Guys,
I know I sound whiny most of the time but the truth is this site has helped me a lot. For starters, I no longer oogle over hot women I see on the street and at the bar. I know that I need to have more respect for myself than that. If anything, I don't even care about them anymore because I don't want their drama/issues to intrude in my life. I also do NOT want a girlfriend whose life consists of posting selfies on Facebook. I now think of them as just like any other women I see...I do not put them on a pedestal nor do I go out of my way to talk to them. I see guys trying to get with them at the bar, and I pity those guys because they are putting in so much effort for something that won't produce anything. I'm fine just sitting with my beer and watching the game. I feel liberated knowing that I don't need a girl by my side to have fun.
Another thing is that I now avoid beta fags. They really bring me down and are of no use to me. My best friend is a DJ who pretty much cleans up with women and he keeps me from straying back to the beta bullcrap I've been doing for years.
My understanding of alpha and beta males has really helped me in my perspective. I'm no alpha male but I do feel more confident and less desperate. I have learned that being desperate is worse than being ugly.
I know I sound whiny most of the time but the truth is this site has helped me a lot. For starters, I no longer oogle over hot women I see on the street and at the bar. I know that I need to have more respect for myself than that. If anything, I don't even care about them anymore because I don't want their drama/issues to intrude in my life. I also do NOT want a girlfriend whose life consists of posting selfies on Facebook. I now think of them as just like any other women I see...I do not put them on a pedestal nor do I go out of my way to talk to them. I see guys trying to get with them at the bar, and I pity those guys because they are putting in so much effort for something that won't produce anything. I'm fine just sitting with my beer and watching the game. I feel liberated knowing that I don't need a girl by my side to have fun.
Another thing is that I now avoid beta fags. They really bring me down and are of no use to me. My best friend is a DJ who pretty much cleans up with women and he keeps me from straying back to the beta bullcrap I've been doing for years.
My understanding of alpha and beta males has really helped me in my perspective. I'm no alpha male but I do feel more confident and less desperate. I have learned that being desperate is worse than being ugly.
