Masked_angel
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Let’s spice things up! Some practical stuff to improve your game!
In the recent 2 months I’ve been casual dating and I have started to see a pattern of things that works for me. These tips are mostly focused towards, rAFC and people who want to spice their game of! See this as a quick tip box
Here we go then! First of I’m giving some general stuff and in the end I’ll give an example when I used it all.
Belief!
If you have a low confidence, like I did, especially when it comes to looks (I’m quite bad looking). You can always destroy your temporary insecurities by repeating this.
Be like her father
When you are on a date with a girl, many people recommend that you should act like you know her. Do stuff, talk about stuff that make it seem like you have known each other for years. It works! But you can spice things up by acting like you’re her father! Yes, her father!
I learned this from a psychology course. That girls fall in love with their father in their early years, and get attracted to people who seem like her father.
USE THIS AS AN ADVANTAGE!
When she does something good, compliment her by saying. “Good girl” When she says something wrong or pronounce something wrong (E.g She says Competer (Instead of computer)). Correct her and say “Now say after me, it is called a C-O-M-P-U-T-E-R”.. aww “good girl”.
Here is another example I used after a girl got frightened by a dog.
“ Aww you got afraid? Her let me hold you and protect you”
It’s like “teasing”. But do it like you are her father.
Keep it mysterious
This is an obvious one, but how use it practically?
Its easy don’t talk about yourself, get her to talk about herself. Only open up, when you find something in common. When she asks something, answer her with something exaggerated like:
She: How old are you?
Masked_angel: I’m 59 years old
She: Where are you from?
Maske_angel: I’m from the darkest suborn in the country.
She: Are you single?
Masked_angel: HAHA, do you have more stupid questions like this Or I have a 100 girlfriends
She: What do you study?
Masked_angel:I’m following my dream
You can even just tell her, “it’s top secret”
She: What’s your favorite colour?
Masked_angel: Its top secret
The reward system
Now you can’t keep being mysterious all the time, because she will see you as a fake. But when she demands, and continues asking same question, you can create a reward system. Every time she does something good give her a gold star. Everytime she says something bad or flakes, remove a gold star. Then tell her that when she has five gold stars you’ll give her a surprise.
If she asks you what the surprise is, just answer “you need 5 gold stars to get access to that” or “you’ll see”
She: haha Masked_angel you silly, it is called misalliance!
Masked_angel: ahh cool, now you get a gold star! Five gold stars and you get a surprise!
She: What is the surprise :O
Masked_angel: Top secret
She: TELL MEE
Masked_angel: You need 5 stars
She: how do I get this stars?
Etc..
Dissociation
We all know how unattractive it is to be an AFC, so why not use that as an advantage? We know the traits, when she tests you for being an AFC just say, “I’m just not the type of guy ____ (say an afc trait). If you are searching for that you have to look elsewhere.”
Example:
She: Tell me all about yourself.
Masked_angel: I’m not the type of guy that just open up for anyone, or every opportunity. Can you I trust you?
She: Of course you can!
Masked_angel: You should feel very special that im going to tell you this deep thing about me:
She: Tell me :O
Masked_angel: OH I forgot you only have 3 stars, you need 5!
She: NOOOOOO
So here we have a conversation I had with a girl when a used all this stuff.
She: How old are you?
Masked_angel: I’m 59 years old
She: haha seriously
Masked_angel: Haha people say I look younger
She: hahaha
Masked_angel: Good girl
She: Tell me
Masked_angel: It’s a secret
She: Haha, so how do I get access to the secret?
Masked_angel: You’ll need five stars
She: How do I get five stars?
Masked_angel: blab la
She: bla bla
*later*
She: Why won’t you just tell me?
Masked_angel: I’m not the type of guy that just open up for anyone, or every opportunity. Can you I trust you?
She: Of course you can!
Masked_angel: You should feel very special that im going to tell you this deep thing about me:
She: Tell me :O
Masked_angel: OH I forgot you only have 3 stars, you need 5!
She: NOOOOOO
*Later* (when she has 4 gold stars)
Masked_angel: Oh you have 4 goldstars, you need one more.
She: what do you want me to do?
Masked_angel: Give me a kiss on my cheek
She: *kisses*
Masked_angel: Hm… I thought you were a good kisser, kind a disappointed.
She: :O
Masked_angel: You know what give me another on, here. (point on the other side of your cheek)
She: Kisses
Masked_angel: hm.. better, but not good enough. Kiss me here instead (point on your lips)
Troubleshoot, if she says “no”.
