Decided I may as well go for broke. No luck yet. But at least I tried.

MrJibbles · May 10, 2012

So I sent about 50 or 60 different girls on Facebook the same (type of) message: "You're beautiful and I want to ravish you." Also "You're beautiful and I want to ravish you. Let's have sex and never stop." Or some sort of variation of those messages depending on how well I know the girl.

Some of these girls I've met and talked to a couple times. Most of them are girls who I added randomly and accepted my requests. Some of them added me. And one is responding positively, so far. The rest, to be honest, probably won't even reply. They probably think I'm a creep or pervert, but I'm p&p (pervert and proud). So luckily, I don't give a sh**. I figured, things can't be worse than they already are with girls for me, so as may as well go for broke 'til the hoes say no.

So last night the phrase "Losing all hope was freedom", a Fight Club quote that I've mentioned a few times before in some posts, finally struck a chord with me last night in a moment of sleep deprivation-induced clarity. I think I've finally stopped giving a f***.

Tomorrow, I will approach random girls at the mall to get numbers. I have pvssied out on this promise before. But I'm now in that state of mind where absolutely nothing matters.

If all of these endeavors fail, I'll make a POF and OKCupid profile and do the same as I did with facebook to as many girls as possible. Online dating usually fails, but it can't hurt to at least try. If this fails, I will go to a bar or club on the weekend solo, and try to get as many numbers as I can or find some drunk b*tch to take advantage of.

If none of these efforts work out in the end, so be it. At least I will have tried instead of wallowing in self-pity. At this point, I will come back to you guys for advice.

I encourage any other recovering-AFCs out there to do the same. You could die at any moment. Stop whining, and do something. Let yourself fail. Allow yourself to crash and burn in flames. Let the cvnts laugh at you. Either way, what doesn't kill you will make you stronger. It's better to regret something you did than something you didn't do.

Pneuma · May 10, 2012

MrJibbles said:
So I sent about 50 or 60 different girls on Facebook the same (type of) message: "You're beautiful and I want to ravish you." Also "You're beautiful and I want to ravish you. Let's have sex and never stop." Or some sort of variation of those messages depending on how well I know the girl.

Some of these girls I've met and talked to a couple times. Most of them are girls who I added randomly and accepted my requests. Some of them added me. And one is responding positively, so far. The rest, to be honest, probably won't even reply. They probably think I'm a creep or pervert, but I'm p&p (pervert and proud). So luckily, I don't give a sh**. I figured, things can't be worse than they already are with girls for me, so as may as well go for broke 'til the hoes say no.

So last night the phrase "Losing all hope was freedom", a Fight Club quote that I've mentioned a few times before in some posts, finally struck a chord with me last night in a moment of sleep deprivation-induced clarity. I think I've finally stopped giving a f***.

Tomorrow, I will approach random girls at the mall to get numbers. I have pvssied out on this promise before. But I'm now in that state of mind where absolutely nothing matters.

If all of these endeavors fail, I'll make a POF and OKCupid profile and do the same as I did with facebook to as many girls as possible. Online dating usually fails, but it can't hurt to at least try. If this fails, I will go to a bar or club on the weekend solo, and try to get as many numbers as I can or find some drunk b*tch to take advantage of.

If none of these efforts work out in the end, so be it. At least I will have tried instead of wallowing in self-pity. At this point, I will come back to you guys for advice.

I encourage any other recovering-AFCs out there to do the same. You could die at any moment. Stop whining, and do something. Let yourself fail. Allow yourself to crash and burn in flames. Let the cvnts laugh at you. Either way, what doesn't kill you will make you stronger. It's better to regret something you did than something you didn't do.

Damn...just damn.

I don't know how old you are but this moment can be an opportunity to define yourself.

ArcBound · May 10, 2012

Inspirational as fvck.

It's great that you achieved this mentality, but don't burn yourself out too. Remember this mentality, anchor it to something and you could recall it later on.

