Narcassists get all the girls?

[Scars]

http://gettinbetter.com/casanova.html

An interesting article I began reading that brought up a lot of questions and opinions. For those who don't have the time to read it (it's pretty lengthy), it basically outlines narcissistic/BPD behaviors, but in MEN. And unfortunately, I feel I completely fall in this category, as do many men who seem to be constantly drawn to BPD woman. Nearly everything in the article was an exact replica of my last relationship.

One of the things that intrigued me was the analysis of how these men in the begging stages seduce woman much like how the BPD woman seduce men. Mirroring their personalities/interests and often showing vulnerability and sensitivity. An absolute a rule that we are taught to never break within the PUA community right? However looking back on it now, I realize that I often (perhaps unconsciously) in my beginner PUA/development stages I did use a lot of vulnerability tactics, and was very open about my ugly past. I also came off extremely intelligent to these woman, and it wasn't uncommon for me to use astrology/palmistry/politics to enhance that thought. Why did it work? I realize that most of my girls haven't exactly been "keepers", and I think my personality/upbringing has a lot to do with it.

I'm starting to think that gaming a mentally disordered woman is actually completely different from gaming a healthy one. Most of you guys will say, why the hell would you want to game an ill woman anyways? For me, I think it's easier, and the more I knowledge myself on the subject I feel like pvssy is available anytime I want, because there are SO MANY fvcked up woman out there.

If a BPD's true fear is abandonment, then it makes sense how you can smother them with attention/sympathy at the very beginning and get away with it. These woman react to you pulling your attention away. In essence, all the cocky-funny and "being a jerk gets you the girl" BS doesn't apply here. It doesn't hurt to utilize it at times, but I think a full blown male narcissist already has this down.

It makes me question the validity of my past lays and even my PUA "knowledge". I have slept with a lot of different woman, but thinking about it now, most of them just kind of fell into my lap. It was effortless, and I think it was because they were drawn to my personality. It's pretty easy to show your vulnerable side (even if it's fake) to a woman who initially is smothering you with attention. And a natural born narcissist will easily draw his attention away from her once it starts getting too suffocating anyway, which is what she loves. It's all she knows.

I can already see the morality DJs disagreeing with this whole post, but for everyone else with an open mind, what's the harm in utilizing the same bullsh!t tactics these monsters use on us back at them? I'm not looking to destroy their life. I just want some pvssy.

Being in the age group I am, all I see now is a bunch of fvcked up woman with daddy issues or some sort of psychological issue. I have ranted about this many times on the board, and quite frankly, I gave up on the whole love fairy tale a long time ago. I've lost hope, and I'm adapting to the times. I feel like I've been gaming woman the completely wrong way as of late. I've been under a dry spell for awhile. I may have 3 consistent fvck buddies but they're all starting to get boring, and I'm a numbers man.

I guess the key here is to remain unattached, and don't be afraid to show vulnerability/sensitivity if you need to manipulate her back into your palm at times, and of course don't let the drama consume your life. But sometimes you got to pay the price for great amazing sex.

-Scars