Wanted: Your Most AFC Move

Juan_Man · 04-01-2002, 01:51 AM

I remember in junior high when I had a crush on this one girl. Of course she didn't like me back because she wanted this one taller, better-looking, more athletic, player guy friend of mine. I later found out that my friend liked her as well. Being the dumba$$ I was, I decided to set them up, thinking that my crush would find my humanitarian side attractive. Of course it didn't work. He got to make out with her, and I got to hear about it. He later dumped her, looking for a "faster" girl, but my crush continued to like him. Ughhh!!!!! This is almost painful to write. Now I call all of you DJs to post your worst AFC manuever in the hopes of educating the youth out there in their future pursuit of the opposite sex.

lucasilf · 04-01-2002, 02:20 AM

lol, my worst??? So many to choose from. Hmmm...OK

Because of my AFC ways my first girlfriend lost interest in me real fast. So I kept calling, everyday, I left atleast one message a day ("PLEASE CALL ME BACK!") for a week when I finally got through to her (she answered by accident saying another guys name, ooops!) and I asked her why she was avoiding me (atleast I could figure out that much) and she said she didn't like dating (BS!) and I asked "What am I suppose to do? Stop loving you???" (This was the first time either of us had used the word love.)

Dam have I come a long, long way.

lucasilf

trickynick · 04-01-2002, 02:28 AM

This will be the third time I have posted this disgustingly AFC manuever from my BAFC days of high school.

There was a girl with whom I was in a long-term friendzone situation (my AFC delusions led me to believe I had a chance). One day hanging out in her apartment, she wished aloud that she wanted a candy bar. I actually went to the store and bought her one and came back.

God, I wince every time I write that but it's important for everyone to understand what major chumps a lot of us once were.

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Sg · 04-01-2002, 02:38 AM

My worst mistake..
Calling her back!
My Brothers worst mistake, saying "I do"

Alucard · 04-01-2002, 02:49 AM

My worst AFC move was not moving at all; just passing by with this stupid look on my face. This would be followed by me kicking myself later for being a wussy.

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I was cured all right!

MG69 · 04-01-2002, 03:25 AM

Let me contribute too.

I was in a LTR with this gal for 5 years and when she broke up with me, i did tons of AFC stuffs.

i made her jigsaw puzzle, call her every now and then to ask for a second chance, buy her flowers, be a more-than-good-friend-but-not-bf, treat her to a circus show($200 per pax), begging her to tell me why she chose to break up and i will change myself for her, and went to a holiday with her and ends up buying a diamond ring for her.

Sg · 04-01-2002, 03:30 AM

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Originally posted by MG69:
Let me contribute too.

I was in a LTR with this gal for 5 years and when she broke up with me, i did tons of AFC stuffs.

i made her jigsaw puzzle, call her every now and then to ask for a second chance, buy her flowers, be a more-than-good-friend-but-not-bf, treat her to a circus show($200 per pax), begging her to tell me why she chose to break up and i will change myself for her, and went to a holiday with her and ends up buying a diamond ring for her.

MG69 has shown MUCH improvement since then though. Congrats http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/smile.gif

MG69 · 04-01-2002, 03:43 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sg:
MG69 has shown MUCH improvement since then though. Congrats http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/smile.gif

its all thanks to you guys here.
i did not really get over the break up till i came upon this site and read a lot from the DJ bible and the magnificient posts of all the guys here

PortugueseMeatball · 04-01-2002, 06:39 AM

Asking a girl if she'd like to be my GF, and having to hear "El LJBF". Oh, but there're so many of them!...

Matt ala Casanova · 04-01-2002, 09:29 AM

I get sick thinking of this one.....

I was married for 7 years, I became a AFC by protocol and towards the end I tried to do everything to keep her, change my ways, habits, everything...mind you, she was a fvcking 2! I was trying to keep something I was TOO use to. I am so glad I finally woke up and kicked her a$$ out. Now I am happy with a 9! http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/biggrin.gif This 9 and others chase me now...woot!

M.A.C.

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College_Man · 04-01-2002, 12:15 PM

I was friends with this girl all through my first 2 years in college. I had it bad for her for at least 2 years...she had given me the LJBF line and I hung around hoping for her to give me a chance. I've watched her date another guy and listened to her when she was having problems and was "always there for her" Fvck that s*it. She broke up with this guy and I was getting a gleam of hope b/c I thought I was gonna get my chance...who was I kidding...she got back with him a month after they broke up....this put me over the edge, so I just quit talking to her all together...this was difficult b/c we were taking 2 classes together...but I just ignored her...she'd try to get my attention but I wasn't gonna let her use me anymore...I haven't spoken to her in 2 months and I see her 3 days a week for about 3 hours each of those days...I find my life much better without her

DJinTraining · 04-01-2002, 01:30 PM

I kept a daily journal about how I felt about a girl I was infatuated with, then when she was just about to move away from college, I GAVE IT TO HER!