MrJibbles · May 10, 2012

OK. So here's the update. About 10 girls replied. Half of them said something like "Who the hell are you?". No surprises there. Tried to reply as cleverly as I could, but in the meantime: NEXTED.

A couple of them told me to "F*** off" and called me a multitude of names such as "disgusting low-life" and "pervert." Also no surprises there. Didn't give a ****, so I replied as meanly as I could, because they are h0es after all. In the meantime: NEXTED.

One girl, who my cousin told me thought I was "really hot", simply said "The ****?", to which I replied "I chose my words for a reason. There is nothing else to be said." I've never really held a long-enough conversation with her face-to-face for it to mean anything. But I know she's had a crush on me before, so I'll keep this one on standby for now.

Another girl asked if this was some sort of "sick joke" and told me it was "kind of creepy." This was the chick I mentioned in this thread. I ended up seeing her months later but didn't say a word to her, remained cold, and removed her from facebook, up until I messaged her today. I have no idea what will happen with this chick. I told her "Take it or leave it, or the next girl, probably one who woke up next to me this month, will. Just remember: There's a thousand you's, there's only of me." I'll keep ya'll posted for this.

The last girl, the one who responded positively, is all up on my d*** now. I stopped chatting with her for a few hours, and now she has sent me a whole bunch of messages asking how she can get in contact with me face to face. I think this will probably turn out well.

Tomorrow, I will reply to this chick and see how my other 'plates' reply. I will also go to the mall and keep approaching girls to get numbers until I get rejected say, five times. A bit later I will make online dating profiles and play this game again.

I'll be honest, having those chicks call me names like that was really liberating, in a way. I found out that it didn't affect me at all. In fact, I laughed when I signed in and saw the replies. It made me feel like I was doing my job right. I laughed heartfelt chuckles deep from the soul, fueled by sheer apathy and not-giving-a-f***-itis. Being called a creep or "creepy" means I'm actually displaying sexual interest, which I never did when I was a 'nice guy'.

Of course, facing rejection with a girl in real life will be different. Interacting online dampens the effect of perceived rejection. But obviously I'm not going to come on as directly as I did online. I'll play it more smoothly, maybe pull some kino, and only go as far as asking for a number.

So tomorrow, the day-game newbie mission begins. If anybody else is doing a newbie/rejection mission, let me know. Strength in numbers. Wish me luck, boys.

Jariel · May 10, 2012

You talk about making an effort and not wanting to wallow in self pity and I respect that, but I think you should direct your focus to more productive pursuits.

What you're doing now is what 100s of other guys are doing and it's creepy. If you keep it up, you're going to get a bad reputation and it's going to make it even harder to meet girls. I mean, if you're going to message lots of girls, you should at least try to be more polite and charismatic about it.

But in my opinion you should put all this desperate approaching to one side and focus your energy on improving yourself. Hit the gym, study fashionable people/models and work on improving your image. Socialise more and practise the art of conversation and listening. Try to progress your career or pursue a skill.

This can be a real game changer. It made a huge difference to me and since improving myself I get women approach and message me, and those I approach are very responsive. You have that power in your hands, but you need to stop looking for lazy quick fixes.

SgtSplacker · May 10, 2012

I find the best way to ask for sex is not to ask at all. If you ask a girl out a certain way she knows what its all about. You don't have to spell it out for her. All your doing is raising the HO shields man. The only girls that respond to that kind of thing are the ones you probably don't want to bang. Either that or they know you very well already and said "fvck it". Relax, what you're doing is the equivalent of saying you are brave by thrusting yourself onto a spear. Use some tact man! The first rule of war is subversion!

PrettyBoyAJ · May 10, 2012

There is a big difference between going for broke and just being lame. Sending that message on Facebook is just lame. The internet is just not the place to go for broke at. Never just ramp up to 4th gear on the internet.

