New rule on setting up dates

mellow mel · 10-12-2000, 03:26 PM

From reading 2 smoothes post as well as my own post about the Victorias Secret girl, we can establish a new rule for saving money and time.
Rule: If it's not a date, don't waste your time. Tell them, "that's okay, I'm actually looking for a date, not just a friendly get together, you don't even need to give me your phone number cause I doubt if we'd be expecting the same thing if we went out".
I like this approach, that's what I should have done because it's more assertive in establishing your intentions.
Rule #2: Don't wait to ask for the phone number or give her your phone number first. Again, it's a issue of being assertive. http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/smile.gif
Damn, these rule should be common sense to me by now.

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Mellow

2smoothe4u · 10-12-2000, 05:02 PM

I totally agree with you mell, cause now I wish thats what I should have done.

Also, maybe clarify if it was a romantic or non-romantic date.

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Dee-Zy · 10-12-2000, 05:44 PM

I'll keep dah in mind.

Say Mellow, Shame on you. As a moderator you move alot of posts but how come you write tips in the general discussion board?
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Just kiddin.

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mellow mel · 10-12-2000, 06:53 PM

Deezy,
As a moderator, I sometimes make mistakes myself, but, as soon as someone brings it to my attention, I try to correct it. I will move this post to the tips section where it belongs.

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Mellow

10-12-2000, 03:26 PM	#1
mellow mel Senior Don Juan Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: Pomona, California, USA Posts: 398	New rule on setting up dates From reading 2 smoothes post as well as my own post about the Victorias Secret girl, we can establish a new rule for saving money and time. Rule: If it's not a date, don't waste your time. Tell them, "that's okay, I'm actually looking for a date, not just a friendly get together, you don't even need to give me your phone number cause I doubt if we'd be expecting the same thing if we went out". I like this approach, that's what I should have done because it's more assertive in establishing your intentions. Rule #2: Don't wait to ask for the phone number or give her your phone number first. Again, it's a issue of being assertive. http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/smile.gif Damn, these rule should be common sense to me by now. ------------------ Mellow __________________ Irie I and I Tony Rebel for President Mellow Mel in 2008

10-12-2000, 06:53 PM	#4
mellow mel Senior Don Juan Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: Pomona, California, USA Posts: 398	Deezy, As a moderator, I sometimes make mistakes myself, but, as soon as someone brings it to my attention, I try to correct it. I will move this post to the tips section where it belongs. ------------------ Mellow __________________ Irie I and I Tony Rebel for President Mellow Mel in 2008

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10-12-2000, 05:02 PM	#2
2smoothe4u Don Juan Join Date: Jul 2000 Posts: 170	I totally agree with you mell, cause now I wish thats what I should have done. Also, maybe clarify if it was a romantic or non-romantic date. ------------------ Pimping is like a theory. You can plan and expect a certain outcome, but it's just a theory unto you apply it. Girls love attention. Don't give them any (16) __________________ "Some of the hottest places in hell are reserved for those who in a moment of moral crisis seek to maintain neutrality" Daunte In all things purely social, we can be as seperate as the fingers, yet one as the hand in all things essential to mutual progress Booker T. Washington