BULL3TPR00F
Don Juan
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My fiancé dated another guy for 7 years before me. She had told me that she is no longer in contact with him, and blocked him from all communication (phone, Facebook).
I saw on my fiancee's phone that she was having private conversations with her ex-boyfriend on Facebook. The message wasn't complete, and it looked like it was a continuation of a conversation. In the snippet that I saw, they were just having "normal" conversation.
I told my fiancé that I was upset and asked her why she was communicating with him. She said that he messaged her to wish her merry Christmas. The conversation that I saw had nothing to do with Christmas, and it was already New Years. She claimed that he was able to message her because by updating her Facebook to "Timeline", it cleared her blocked list. This sounds like a lie to me because my blocked list did not get cleared when I upgraded to Timeline.
A week later I asked her to show me her Facebook on her phone. When she showed me her messages, I saw my name mentioned in one of them. She immediately grabbed the phone, logged out, and signed into a different account (hers). I asked her what account she was in and she claimed it was her sisters. I never got to read the messages that I originally saw. When she logged into her account, all the messages were gone.
Before these incidents, I completely trusted my fiancé. Now the trust has been broken and I am reconsidering our engagement. I am hurt that she would have secret conversations with her ex-boyfriend. I have been cheated on before by my last girlfriend, and the thought of possibly being cheated on again makes me sick.
I am confused and do not know what to do. Please tell me what you guys think.
I saw on my fiancee's phone that she was having private conversations with her ex-boyfriend on Facebook. The message wasn't complete, and it looked like it was a continuation of a conversation. In the snippet that I saw, they were just having "normal" conversation.
I told my fiancé that I was upset and asked her why she was communicating with him. She said that he messaged her to wish her merry Christmas. The conversation that I saw had nothing to do with Christmas, and it was already New Years. She claimed that he was able to message her because by updating her Facebook to "Timeline", it cleared her blocked list. This sounds like a lie to me because my blocked list did not get cleared when I upgraded to Timeline.
A week later I asked her to show me her Facebook on her phone. When she showed me her messages, I saw my name mentioned in one of them. She immediately grabbed the phone, logged out, and signed into a different account (hers). I asked her what account she was in and she claimed it was her sisters. I never got to read the messages that I originally saw. When she logged into her account, all the messages were gone.
Before these incidents, I completely trusted my fiancé. Now the trust has been broken and I am reconsidering our engagement. I am hurt that she would have secret conversations with her ex-boyfriend. I have been cheated on before by my last girlfriend, and the thought of possibly being cheated on again makes me sick.
I am confused and do not know what to do. Please tell me what you guys think.