DeepBlue · 04-01-2002, 01:46 PM

Juan_Man wrote:
Wanted: Your Most AFC Move

It's too long a list!
:-)

But seriously, my "moves" as an AFC all came down to the same thing:
Giving too much too soon.

DeepBlue

GREAT BIG MAN · 04-01-2002, 01:55 PM

I was the lead singer of a boys band.

Ok, went from Italy to Arkansas to visit a girl who was in an exchange program, at least I got some action http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/wink.gif

Juan_Man · 04-01-2002, 02:27 PM

Good stuff! Keep 'em coming.

DJ de Florida · 04-01-2002, 02:34 PM

I was in high school. At the end date when driving her home from a formal high school dance, I asked "Where is this relationship going?". I should have been using my mouth for other purposes.

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Just Do It!

1) Progress always involves risk: you can't steal second base and keep your foot on first.

2) Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow.

3) You never really lose until you stop trying.

Archalon · 04-01-2002, 04:46 PM

1. saying I do
2. saying yes - TWICE - when asked by different gals to marry them
3. paying for both rings

Luckily, that stupidity is behind me now

Powertrip · 04-01-2002, 05:22 PM

I kept a daily journal about how I felt about a girl I was infatuated with, then when she was just about to move away from college, I GAVE IT TO HER!

Holy Crap.. that is the worst thing I've ever heard.

Nick, you're running a close second. http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/wink.gif

Personally, I went out at 2am and got flowers and a card for my soon-to-be ex for an argument that really had nothing to do with me. I was going out of my way to apologize and make good even though it was her fault. I'm glad that guy and her are gone from my life forever!

Dee-Zy · 04-01-2002, 10:41 PM

this is great thread. Good idea.

I've seen something familiar, but it's always great for laughs and learn from mistakes.

My worst mistake to date?

My high school crush, Put her on a pedestrial for 5 years - and never got close to a kiss... played my cards wrong at the end and became 'friends' aaaargh...

still painfull today.

infact, I still dunno if I'm over her or not.

http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/frown.gif
GHOST

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Pro · 04-01-2002, 10:43 PM

I'd have to say my biggest AFC move lasted from say 16 to 19. hehhehehhehhe http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/biggrin.gif

Well you should see me now!

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"If you do something, you'll reap rewards."

04-01-2002, 01:51 AM	#1
Juan_Man Master Don Juan Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,055	Wanted: Your Most AFC Move I remember in junior high when I had a crush on this one girl. Of course she didn't like me back because she wanted this one taller, better-looking, more athletic, player guy friend of mine. I later found out that my friend liked her as well. Being the dumba$$ I was, I decided to set them up, thinking that my crush would find my humanitarian side attractive. Of course it didn't work. He got to make out with her, and I got to hear about it. He later dumped her, looking for a "faster" girl, but my crush continued to like him. Ughhh!!!!! This is almost painful to write. Now I call all of you DJs to post your worst AFC manuever in the hopes of educating the youth out there in their future pursuit of the opposite sex. __________________ "Every guy masturbates, but niceguys masturbate more."

04-01-2002, 02:20 AM	#2
lucasilf Senior Don Juan Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 241	lol, my worst??? So many to choose from. Hmmm...OK Because of my AFC ways my first girlfriend lost interest in me real fast. So I kept calling, everyday, I left atleast one message a day ("PLEASE CALL ME BACK!") for a week when I finally got through to her (she answered by accident saying another guys name, ooops!) and I asked her why she was avoiding me (atleast I could figure out that much) and she said she didn't like dating (BS!) and I asked "What am I suppose to do? Stop loving you???" (This was the first time either of us had used the word love.) Dam have I come a long, long way. lucasilf __________________ You are rejected by 100% of the girls you don't go for. --------------------- "Promise your not a player???" -Every girl I meet

04-01-2002, 02:28 AM	#3
trickynick Master Don Juan Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: USA Posts: 1,741	This will be the third time I have posted this disgustingly AFC manuever from my BAFC days of high school. There was a girl with whom I was in a long-term friendzone situation (my AFC delusions led me to believe I had a chance). One day hanging out in her apartment, she wished aloud that she wanted a candy bar. I actually went to the store and bought her one and came back. God, I wince every time I write that but it's important for everyone to understand what major chumps a lot of us once were. ------------------ You either own the game or it owns you! __________________ You either own the game or it owns you!

04-01-2002, 02:49 AM	#5
Alucard Don Juan Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Johnstown, PA, USA Posts: 17	My worst AFC move was not moving at all; just passing by with this stupid look on my face. This would be followed by me kicking myself later for being a wussy. ------------------ I was cured all right! __________________ I was cured all right!

