Where to meet younger girls?

scrouds · 06-22-2011, 04:44 PM

I know people that are afraid of their own skin, and others that can walk in anywhere and be comfortable. That comfort radiates. Be that guy, not the former.

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Originally Posted by speed dawg

If you're out there being something you're not, you will look stupid with the girls.

reading comprhenion failure indeed. I generally write in simple sentences using ordinary words. Seems that you concern yourself with being something you're not, and read that into my post. Our preconceptions tend to color what we read.

You can be comfortable in any enviroment. You don't have to worry about looking like the odd man out. You don't have to worry about looking stupid with younger girls. But you're going to have to give up your preconceptions first.

vatoloco · 06-23-2011, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by vatoloco

At work.

No, seriously. Get your asses down to your local college. It's summer right now and I'm having a blast flirting with all these cute, young, tight-bodied girls in their short shorts. Lots of cuties fresh out of high school and in their summer orientations!

Do it Stat!

In2theGame · 06-23-2011, 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Pair A Dice

Playgrounds. You might get in trouble, though.

LMAO!!!

Nutz · 04-20-2012, 05:18 AM

How timely, I was just out last night in a college town surrounded by half-naked hotties. It was fun until I realized the 18 year olds weren't born until I was already in 11th grade. My group clearly didn't fit in as there was no plausible reason to be there. That's something I'm trying to fix.

If you want to be where younger women are, you better have a plausible reason for being there. Otherwise you'll feel weird and they'll think of you as a weird older guy just trying to pick up women way too young for you. That's the perception anyway, and perception is reality.

One thing I suggest dabbling with is taking night classes, giving non-credit classes if you're a subject matter expert in something, or owning a business in the area. Granted they all involve money, but it's what comes to mind off the top of my head.

sambwoy · 04-26-2012, 09:57 AM

In relation to this question, I miss 18-19 and in college, I never missed them until they were gone.

Now 25, I wanted to ask another poster what age is best for me? 25 and over seem to be starting families, but younger tend to be immature. It has been bringing me down feeling not as young.

scrouds · 04-26-2012, 03:51 PM

Its funny reading something you wrote almost a year ago. There's been some real early stuff that gets dug up and I cringe at what I wrote. But this time I think its still pretty dead on. I still do think that "being in place" has a lot to do with your reflected attitude. If you don't project dominance, or at least comfort in a place, you're going to feel out of place and when you feel out of place, people will mirror that back to you. They will be projecting "Look at you, you look uncomfortable, you're out of place"

Now knowing this and living this is different. I still get uncomfortable in places, and I do tend to seem out of place because of it. I'm not at the point where I can walk into pretty much any place and seem at ease, be at ease, be comfortable and project my comfort and dominance of the scene. But I know people can do that, and its something I need to focus on and work towards achieving.

It'll probably serve me better in business then with girls actually, so anything that can work double duty in the performance improvement segment is really worth figuring out.

sambwoy · 05-07-2012, 05:37 AM

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Originally Posted by dark god

ahhh young puzzy...I hear what your saying about being physically more attractive under the age of 26... firmer body, no wrinkles...asses u can bounce a quarter off on...yummy.

Problem though a lot of them aren't that mature- aspiring to get the popular, socially adept and often most good looking guys. When I was in their age bracket I was either teased or else never complimented once for my personality despite all the 'bigging up' from family just to see me succeed in life. Life stinks.

I had to learn to suppress my desires- you will never get them. Plus being impressionable they are very narcissistic about age gaps and worry about age.

sambwoy · 05-07-2012, 05:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Nutz

If you want to be where younger women are, you better have a plausible reason for being there. Otherwise you'll feel weird and they'll think of you as a weird older guy just trying to pick up women way too young for you. That's the perception anyway, and perception is reality.

Actually that's better put.

jfvengineer · 12-03-2012, 08:42 PM

Hi everyone,

I'm new to this forum and have basically the same question. I'm 35 years old was never a bar or club fan. I am still attracted to younger girls in the early to middle twenties. I thought of taking classes at local colleges. I did take two courses about three years ago. It's a lot of work to take courses since you have to register, send transcripts, fill out applications not to mention pay hefty tuition fees.

