I got LJBF thing the other day...this is what I said

Zunder · 11-30-2010, 03:56 AM

...I said "sorry, I can't be friends with a girl I want to bend over and fvck her brains out".
She replied that I was "disgusting" and that I was also "selfish" because I just didn't want to be friends.
We haven't talked since, and I really don't care if we don't.

And no, this wasnt the chick I banged in her beamer that I talked about in a recent post. This was a chick that I figured that I was just becoming an orbitier. So I thought stuff it, I will get right to the point with her.

Yeah so anyway, got rejected, got called disgusting and selfish.

Anyone else been called similar when they tell a girl that they just dont want to be friends?

jophil28 · 11-30-2010, 05:56 AM

"..you are disgusting and selfish.." is a compliment sometimes BUT only if she has some sexual interest in you. If not, she is calling you a gross creeper.
I would not have said what you said because it told her that you were hot for her and fed her ego even though she had told you that she only wanted you as an orbiter.
IF a woman says LJBF you best shrug it off, say "OK, no problem" and walk away.
Then you make yourself scarce when she calls and wants you to take her out because she has no bad boy in her life.

Razor Sharp · 11-30-2010, 06:26 AM

This is why its a good idea to pre-emptively LJBF sometimes. If you get the vibe that this chick is wishy-washy or flakey about the deal, or she's just not responding to your persistent flirting/kino, drop the LJBF bomb on her.

Quote:

"I really like you, but it's obvious we can never be anything more than friends. This would never work out - we are too alike! We'd just end up fighting all the time, and having crazy make-up sex, up-down, hot-cold, ugh I'm just not ready for all those emotions. So glad that we can just be pals"

Right after that I just continue flirting, sending more conflicting messages till her brain eventually short-circuits and we end up doing things that are forbidden amongst friends, the taboo factor makes the sex that much better.

Now if she "friends" me first, I do exactly what jophil suggested. There is no upset, no whining or bargaining. I'm seriously 100% cool with it because that's just a free social proof pass to f*ck her hot friends. Sometimes I will even tell them that flat out. One time I told this girl "Whew, thats a relief, now I can go for your homegirl Melissa, she's REALLY hot!" We ended up f*cking literally within minutes.

11-30-2010, 03:56 AM	#1
Zunder Master Don Juan Join Date: Jun 2009 Age: 43 Posts: 628	I got LJBF thing the other day...this is what I said ...I said "sorry, I can't be friends with a girl I want to bend over and fvck her brains out". She replied that I was "disgusting" and that I was also "selfish" because I just didn't want to be friends. We haven't talked since, and I really don't care if we don't. And no, this wasnt the chick I banged in her beamer that I talked about in a recent post. This was a chick that I figured that I was just becoming an orbitier. So I thought stuff it, I will get right to the point with her. Yeah so anyway, got rejected, got called disgusting and selfish. Anyone else been called similar when they tell a girl that they just dont want to be friends? __________________ "Why u mad?"

11-30-2010, 05:56 AM	#2
jophil28 Master Don Juan Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Gold Coast. Aust. Age: 56 Posts: 5,284	"..you are disgusting and selfish.." is a compliment sometimes BUT only if she has some sexual interest in you. If not, she is calling you a gross creeper. I would not have said what you said because it told her that you were hot for her and fed her ego even though she had told you that she only wanted you as an orbiter. IF a woman says LJBF you best shrug it off, say "OK, no problem" and walk away. Then you make yourself scarce when she calls and wants you to take her out because she has no bad boy in her life. __________________ IT has rained so much down here lately that my girlfriend just looked through the window for four days - I guess I should let her back in.