Hot Ice Casanova
Don Juan
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“Nice Guys Finish Last”
Every dating guru out there says “be a nice guy”. Most women say it too. Because that’s what society tells them they should look for. But that’s not really what they desire. Have you ever ended up as the “best friend” that girls will never sleep with – while they will sleep with that bad boy they just met last week? Whatever happened to “I want to find a nice guy?” That’s merely what they tell you when you already are a nice guy – when you have lowered your value, de-sexualized yourself, she will exclude you from her secret reality – that she really desires a sexual, dominant rake. This is not socially acceptable and yet it is reality. The nice guy will never find out, because the woman will never let him in on the secret. The guys she will let in, already know it. They are the Casanovas, the secret society of men who know the secret desires of women.
And the Nice Guys will continue banging their heads against the wall, wondering why they are always ending up as a friend instead as a lover. And maybe ten years down the line, a woman will finally decide she wants to settle down with the Nice Guy. He naively thinks she “loves” him. In reality she feels no sexual attraction to him at all – she only wants money and “stability”. And they will get married. Sex will be very rare. And the woman will always invent an excuse: “I’m not in the mood”/ “I’m tired”/ “I don’t like sex”… and he continues buying her expensive gifts to show he cares. She doesn’t bat an eye. They argue, the nice guy tries to win – and loses. She *****es, he lets himself be *****ed. She has several affairs behind his back – oh yes, NOW she miraculously enjoys sex – then denies everything and claims she only love him. The next day, she’s yelling at him and throwing pots and pans. The nice guy gets divorced, loses half his life savings, and concludes that women are all *****y *****s who only want a man for his money.
But all of the woman’s secret lovers will know better. They will know what she hid from him. They know there is a repressed feminine desire burning within her cold crotch. They are members of the secret society – the men whose behavior is dominant, sexual, and attractive, thus unlocking the gates to her cave and taking down her fence. She will long to please them in any way they desire. She may even spend money on them – her husband’s money! For while they are all pleasure to her, her husband is all pain (though he knows it not). She feels awkward in front of him, cold and repressed – simply because he’s not the sort of man she can be herself with. He is supplicating, submissive, and often relies on her to make all the decisions. He also tries to reason with her all the time, relying on argument rather than charisma to make her like him. He complains to her all the time – this is how women argue with each other. She feels like she’s arguing with another woman, and she can feel no attraction to this feminized man. Yet her lovers never EVER try to reason with her. They even push her away at times – and she chases them! They play by their own rules, never trying to reason with her to change hers. So she’s the one trying to tame them, not the other way around. They NEVER have to put up with “*****y” attitude from her. In their presence, she doesn’t have it. She’s a totally different person.
Why this seemingly two-faced difference in women’s attitudes? Why is she a ***** to the nice guy, and a willing sex slave to the rakish womanizer? She simply acts on emotion. She never feels any emotional attachment to nice guys – if she is anything more than friends with them, she uses them for money (though not all women do this, many of them see nothing wrong with it – to them, the nice guy is not a real man, so how can he have any sexual desires?). Yet in the presence of Casanovas and Don Juans, the cold, manipulative exterior evaporates, and the soft, earthly, voluptuous girl inside comes out. She will do anything to please him, since he brings out the best in her.
THE IMAGE YOU PROJECT DETERMINES HOW THE WOMEN WILL RESPOND. And whatever response you attract, becomes your reality. The nice guy only attracts a woman’s coldness and contempt, and maybe her manipulative tendencies – so in his reality, all women only want looks, money, etc. because those were the only responses his attitude and behavior brought out in women. The Casanova only attracts a woman’s sexual energy, so in his reality, all women want sex, and they all want to be led, swept off their feet, and to some extent dominated. To the Casanova, women are not evil, cold manipulators – they are lusty, sex-crazed nymphos who only want his rod – not his looks or his bank account.
The fact that women are emotional beings is a great asset to you, because it leads to a startling realization: What women really are, is whatever you want them to be – or rather, whatever you bring out in them. The Casanova brings out their raunchy wild side, that couldn’t care less how rich, young, or handsome (or old, poor, and ugly) he is. The nice guy only brings out their cold, reserved, ***** shield.
