How do you avoid dating girls on the weekend?

[bradd80]

Ok so I've gone on 3 dates with brunette hb8. We've made out, but haven't done the dirty deed yet. She just texted me and asked me to go out with her saturday night, as a friend of hers invited us all out with her and her bf.

This time I accepted, i figured i'd give her a saturday night here and there as to not make it so obvious that i'm pounding other girls/seeking other hotties at the dance clubs.

How do you guys avoid going out with girls on friday/saturday night that you've been seeing quite a bit of? Do they ever start resenting you for avoiding them on the weekend, and if they do, how do you prevent this?

[samspade]

Just tell them you have plans and can't make it.

Trust me, this early they won't resent it. It gets the old hamster spinning. They'll wonder what (or who) else you're up to (this is good). Just be vague with your answers. If she asks what you're doing, say "I have a Navy SEAL mission in Yemen. Can't tell you any more than that."

Personally I would avoid going out in "groups" until you've planted your flagpole in her.

[Bumsniff]

Originally Posted by bradd80

Ok so I've gone on 3 dates with brunette hb8. We've made out, but haven't done the dirty deed yet. She just texted me and asked me to go out with her saturday night, as a friend of hers invited us all out with her and her bf.

This time I accepted, i figured i'd give her a saturday night here and there as to not make it so obvious that i'm pounding other girls/seeking other hotties at the dance clubs.

How do you guys avoid going out with girls on friday/saturday night that you've been seeing quite a bit of? Do they ever start resenting you for avoiding them on the weekend, and if they do, how do you prevent this?

You tell them you have plans already like any normal person would do.

If they can't accept that you simply tell them "you realize they have a life and things to do to that always doesn't revolve around you" and then make plans for the both of you in the near future.

If they flake out? No problem. Keep busy. They'll either come around after their silent tantrum (even more intrigued and horny for the 'challenging confident guy) or run off to try that B.S with someone else while you continue to meet new people.

[Nutz]

As a rule, no weekend dates unless sex is guaranteed, usually meaning you've already had sex with her in the past.