and it's the most over looked.. really in a good LTR in general but 10x for a woman whose finger you are going to put a ring on.


i like to think that i have a lot of the game down pact. even while working at home i don't smoother her, i give her her space, she gives me mine, i maintain the frame for the most part.

but you know, there are going to be times that i'm not myself. maybe someone died, or I am just in a particular ****ty mood, or i'm sick or whatever the fvck it doesn't matter, no one can be a DJ 100X of the time 24 x 7 sometimes id on't want to say we slip but being a DJ is not at the forefront of my mind every day 24 x 7.

you have to have a woman, when you are talking long term, that is willing to give you a pss when your game is off a little. she won't stop having sex with you beucase you didn't' do the push / pull EXACTLY right and you have been married for 3 years lol. you know sometimes you just have an overall ****ty day and a good wife can over look that and not only that wants you to get back to "your normal self"

that to me is the difference between a wife and a girl i'm fvcking. a girl i'm fvcking will use any laspe in you being you as a time to "get the upper hand". a LTR girl will do what she can to get you back on track becuase at some level she understands the only way this is going to work is if you are leading.

with that said, no woman will stick around if you are just off long term and convert.

I think the most important thing about my wife is that she respects me as a man. She is submissive and expects me to lead. A good combination. She has me on the pedestal. I just don't let the pedestal thing go to my head. I use it to my advantage.

I didn't get married until I was 50, for a good reason. Even then, it was a bad, bad deal. Never again a US woman, ever. Their heads are just not where I need a woman's head to be. For me, it's Asians all the way.