Most men, never having gotten out of the nice guy category, think women are nothing but headaches and that women often don’t make any sense. They seem to do so many contradictory things. But actually women make perfect sense once you understand their inner nature. Women act to put up barriers between themselves and the needy, supplicating nice guy. They don’t want that spineless loser dragging them down. But they take down barriers to members of the secret society – because these are high-value men who are already in demand from other women. They are dominant, decisive, confident, spontaneous, and self-validated. Subconsciously, women assume these must be the men with the best genes, the most masculine men, the ones that every woman needs to mate with to have the fittest, most adaptable offspring. Their money, looks, and intelligence don’t matter nearly as much as the manly energy they project. It’s true, this Darwinian sex drive powers women’s sexual choices far more than any conscious thought process – even when they have no intention of having children, in their subconscious, they have no objection to bearing that stud’s babies some time in the future. And so they have sex with him, to get closer to him. They don’t think to choose a sex partner, they feel.
It’s a simple enough matter to explain: the reason why nice guys and seducers get such extremely different results with women is that seducers project all the right attractive, sexual behaviors, while nice guys project all the wrong, unattractive, anti-sexual ones. One sends up a woman’s ***** shield, the other melts it down like hot wax. So then we get to the question – why does the nice guy project all the wrong behaviors? We were all taught women like “nice guys”. Does he not do even one attractive thing?
Well, even if he does, the problem is that he does so many unattractive things, that he completely turns her off and destroys the effect of any attractive things he did. He may make her laugh with a witty joke, but then start trying to impress her with ten more jokes in a row – which looks desperate, try-hard, and ruins the value of that one joke. He may walk in all confident, but then start begging her “do you need anything, can I get you anything?” ten times in an hour. He gets nervous, desperately trying to please her and make her comfortable, sensing that something’s wrong, that she’s hiding her true feelings from him. His nervous behavior makes her feel uncomfortable as well. This was supposed to be a fun time for her. From the woman’s point of view, is the guy that “doesn’t make any sense”. Why is he ruining their date, outing, or fun evening? “Okay, I’m fine,” she wants to tell him, “just stop asking me!” But she keeps this to herself, hoping he finally gets the hint and stops supplicating, stops trying so hard to please her.
To the woman, it can often be a total mystery why he acts like that. But behind his eager-to-please exterior, the nice guy knows all too well the root of his nervous behavior. He is insecure and overcompensating for it.
Every dating guru out there says “be a nice guy”. Most women say it too. Because that’s what society tells them they should look for. But that’s not really what they desire. Have you ever ended up as the “best friend” that girls will never sleep with – while they will sleep with that bad boy they just met last week? Whatever happened to “I want to find a nice guy?” That’s merely what they tell you when you already are a nice guy – when you have lowered your value, de-sexualized yourself, she will exclude you from her secret reality – that she really desires a sexual, dominant rake. This is not socially acceptable and yet it is reality. The nice guy will never find out, because the woman will never let him in on the secret. The guys she will let in, already know it. They are the Casanovas, the secret society of men who know the secret desires of women.
And the Nice Guys will continue banging their heads against the wall, wondering why they are always ending up as a friend instead as a lover. And maybe ten years down the line, a woman will finally decide she wants to settle down with the Nice Guy. He naively thinks she “loves” him. In reality she feels no sexual attraction to him at all – she only wants money and “stability”. And they will get married. Sex will be very rare. And the woman will always invent an excuse: “I’m not in the mood”/ “I’m tired”/ “I don’t like sex”… and he continues buying her expensive gifts to show he cares. She doesn’t bat an eye. They argue, the nice guy tries to win – and loses. She *****es, he lets himself be *****ed. She has several affairs behind his back – oh yes, NOW she miraculously enjoys sex – then denies everything and claims she only love him. The next day, she’s yelling at him and throwing pots and pans. The nice guy gets divorced, loses half his life savings, and concludes that women are all *****y *****s who only want a man for his money.
But all of the woman’s secret lovers will know better. They will know what she hid from him. They know there is a repressed feminine desire burning within her cold crotch. They are members of the secret society – the men whose behavior is dominant, sexual, and attractive, thus unlocking the gates to her cave and taking down her fence. She will long to please them in any way they desire. She may even spend money on them – her husband’s money! For while they are all pleasure to her, her husband is all pain (though he knows it not). She feels awkward in front of him, cold and repressed – simply because he’s not the sort of man she can be herself with. He is supplicating, submissive, and often relies on her to make all the decisions. He also tries to reason with her all the time, relying on argument rather than charisma to make her like him. He complains to her all the time – this is how women argue with each other. She feels like she’s arguing with another woman, and she can feel no attraction to this feminized man. Yet her lovers never EVER try to reason with her. They even push her away at times – and she chases them! They play by their own rules, never trying to reason with her to change hers. So she’s the one trying to tame them, not the other way around. They NEVER have to put up with “*****y” attitude from her. In their presence, she doesn’t have it. She’s a totally different person.