Good luck with your newbie mission though. Don't just go up and ask girls for sex (4th gear). First talk to them on a non-sexual way (first gear) then work your way to getting the number (third gear). I'll probably hit up the mall today and see what's crackin as well.

Nicholas · May 10, 2012

Jariel said:
You talk about making an effort and not wanting to wallow in self pity and I respect that, but I think you should direct your focus to more productive pursuits.

What you're doing now is what 100s of other guys are doing and it's creepy. If you keep it up, you're going to get a bad reputation and it's going to make it even harder to meet girls. I mean, if you're going to message lots of girls, you should at least try to be more polite and charismatic about it.

But in my opinion you should put all this desperate approaching to one side and focus your energy on improving yourself. Hit the gym, study fashionable people/models and work on improving your image. Socialise more and practise the art of conversation and listening. Try to progress your career or pursue a skill.

This can be a real game changer. It made a huge difference to me and since improving myself I get women approach and message me, and those I approach are very responsive. You have that power in your hands, but you need to stop looking for lazy quick fixes.

Kudos to you, sir.

Iceberg · May 10, 2012

PrettyBoyAJ said:
There is a big difference between going for broke and just being lame. Sending that message on Facebook is just lame. The internet is just not the place to go for broke at. Never just ramp up to 4th gear on the internet.

Good luck with your newbie mission though. Don't just go up and ask girls for sex (4th gear). First talk to them on a non-sexual way (first gear) then work your way to getting the number (third gear). I'll probably hit up the mall today and see what's crackin as well.

That's exactly what I was thinking.

If MrJibbles was walking up to girls at bars or nightclubs talking about, "Listen. You look hot. I want to ravish you, blah blah blah." I'd say it was a bit aggressive, but I'd respect it. It's ballsy. He's putting himself out there.

The definition of "going for broke" that he established in this thread isn't ballsy. It's sitting from the safety of home, writing messages to people who you'll probably never see.

I don't want to trash anyone who's trying. But I gotta bring this to reality. Ask any female friend about their online dating profile or messages they get on Facebook....Most girls are already receiving these weird messages from random dudes asking for sex. And those dudes probably think they're "just going for it" too.

My point is - anyone can make that move. It's not the "i don't care anymore" approach...it's the "i care SO MUCH that I'm afraid of gaming girls face-to-face" approach.

cablecow15 · May 10, 2012

MrJibbles said:
OK. So here's the update. About 10 girls replied. Half of them said something like "Who the hell are you?". No surprises there. Tried to reply as cleverly as I could, but in the meantime: NEXTED.

A couple of them told me to "F*** off" and called me a multitude of names such as "disgusting low-life" and "pervert." Also no surprises there. Didn't give a ****, so I replied as meanly as I could, because they are h0es after all. In the meantime: NEXTED.

One girl, who my cousin told me thought I was "really hot", simply said "The ****?", to which I replied "I chose my words for a reason. There is nothing else to be said." I've never really held a long-enough conversation with her face-to-face for it to mean anything. But I know she's had a crush on me before, so I'll keep this one on standby for now.

Another girl asked if this was some sort of "sick joke" and told me it was "kind of creepy." This was the chick I mentioned in this thread. I ended up seeing her months later but didn't say a word to her, remained cold, and removed her from facebook, up until I messaged her today. I have no idea what will happen with this chick. I told her "Take it or leave it, or the next girl, probably one who woke up next to me this month, will. Just remember: There's a thousand you's, there's only of me." I'll keep ya'll posted for this.

The last girl, the one who responded positively, is all up on my d*** now. I stopped chatting with her for a few hours, and now she has sent me a whole bunch of messages asking how she can get in contact with me face to face. I think this will probably turn out well.

Tomorrow, I will reply to this chick and see how my other 'plates' reply. I will also go to the mall and keep approaching girls to get numbers until I get rejected say, five times. A bit later I will make online dating profiles and play this game again.

