"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Robert Jordon

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Picture this for a moment.

Your in the market for a new car. You visit 2 separate car dealerships. The first sales person comes at you, despirate to sell a car to you. Every time he makes an offer and you hesitate. He quickly lowers the price just to please you.

Then you visit the second dealership, and the sales person appears very eligant and talks in a slow calm manner. He makes you an offer, and wether you accept his offer or not. He still maintains his pride. He doesn't lower his price drastically and as you think about the offer he has made. He says the following "This is a fine car, you get what you pay for. If you would like to pay the asking price, you can either take it . or leave it. someone else will surly purchase this car"

Now Imagin that you have an opportunity to get both of these cars for free. Which one would you purchase? The second deal of course. Because it automatically is preceived as being more valuable, because the salesman made it look like his car was in demand, and that it was worth having. while the first salesman seemed despirate. He made it seem as no one else wanted the car in the first place, so he would take what he could get for it.

Well this is exactly how women judge a man. if he seems despirate(by calling all the time, or harrasing her for a date), he is worthless. Versus the man who maintains his dignity and pride, is always preceived as being valuable. This turns her on and can give the average looking guy a huge advantage over a very good looking guy. Try it, it works
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Anti-Dump

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Exactly.

Also, showing her frequent attention tells her other girls are giving you NO attention. So your 'value' is lowered that way.

Great point Robert.

AD




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terminator911

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Great post Robert... good information. Keep it up


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hehehe another 2 thumbs up!
Real good methaphore

too bad I realised it to late...


Peace Out
DZ

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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