Why this seemingly two-faced difference in women’s attitudes? Why is she a ***** to the nice guy, and a willing sex slave to the rakish womanizer? She simply acts on emotion. She never feels any emotional attachment to nice guys – if she is anything more than friends with them, she uses them for money (though not all women do this, many of them see nothing wrong with it – to them, the nice guy is not a real man, so how can he have any sexual desires?). Yet in the presence of Casanovas and Don Juans, the cold, manipulative exterior evaporates, and the soft, earthly, voluptuous girl inside comes out. She will do anything to please him, since he brings out the best in her.
THE IMAGE YOU PROJECT DETERMINES HOW THE WOMEN WILL RESPOND. And whatever response you attract, becomes your reality. The nice guy only attracts a woman’s coldness and contempt, and maybe her manipulative tendencies – so in his reality, all women only want looks, money, etc. because those were the only responses his attitude and behavior brought out in women. The Casanova only attracts a woman’s sexual energy, so in his reality, all women want sex, and they all want to be led, swept off their feet, and to some extent dominated. To the Casanova, women are not evil, cold manipulators – they are lusty, sex-crazed nymphos who only want his rod – not his looks or his bank account.
The fact that women are emotional beings is a great asset to you, because it leads to a startling realization: What women really are, is whatever you want them to be – or rather, whatever you bring out in them. The Casanova brings out their raunchy wild side, that couldn’t care less how rich, young, or handsome (or old, poor, and ugly) he is. The nice guy only brings out their cold, reserved, ***** shield.
Most men, never having gotten out of the nice guy category, think women are nothing but headaches and that women often don’t make any sense. They seem to do so many contradictory things. But actually women make perfect sense once you understand their inner nature. Women act to put up barriers between themselves and the needy, supplicating nice guy. They don’t want that spineless loser dragging them down. But they take down barriers to members of the secret society – because these are high-value men who are already in demand from other women. They are dominant, decisive, confident, spontaneous, and self-validated. Subconsciously, women assume these must be the men with the best genes, the most masculine men, the ones that every woman needs to mate with to have the fittest, most adaptable offspring. Their money, looks, and intelligence don’t matter nearly as much as the manly energy they project. It’s true, this Darwinian sex drive powers women’s sexual choices far more than any conscious thought process – even when they have no intention of having children, in their subconscious, they have no objection to bearing that stud’s babies some time in the future. And so they have sex with him, to get closer to him. They don’t think to choose a sex partner, they feel.
It’s a simple enough matter to explain: the reason why nice guys and seducers get such extremely different results with women is that seducers project all the right attractive, sexual behaviors, while nice guys project all the wrong, unattractive, anti-sexual ones. One sends up a woman’s ***** shield, the other melts it down like hot wax. So then we get to the question – why does the nice guy project all the wrong behaviors? We were all taught women like “nice guys”. Does he not do even one attractive thing?
Well, even if he does, the problem is that he does so many unattractive things, that he completely turns her off and destroys the effect of any attractive things he did. He may make her laugh with a witty joke, but then start trying to impress her with ten more jokes in a row – which looks desperate, try-hard, and ruins the value of that one joke. He may walk in all confident, but then start begging her “do you need anything, can I get you anything?” ten times in an hour. He gets nervous, desperately trying to please her and make her comfortable, sensing that something’s wrong, that she’s hiding her true feelings from him. His nervous behavior makes her feel uncomfortable as well. This was supposed to be a fun time for her. From the woman’s point of view, is the guy that “doesn’t make any sense”. Why is he ruining their date, outing, or fun evening? “Okay, I’m fine,” she wants to tell him, “just stop asking me!” But she keeps this to herself, hoping he finally gets the hint and stops supplicating, stops trying so hard to please her.
To the woman, it can often be a total mystery why he acts like that. But behind his eager-to-please exterior, the nice guy knows all too well the root of his nervous behavior. He is insecure and overcompensating for it.