I'll be honest, having those chicks call me names like that was really liberating, in a way. I found out that it didn't affect me at all. In fact, I laughed when I signed in and saw the replies. It made me feel like I was doing my job right. I laughed heartfelt chuckles deep from the soul, fueled by sheer apathy and not-giving-a-f***-itis. Being called a creep or "creepy" means I'm actually displaying sexual interest, which I never did when I was a 'nice guy'.

Of course, facing rejection with a girl in real life will be different. Interacting online dampens the effect of perceived rejection. But obviously I'm not going to come on as directly as I did online. I'll play it more smoothly, maybe pull some kino, and only go as far as asking for a number.

So tomorrow, the day-game newbie mission begins. If anybody else is doing a newbie/rejection mission, let me know. Strength in numbers. Wish me luck, boys.

If your gonna do this try it like this ,

1) first tell them the sexual crap , the ill ravish you like no man ever has kinda thing , then shift into low gear

2) say ok , had to get that off my chest so i can have a real conversation with you

3) then start talking about your self and what youd like to know about them, how u used to in the nice guy mode .

this way you wont look as creepy , and you will still appeal to both sides of the girl with out committing entirely to one side

if you send a message like that and there is atleast one smile in her reply , its on

Id never go to online thing unless i was really tired or sick to go out , but i did do it for a long time before i actually got out to the clubs , and i did get some lays from it

MrJibbles · May 10, 2012

Jariel said:
You talk about making an effort and not wanting to wallow in self pity and I respect that, but I think you should direct your focus to more productive pursuits.

What you're doing now is what 100s of other guys are doing and it's creepy. If you keep it up, you're going to get a bad reputation and it's going to make it even harder to meet girls. I mean, if you're going to message lots of girls, you should at least try to be more polite and charismatic about it.

But in my opinion you should put all this desperate approaching to one side and focus your energy on improving yourself. Hit the gym, study fashionable people/models and work on improving your image. Socialise more and practise the art of conversation and listening. Try to progress your career or pursue a skill.

This can be a real game changer. It made a huge difference to me and since improving myself I get women approach and message me, and those I approach are very responsive. You have that power in your hands, but you need to stop looking for lazy quick fixes.

True, true. I'm already going to the gym on a regular basis though and in fact I'm going boxing tonight with a friend. I'm busy for the rest of the day so I might not get around to cold approaching today. Will have to do that tomorrow probably... anyway, like i said, i'm obviously not going to try to be as creepy as i possibly can when seeing girls face to face

AlexDP · May 10, 2012

All of this just isn't necessary. If you meet a girl, take her number or add her on facebook and ask her out, she knows what the deal is. All this stuff about the ideal way to ask her about, being the perfect guy, making big courageous moves... Guys, it's about having fun. Have fun, talk to girls, it will sort itself out. The only thing that's truly important is to not let others decide your life. That's all. Silly stuff like this is just.. silly.

Young Stallion · May 10, 2012

Mr. Jibbles, I would not reccommend these overtly sexual emails to complete strangers on facebook.

Make the messages classy, upbeat and cool.

Groovy · May 11, 2012

Young Stallion said:
Mr. Jibbles, I would not reccommend these overtly sexual emails to complete strangers on facebook.

Make the messages classy, upbeat and cool.

+100000. In my opinion, that's a simple and very good post, Young Stallion!

MrJibbles · May 12, 2012

Another update:

In a nutshell, don't do what I did. It didn't really work out. Now a whole bunch of my family is angry at me. Word spreads like wildfire. I also pissed off my cousin's friend, because one of the girls was his boyfriend even though her profile said she was single. And now all my cousins' hot friends, in addition to some strangers, think I'm a creep and "a disgusting lowlife pervert." A bunch of my uncles are mad at me too. And now my two closest cousins' friends, my main 'social circle', think I'm a mental case. My cousin asked me if "my therapy wasn't working out." But whatever, f*** it. If people think I'm crazy, I honestly don't give a sh**.

