MacAvoy
Banned
Ok, my options are limited in this small town. That being said, getting laid isn't the problem. I've got FB's and ONS that I can get relatively easily. I've got no real desire to settle down at this point in time, I just want to take it easy. However I'm not completely closing the door on the possibility.
However there is this girl that is a potential to date and be more than a ONS or FB. I've actually already bedded her about 4 years ago. However I've got the same problem now as I did then. I live in a rural area where there isn't much to do so people tend to drink while socializing. Well this girl doesn't fit into that crowd, however her family is in the centre of it.
Now there are a couple of twists. I mentioned I already banged her but I also banged her 2 sisters and her aunt whom everyone thought we were only best friends. The thing is, I dont think any of them really know about the others, except the aunt knows that I banged the one that I actually like, she might suspect something with one of the other sisters but the aunt wouldn't really care.
So I knew I was going to come home in the fall so I started to chat w/ her on MSN once or twice and we actually had a good convo. Fast forward to getting here, I initiated convo once on MSN but it never really went anywhere. Then I ran into her at a party at her mom's house (but she wasn't drinking), but we never really chatted.
Now today out of the blue, she contacts me on MSN, we catch up about me, then when it starts to get quiet, I ask about her daughter. That impressed her (I remembered it was an issue b4 cuz she was unsure about how men would accept her daughter and I think it was one of the reasons she never really dated, focussed on her daughter).
So now back to my original problem. I don't know how to get with her. Years ago, I tried the date thing, however keep in mind to go out on a real date, we have to drive to the city 2 hours. Then she would likely have to get an overnight sitter. So it never happened.
I ran into her at a nightclub one night about 2 years ago and she had IL that night (she was drunk) but I was with another group and I had one girl interested in me that night, and I couldn't close either as a result of both vying for my attention.
So now how can I get her? Do I try the date thing again? Do I try asking her out for drinks (however she knows I've hung out with her family and associates me with their drinking habbits) and I want to avoid that. But the only time I've had success with her is when she's drinking.
The other option is the aunt route. I'm actually really good friends with her, I think she might be able to help. Do I enlist her help (even though this normally would be a BIG NO NO) But I just don't see any other options? It might be enough to let the girl know I like her, to lay the ground work, get the IL up, then I can ask her out, or we can go out together with the aunt and have drinks somewhere.
Ideas?
However there is this girl that is a potential to date and be more than a ONS or FB. I've actually already bedded her about 4 years ago. However I've got the same problem now as I did then. I live in a rural area where there isn't much to do so people tend to drink while socializing. Well this girl doesn't fit into that crowd, however her family is in the centre of it.
Now there are a couple of twists. I mentioned I already banged her but I also banged her 2 sisters and her aunt whom everyone thought we were only best friends. The thing is, I dont think any of them really know about the others, except the aunt knows that I banged the one that I actually like, she might suspect something with one of the other sisters but the aunt wouldn't really care.
So I knew I was going to come home in the fall so I started to chat w/ her on MSN once or twice and we actually had a good convo. Fast forward to getting here, I initiated convo once on MSN but it never really went anywhere. Then I ran into her at a party at her mom's house (but she wasn't drinking), but we never really chatted.
Now today out of the blue, she contacts me on MSN, we catch up about me, then when it starts to get quiet, I ask about her daughter. That impressed her (I remembered it was an issue b4 cuz she was unsure about how men would accept her daughter and I think it was one of the reasons she never really dated, focussed on her daughter).
So now back to my original problem. I don't know how to get with her. Years ago, I tried the date thing, however keep in mind to go out on a real date, we have to drive to the city 2 hours. Then she would likely have to get an overnight sitter. So it never happened.
I ran into her at a nightclub one night about 2 years ago and she had IL that night (she was drunk) but I was with another group and I had one girl interested in me that night, and I couldn't close either as a result of both vying for my attention.
So now how can I get her? Do I try the date thing again? Do I try asking her out for drinks (however she knows I've hung out with her family and associates me with their drinking habbits) and I want to avoid that. But the only time I've had success with her is when she's drinking.
The other option is the aunt route. I'm actually really good friends with her, I think she might be able to help. Do I enlist her help (even though this normally would be a BIG NO NO) But I just don't see any other options? It might be enough to let the girl know I like her, to lay the ground work, get the IL up, then I can ask her out, or we can go out together with the aunt and have drinks somewhere.
Ideas?
