BE AGGRESSIVE SEXUALLY. Its really that simple stop being a nice guy, and show her your aggression sexually.

Heres a short story backing this up. There this girl I met that never texts me, im always the one texting her. Note I had not been aggressive sexually with her just simple harmless touches here and there.

Okay so I come the conclusion im gonna cut her off if she doesn't start showing me some interest. So I ask her to hang out she agrees. During this hang I start getting aggresive sexually. Now she has on on some booty shorts so I start playing with her ass, grabbing, spanking, feeling on her titties, licking her neck, all that. Now at first she like one are you doing then in my sexy voice I say "you know you like this" and she smiles and calls me a jerk.

Anyway ever since that day she has been initiating contact with, texting me more than ever. The same girl that would never initiate contact when I was trying to be a gentleman and get to know her.

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No. This is called being a pervert and a creep. To be sure, kino is important; but if you start doing what you mentioned to a woman on the first date, you're going to have a bad time. Unless the woman is morally loose and flippant, of course. If that was the case, she'd be the type to let dozens of other guys treat her the same way and you would get overused seconds. Or thirds. Or fourths. Either way, no good can come from being sexually aggressive. Unless you enjoy restraining orders, pepper spray and perhaps prison.

There is a time to be extremely sexual and a time to control yourself. Balance is key. I do not mean a man must ever turn off his sexuality (blasphemy!), but it must be made manifest in different ways throughout the course of a relationship. First steps would involve action dates for the first few dates. The sexuality here is expressed in doing the action on the date. Swimming oceans, climbing mountains, etc. This instead of motorboating the girl on the first date would leave you better off.

As things progress, kino escalates. Sexuality is channeled elsewhere; it is expressed differently. Instead of expressing it on the water, while swimming, you would express it on the girl, in the form of touch. Light touching on the arms, over the course of time, would eventually become blissful kissing on the lips with proper escalation. It also eliminates any last minute resistance and ensures you are at a level of closeness with the girl that brings the two of you unprecedented joy and gladness.

Just my two cents.

depends on the environment.. which usually correlates the type of girl you are after.

club> aggressive> hoes