I am in Jersey City, NJ. Any ideas where I can meet someone young without having to go to nightclubs and bars. I'll certainly try a few if anyone can suggest some half way civilized ones. I'm actually looking to meet some young girls for a casual meaningful relationship. I've tried online dating with no real luck and speed dating which has been producing much older women.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Boilermaker · 12-03-2012, 10:25 PM

This is an older thread.

Start a new one.

SecondHalf · 12-04-2012, 07:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Yo'Mama

So I'm 33, doing ok in life in terms of career, in good shape, etc.

I'm not finding it too hard to meet girls at the moment but finding it a bit tough to meet girls under 26. I'm not looking for a relationship and girls in their late 20's to early 30's seem to be pretty serious about finding a guy.

Plus, to be honest I like younger girls better physically too.

Where do you guys over 30 meet younger girls?

Sadly, anymore they're the daughters of some of the mothers I have dated.

However, thinking back to your age ...
Clubs are best, but I found it works much better if you have a wing man or ideally a wing chick.
It might be an idea to set up an account on meetup . com and set your age to 28, then join a 20's social group!

Good luck.

SH

04-20-2012, 05:18 AM	#24
Nutz Master Don Juan Join Date: Jul 2008 Age: 36 Posts: 1,603	How timely, I was just out last night in a college town surrounded by half-naked hotties. It was fun until I realized the 18 year olds weren't born until I was already in 11th grade. My group clearly didn't fit in as there was no plausible reason to be there. That's something I'm trying to fix. If you want to be where younger women are, you better have a plausible reason for being there. Otherwise you'll feel weird and they'll think of you as a weird older guy just trying to pick up women way too young for you. That's the perception anyway, and perception is reality. One thing I suggest dabbling with is taking night classes, giving non-credit classes if you're a subject matter expert in something, or owning a business in the area. Granted they all involve money, but it's what comes to mind off the top of my head. __________________ Attraction Vault -- Largest lair on the east coast

04-26-2012, 03:51 PM	#26
scrouds Master Don Juan Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Orlando, fl Age: 30 Posts: 1,165	Its funny reading something you wrote almost a year ago. There's been some real early stuff that gets dug up and I cringe at what I wrote. But this time I think its still pretty dead on. I still do think that "being in place" has a lot to do with your reflected attitude. If you don't project dominance, or at least comfort in a place, you're going to feel out of place and when you feel out of place, people will mirror that back to you. They will be projecting "Look at you, you look uncomfortable, you're out of place" Now knowing this and living this is different. I still get uncomfortable in places, and I do tend to seem out of place because of it. I'm not at the point where I can walk into pretty much any place and seem at ease, be at ease, be comfortable and project my comfort and dominance of the scene. But I know people can do that, and its something I need to focus on and work towards achieving. It'll probably serve me better in business then with girls actually, so anything that can work double duty in the performance improvement segment is really worth figuring out. __________________ -

12-03-2012, 08:42 PM	#29
jfvengineer Don Juan Join Date: Dec 2012 Posts: 1	Where to meet younger girls Hi everyone, I'm new to this forum and have basically the same question. I'm 35 years old was never a bar or club fan. I am still attracted to younger girls in the early to middle twenties. I thought of taking classes at local colleges. I did take two courses about three years ago. It's a lot of work to take courses since you have to register, send transcripts, fill out applications not to mention pay hefty tuition fees. I am in Jersey City, NJ. Any ideas where I can meet someone young without having to go to nightclubs and bars. I'll certainly try a few if anyone can suggest some half way civilized ones. I'm actually looking to meet some young girls for a casual meaningful relationship. I've tried online dating with no real luck and speed dating which has been producing much older women. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

12-03-2012, 10:25 PM	#30
Boilermaker Master Don Juan Join Date: Nov 2010 Age: 28 Posts: 1,168	This is an older thread. Start a new one. __________________ Remember Jophil 1957-2011

04-26-2012, 09:57 AM	#25
sambwoy Don Juan Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 163	In relation to this question, I miss 18-19 and in college, I never missed them until they were gone. Now 25, I wanted to ask another poster what age is best for me? 25 and over seem to be starting families, but younger tend to be immature. It has been bringing me down feeling not as young.