What I usually do with the follow-up...

619joe · 06-04-2008, 06:10 PM

Well Ive seen people here either too shy to call after getting the number or they just simply mess up and girl doesn't pick up.

I say text first because:
1.Girls would much rather text than talk on the phone to people they have just barely met
2.You have time to think through what you are going to say to her instead of being put on the spot with certain things on the phone.

*BTW I like to do long texts.Im not the type of guy to do a text with 2 words and then send like 50 text messages.I try and keep it 3-10MAX for each period of texting.Im a guy who keeps himself busy and doesnt waste all that time texting back and forth and neither should you.

I like to follow up with this usually

"Heyy (HB) (insert banter from previous night if able).Its stud muffin from (insert location). Listen you seem like a cool girl so id figure id get back to you"

After that I either go with "so how about I get your facebook and we can go from there" or transition right into setting up date.

The tip Im basically providing you with is the BOLDED sentence.

This ties into the whole higher value thing and even though YOUR the one messaging her and trying to get HER, you give her that warm fuzzy feeling inside of her that gives her the impression of herself being "cool".And you can replace cool with whatever word but I think its a suitable word and it has worked well with me so I hope it can help out atleast someone here.

Black suit · 06-04-2008, 07:50 PM

Ah, nice tip! thanks

Raptafairious · 06-05-2008, 06:30 PM

Love the tip, displays the whole fact of your the prize and not her, perfectly.

The Bat · 06-05-2008, 09:08 PM

Absolutely one of the worst tips ever.

Get some balls and hit that "Dial" button. If you can't handle "being put on the spot" and talking to a girl on the phone right away, then how are you going to be able to display "prize" mentality?

And don't think you are displaying "prize" mentality by calling her "a cool girl". Do you not see that you are putting her on a pedestal consciously AND subconsciously? Next thing you know, we will see threads about how a "cool and awesome girl rejected/cheated on me"...

Man up. Stop texting like a girl. Call her, display your sexuality, and show her that you're the fvcking man. None of this pusssy boy texting/facebooking crap.

619joe · 06-05-2008, 10:03 PM

^ Ok in response to what you have said.

Do you realise HOW many threads there are here about guys getting the number yet getting NO CALL BACK WHATSOEVER?Yes this is due to several reasons
-Lack of attraction while getting number
-**** up on voicemail to sound needy
-**** up talking to her on person

Im not saying calling is not the way to go.Im 100% sure the guys on this forum who are having trouble with not getting call back are somewhat struggling on the phone vs not enough inital attraction.

As for the prizing part,to be honest I dont even like use that sort of mentality its just a coincidence that I happened to spot me using it but I think sometimes the forums advice pushes it too far

Ok also bud I see that you are 27. Maybe I should clarify that I am lil bit past graduating High School. I have used this tip for some of the numbers Ive been getting and its worked fine man. Im pretty sure I know why you think its a poor tip because your dealing with older women.In my age range its all fair play and chicks love texting and at this age it is at their peak of lovin' it and Ive had testimonials aswell

Raptafairious · 06-06-2008, 02:46 PM

Exactly. Don't load on someones advice like that. Your talking like you should use this method only, or use a completely different technique. You can mix and match facts to make them work for you. This is just a simple way for some guys who yet to have the level of courage to actually talk to a girl fluently on the phone. Were all not Superman you know. At least not yet

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06-04-2008, 06:10 PM	#1
619joe Senior Don Juan Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 303	What I usually do with the follow-up... Well Ive seen people here either too shy to call after getting the number or they just simply mess up and girl doesn't pick up. I say text first because: 1.Girls would much rather text than talk on the phone to people they have just barely met 2.You have time to think through what you are going to say to her instead of being put on the spot with certain things on the phone. BTW I like to do long texts.Im not the type of guy to do a text with 2 words and then send like 50 text messages.I try and keep it 3-10MAX for each period of texting.Im a guy who keeps himself busy and doesnt waste all that time texting back and forth and neither should you. I like to follow up with this usually "Heyy (HB) (insert banter from previous night if able).Its stud muffin from (insert location). Listen you seem like a cool girl* so id figure id get back to you" After that I either go with "so how about I get your facebook and we can go from there" or transition right into setting up date. The tip Im basically providing you with is the BOLDED sentence. This ties into the whole higher value thing and even though YOUR the one messaging her and trying to get HER, you give her that warm fuzzy feeling inside of her that gives her the impression of herself being "cool".And you can replace cool with whatever word but I think its a suitable word and it has worked well with me so I hope it can help out atleast someone here.

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06-04-2008, 07:50 PM	#2
Black suit Don Juan Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 135	Ah, nice tip! thanks

06-05-2008, 06:30 PM	#3
Raptafairious Don Juan Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 11	Love the tip, displays the whole fact of your the prize and not her, perfectly.

06-05-2008, 10:03 PM	#5
619joe Senior Don Juan Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 303	^ Ok in response to what you have said. Do you realise HOW many threads there are here about guys getting the number yet getting NO CALL BACK WHATSOEVER?Yes this is due to several reasons -Lack of attraction while getting number -** up on voicemail to sound needy -** up talking to her on person Im not saying calling is not the way to go.Im 100% sure the guys on this forum who are having trouble with not getting call back are somewhat struggling on the phone vs not enough inital attraction. As for the prizing part,to be honest I dont even like use that sort of mentality its just a coincidence that I happened to spot me using it but I think sometimes the forums advice pushes it too far Ok also bud I see that you are 27. Maybe I should clarify that I am lil bit past graduating High School. I have used this tip for some of the numbers Ive been getting and its worked fine man. Im pretty sure I know why you think its a poor tip because your dealing with older women.In my age range its all fair play and chicks love texting and at this age it is at their peak of lovin' it and Ive had testimonials aswell

06-06-2008, 02:46 PM	#6
Raptafairious Don Juan Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 11	Exactly. Don't load on someones advice like that. Your talking like you should use this method only, or use a completely different technique. You can mix and match facts to make them work for you. This is just a simple way for some guys who yet to have the level of courage to actually talk to a girl fluently on the phone. Were all not Superman you know. At least not yet .