You can just answer with, “I never said I wanted a kiss” or “then you’ll not get a star”. If you want to be real bad you can just remove one star
Best regards
Masked_angel
(there is more to add, but I’ll do it later)
In the recent 2 months I’ve been casual dating and I have started to see a pattern of things that works for me. These tips are mostly focused towards, rAFC and people who want to spice their game of! See this as a quick tip box
Here we go then! First of I’m giving some general stuff and in the end I’ll give an example when I used it all.
Belief!
If you have a low confidence, like I did, especially when it comes to looks (I’m quite bad looking). You can always destroy your temporary insecurities by repeating this.
It will get you in a better state!Pook said:
Be like her father
When you are on a date with a girl, many people recommend that you should act like you know her. Do stuff, talk about stuff that make it seem like you have known each other for years. It works! But you can spice things up by acting like you’re her father! Yes, her father!
I learned this from a psychology course. That girls fall in love with their father in their early years, and get attracted to people who seem like her father.
USE THIS AS AN ADVANTAGE!
When she does something good, compliment her by saying. “Good girl” When she says something wrong or pronounce something wrong (E.g She says Competer (Instead of computer)). Correct her and say “Now say after me, it is called a C-O-M-P-U-T-E-R”.. aww “good girl”.
Here is another example I used after a girl got frightened by a dog.
“ Aww you got afraid? Her let me hold you and protect you”
It’s like “teasing”. But do it like you are her father.
Keep it mysterious
This is an obvious one, but how use it practically?
Its easy don’t talk about yourself, get her to talk about herself. Only open up, when you find something in common. When she asks something, answer her with something exaggerated like:
She: How old are you?
Masked_angel: I’m 59 years old
She: Where are you from?
Maske_angel: I’m from the darkest suborn in the country.
She: Are you single?
Masked_angel: HAHA, do you have more stupid questions like this
Or I have a 100 girlfriendsShe: What do you study?
Masked_angel:I’m following my dream
You can even just tell her, “it’s top secret”
She: What’s your favorite colour?
Masked_angel: Its top secret
The reward system
Now you can’t keep being mysterious all the time, because she will see you as a fake. But when she demands, and continues asking same question, you can create a reward system. Every time she does something good give her a gold star. Everytime she says something bad or flakes, remove a gold star. Then tell her that when she has five gold stars you’ll give her a surprise.
If she asks you what the surprise is, just answer “you need 5 gold stars to get access to that” or “you’ll see”
She: haha Masked_angel you silly, it is called misalliance!
Masked_angel: ahh cool, now you get a gold star! Five gold stars and you get a surprise!
She: What is the surprise :O
Masked_angel: Top secret
She: TELL MEE
Masked_angel: You need 5 stars
She: how do I get this stars?
Etc..
Dissociation
We all know how unattractive it is to be an AFC, so why not use that as an advantage? We know the traits, when she tests you for being an AFC just say, “I’m just not the type of guy ____ (say an afc trait). If you are searching for that you have to look elsewhere.”
Example:
She: Tell me all about yourself.
Masked_angel: I’m not the type of guy that just open up for anyone, or every opportunity. Can you I trust you?
She: Of course you can!
Masked_angel: You should feel very special that im going to tell you this deep thing about me:
She: Tell me :O
Masked_angel: OH I forgot you only have 3 stars, you need 5!
She: NOOOOOO
So here we have a conversation I had with a girl when a used all this stuff.
She: How old are you?
Masked_angel: I’m 59 years old
She: haha seriously
Masked_angel: Haha people say I look younger
She: hahaha
Masked_angel: Good girl
She: Tell me
Masked_angel: It’s a secret
She: Haha, so how do I get access to the secret?
Masked_angel: You’ll need five stars
She: How do I get five stars?
Masked_angel: blab la
She: bla bla
*later*
She: Why won’t you just tell me?
Masked_angel: I’m not the type of guy that just open up for anyone, or every opportunity. Can you I trust you?
She: Of course you can!
Masked_angel: You should feel very special that im going to tell you this deep thing about me:
She: Tell me :O
Masked_angel: OH I forgot you only have 3 stars, you need 5!
She: NOOOOOO
*Later* (when she has 4 gold stars)
Masked_angel: Oh you have 4 goldstars, you need one more.
She: what do you want me to do?
Masked_angel: Give me a kiss on my cheek
She: *kisses*
Masked_angel: Hm… I thought you were a good kisser, kind a disappointed.
She: :O
Masked_angel: You know what give me another on, here. (point on the other side of your cheek)
She: Kisses
Masked_angel: hm.. better, but not good enough. Kiss me here instead (point on your lips)
Troubleshoot, if she says “no”.
You can just answer with, “I never said I wanted a kiss” or “then you’ll not get a star”. If you want to be real bad you can just remove one star
Best regards
Masked_angel
(there is more to add, but I’ll do it later)