Two girls told me I "need to learn how to respect women." There go my chances of ever hooking up with them. And the one chick who responded positively, I found out, lives halfway around the world instead of in my city. Oh well. Life goes on.

Another night spent alone in my room. Typical Friday night. Can't even go to parties anymore because I'm a recovering alcoholic. On the bright side, at least my right wrist will get a good workout.

Losing all hope is freedom, but losing all reputation is different matter.

Falcon · May 12, 2012

MrJibbles said:
Another update:

In a nutshell, don't do what I did. It didn't really work out. Now a whole bunch of my family is angry at me. Word spreads like wildfire. I also pissed off my cousin's friend, because one of the girls was his boyfriend even though her profile said she was single. And now all my cousins' hot friends, in addition to some strangers, think I'm a creep and "a disgusting lowlife pervert." A bunch of my uncles are mad at me too. And now my two closest cousins' friends, my main 'social circle', think I'm a mental case. My cousin asked me if "my therapy wasn't working out." But whatever, f*** it. If people think I'm crazy, I honestly don't give a sh**.

Two girls told me I "need to learn how to respect women." There go my chances of ever hooking up with them. And the one chick who responded positively, I found out, lives halfway around the world instead of in my city. Oh well. Life goes on.

Another night spent alone in my room. Typical Friday night. Can't even go to parties anymore because I'm a recovering alcoholic. On the bright side, at least my right wrist will get a good workout.

Losing all hope is freedom, but losing all reputation is different matter.

Damn, that's fricking crazy man. It's like you just nuked your existing social circle.

It's probably too late at this point, but I would've tried a last attempt move and claim someone hacked my Facebook or something. Ouch

Look at it this way, once you are successful, you can look back at this low time in your life and have a good laugh with your buddies. So hopefully this motivates you to get to that point.

Down Low · May 12, 2012

That's a great idea. The OP can still save his reputation. Bull sh1t still works great on women.

OK OP. Just say you had a fattie undercover lover, and she went psycho cuz you broke up. She knew your password and tried to make you look like a perv. Sell the story by telling the story of how you met her: she came up to you in a club and grabbed and held onto your nuts, and said exactly that to you. It's her trade mark or something.

Then say you were so embarrassed that anyone should find out, and didn't tell the truth when she sent the messages. She's just so nasty and ghetto that even after she did that, you didn't want anyone to know that you'd ever be so nice to a girl who treated you so bad. Get that sympathy working for you.

MrJibbles · May 12, 2012

Down Low said:
That's a great idea. The OP can still save his reputation. Bull sh1t still works great on women.

OK OP. Just say you had a fattie undercover lover, and she went psycho cuz you broke up. She knew your password and tried to make you look like a perv. Sell the story by telling the story of how you met her: she came up to you in a club and grabbed and held onto your nuts, and said exactly that to you. It's her trade mark or something.

Then say you were so embarrassed that anyone should find out, and didn't tell the truth when she sent the messages. She's just so nasty and ghetto that even after she did that, you didn't want anyone to know that you'd ever be so nice to a girl who treated you so bad. Get that sympathy working for you.

I already apologized to the boyfriend face to face. It's too late unfortunately. Everyone knows now...

PrettyBoyAJ · May 12, 2012

You just don't go to fourth gear on girls unless it is in a club or party atmosphere or your just road-tripping to another area. Especially to girls that can tie into your social circle. I could have told you this, now your reputation in that city is just plain messed up and there is not too much you can do about it.

You just went over the top with your boldness. Whatever happened to the going out to the mall solo and spitting at girls. This is what you need to do and when you do it you need to be bold. When I say bold you need to let her know that you find her attractive and that you would like to spend some one on one time with her in the future (don't say it in a simpish way!).

st_99 · May 12, 2012

This thread makes me LOL.

I think this may be one of those habits that some people get where they feel the need to blow everything up and hit rock bottom before they can start to rebuild themeselves. Just a guess, idk.

Decided I may as well go for broke. No luck yet. But at least I tried.

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