04-01-2002, 09:29 AM	#10
Matt ala Casanova Master Don Juan Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: NH/MA Posts: 682	I get sick thinking of this one..... I was married for 7 years, I became a AFC by protocol and towards the end I tried to do everything to keep her, change my ways, habits, everything...mind you, she was a fvcking 2! I was trying to keep something I was TOO use to. I am so glad I finally woke up and kicked her a$$ out. Now I am happy with a 9! http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/biggrin.gif This 9 and others chase me now...woot! M.A.C. ------------------ "If you worry about tommorow and get mad about yesterday, you will piss all over today!" __________________ "If you worry about tommorow and get mad about yesterday, you will piss all over today!"

04-01-2002, 02:38 AM	#4
Sg Senior Don Juan Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: las vegas Posts: 255	My worst mistake.. Calling her back! My Brothers worst mistake, saying "I do"

04-01-2002, 03:25 AM	#6
MG69 Senior Don Juan Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 338	Let me contribute too. I was in a LTR with this gal for 5 years and when she broke up with me, i did tons of AFC stuffs. i made her jigsaw puzzle, call her every now and then to ask for a second chance, buy her flowers, be a more-than-good-friend-but-not-bf, treat her to a circus show($200 per pax), begging her to tell me why she chose to break up and i will change myself for her, and went to a holiday with her and ends up buying a diamond ring for her.

04-01-2002, 06:39 AM	#9
PortugueseMeatball Senior Don Juan Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Portugal Posts: 337	Asking a girl if she'd like to be my GF, and having to hear "El LJBF". Oh, but there're so many of them!...

04-01-2002, 12:15 PM	#11
College_Man Don Juan Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: USA Posts: 113	I was friends with this girl all through my first 2 years in college. I had it bad for her for at least 2 years...she had given me the LJBF line and I hung around hoping for her to give me a chance. I've watched her date another guy and listened to her when she was having problems and was "always there for her" Fvck that s*it. She broke up with this guy and I was getting a gleam of hope b/c I thought I was gonna get my chance...who was I kidding...she got back with him a month after they broke up....this put me over the edge, so I just quit talking to her all together...this was difficult b/c we were taking 2 classes together...but I just ignored her...she'd try to get my attention but I wasn't gonna let her use me anymore...I haven't spoken to her in 2 months and I see her 3 days a week for about 3 hours each of those days...I find my life much better without her

04-01-2002, 01:30 PM	#12
DJinTraining Don Juan Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Philadelphia, PA Posts: 18	I kept a daily journal about how I felt about a girl I was infatuated with, then when she was just about to move away from college, I GAVE IT TO HER!

04-01-2002, 01:46 PM	#13
DeepBlue Senior Don Juan Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 403	Juan_Man wrote: Wanted: Your Most AFC Move It's too long a list! :-) But seriously, my "moves" as an AFC all came down to the same thing: Giving too much too soon. DeepBlue

04-01-2002, 01:55 PM	#14
GREAT BIG MAN Senior Don Juan Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 358	I was the lead singer of a boys band. Ok, went from Italy to Arkansas to visit a girl who was in an exchange program, at least I got some action http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/wink.gif __________________ believe those who want T-H-E-R-E A-R-E L-O-T-S O-F G-I-R-L-S

04-01-2002, 02:27 PM	#15
Juan_Man Master Don Juan Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,055	Good stuff! Keep 'em coming. __________________ "Every guy masturbates, but niceguys masturbate more."

04-01-2002, 02:34 PM	#16
DJ de Florida Master Don Juan Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: Florida Posts: 1,396	I was in high school. At the end date when driving her home from a formal high school dance, I asked "Where is this relationship going?". I should have been using my mouth for other purposes. ------------------ DJ de Florida ** Just Do It! 1) Progress always involves risk: you can't steal second base and keep your foot on first. 2) Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow. 3) You never really lose until you stop trying. __________________ ** Don Juan de Florida

04-01-2002, 04:46 PM	#17
Archalon Don Juan Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 97	1. saying I do 2. saying yes - TWICE - when asked by different gals to marry them 3. paying for both rings Luckily, that stupidity is behind me now

04-01-2002, 05:22 PM	#18
Powertrip Master Don Juan Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: CA Posts: 836	I kept a daily journal about how I felt about a girl I was infatuated with, then when she was just about to move away from college, I GAVE IT TO HER! Holy Crap.. that is the worst thing I've ever heard. Nick, you're running a close second. http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/wink.gif Personally, I went out at 2am and got flowers and a card for my soon-to-be ex for an argument that really had nothing to do with me. I was going out of my way to apologize and make good even though it was her fault. I'm glad that guy and her are gone from my life forever!

04-01-2002, 10:43 PM	#20
Pro Master Don Juan Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 709	I'd have to say my biggest AFC move lasted from say 16 to 19. hehhehehhehhe http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/biggrin.gif Well you should see me now! ------------------ “You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face” -Eleanor Roosevelt "If you do something, you'll reap rewards." __________________ Skill is often no more than CONFIDENCE. "If you do something, you'll reap rewards." "You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face" -Eleanor Roosevelt "Treat her like a geek." - Jason