the look and she looks away.

It is a lie.

I hold eye contact with her and her husband. They talk briefly then invite me over. I start openly flirting with both of them, telling the wife how I sell sex, all the usual stuff. They are absolutely loving it. The husband provides me with a few Spanish words for beautiful and I start using them on his wife while he laughs. He starts discussing logistics and tells me that his wife eats at the restaurant most days. If I didn't know any better I would say he is trying to set us all up.

At the end of lunch they pay for me.

I head towards my favorite park but stop on the way to talk to two musicians of about twenty, a guy and a girl (HBMusician). I start chatting with both of them and go to work on the girl while checking that they are not together and screening for logistics.

A group of late teen girls walks by and they start looking at me and smiling. I smile back. They give me a withering, disgusted look, as one might imagine the queen bee giving a nerd in the movie Mean Girls.

It is a lie.

I break eye contact as they walk past and wait a few seconds. Once they are out of my direct field of view, I turn my head and see them looking back at me. They are all smiling.

The musicians invite me to their favorite park so I decide to go along. We go into a hut where some people are doing some sort of tribal ritual. The bliss of meditation comes over me as I imagine my ancestors doing the same ritual a hundred thousand years ago. We go to sit down. HBMusician goes to arrange seating such that we are together but the guy throws his own sh*t test by arranging the seating so that he is in the middle.

It is a lie.

I ignore him and put my seat between them. HBMusician's legs fly wide open in a huge signal at my crashing through what should have been impossible logistics.

We go to another part of the park and sit in a circle with some other musicians. There are people around us and I connect with them and invite them to join the circle. Soon the circle has grown to around ten people.

There are three girls sitting opposite including HBMusician, the others being HBNaughty and HBTarget. I start eye flirting with all of them. As I give one more attention, the others start doing things to grab my attention. HBNaughty is especially bad and takes things off the others if I am giving them attention.

I decide to go with whoever gives me the best logistics, or if all logistics are good, the cutest. HBTarget is holding eye contact longer than any of them and she is so unbelievably cute so I decide on her. The moment I make my decision, she starts flirting and holding hands with a guy next to her.

Is it a lie?

I ask using eye communication if they are together and she answers no. I try to signal and ask whether she is going to hook up with him (and by implication see me on the side) but it is too complicated a question for eyecode. By now I notice that all the other girls are laughing and I realise that they have seen the whole conversation. The guys in the circle are oblivious.

I go open communication and ask the guy how they know each other. He says that they are just friends, like brother and sister. I make a joke that that would be weird. The circle starts to close off against me as I realise I have given away too much information. I eye-open a set of ten women and flirt with them for a few minutes then go back to the circle. It is open again.

We start moving and I notice an opening next to HBTarget. I walk next to her and she immediately puts her arm around me. I mirror and lead with the kino and start holding her hand. I do some quick logistics reconnaissance and find out that she lives with her family nearby.

When we reach a spot in a small outdoor eating place for dinner I sit next to her and we begin kino escalation as appropriate for a group setting. I escalate to a small kiss over the next hour. Then a big kiss and making out.

I have reached the limit of this escalation and it is now time for isolation and extraction. But I am new to the city and talking in a foreign language and as I start to hesitate the guys pick up on it and move for advantage. I go to number close but she has no cell phone. She starts holding hands with her friend again as the group moves to exclude me.

It is a lie.

I decide to push hard and tell her to follow me, which she does. We walk about 100 meters out of sight of the others and I tell her that I want to talk to her and that we should go to a place near my hotel for drinks.

She starts throwing the "what do you want from me" and "I have a boyfriend" and "do you want sex" sh*t tests. This is familiar ground for me and now I KNOW it is a lie. I simply smile and let her know that in my world these things aren't important.

I tell her to follow me to the train station. I circle around behind a building to avoid the previous group of people. When we get to the stairs to the station she says that she is going to walk home. I ignore her and do two steps forward one step back up the stairs and she follows me.

On the train ride every single person is looking at us as if to judge HBTarget for being with a gringo. I ignore them and tell her that these people couldn't possibly understand us because they live in the unnatural world.

We get to my hotel and I do the "business as usual" walk to get past the doorman so that he can't interrupt with the usual nonsense about bringing people to my room. When we get into my room I immediately start kino escalation hard. She starts crying and I hold her while she tells me that she shouldn't be doing this, that she loves her boyfriend, that God would disapprove, all the usual stuff.

She wants to know who I am and I tell her about the alpha-beta versus natural axis. I use words that would make sense to a woman.

Then I start doing what almost no other guy is capable of doing. I drive her energy state sky high through mirroring using the same method I first used on HBFriend only two nights before. Her eyes roll back and twitch as if in a mini-seizure or REM sleep. Sorry guys, I have no explanation of how on earth this works, only that it is somewhat related to the mirroring and leading facial expression trick that I use sometimes and may also be related to the state induced in meditation. You will simply need to put in your time in the field.

I start taking off her clothes while going hard kino. I go to start rubbing her through her panties but she's not wearing any and she is shaved and dripping wet. Oh my god this is so fvcking hot. I hit resistance at various points and do two steps forward one step back. It has been five hours since we first met and it is now late at night.

The resistance is getting harder and she wants to go home. I smile and agree. I feel my own state drop for the takeaway signal so I go to the bathroom. I decide to have one last attempt at crashing through her resistance so I come back and throw her on the bed. The resistance is still hard so perhaps she has a curfew and really does need to get home.

In the taxi back to her place to drop her off I am not worried in the slightest as I have gotten further than I would have believed possible only two years ago with one of the cutest girls in my life in her absolute sexual prime. We negotiate a meet up for a few days later. As we get to her house she unleashes a massive display of kissing and affection and blurts out what I think sounds like "te amo".

I think I'm in love.


Day 2

Three days later I return to the meeting point and she is there. I escalate as far as possible for the location then extract back to my hotel. I seal the deal after a few hours of resistance.

Then through a horrible combination of bad communication, awkward logistics and lack of phone, I lose her completely after she leaves.

Goddammit. Ah well, back into the field!



Lessons learned:

• Confirmed the theory of alpha-beta versus natural axis.
• Leave nothing to chance.

If flavius Josephus even existed he was gay. Fuk flavius josephs