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go tan email closed and she punched her number in my phone.
what to do next?

i know i have to wait 3 days. so that means will be friday after 3 days. So on friday i call and tell her to have a coffee with me on saturday?

p.s. she has a bf and she doesnt know if she likes him anymore. i think i messed her mind today.
 

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The only days you should call are Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday. Friday is too late she already has plans.

If she has a b/f - leave her alone man. Show some respect. That's just my opinion.
 

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Wednesday might be late also. Throw the whole 3 day window out the window, but you should only call to set something up. Don't call just to say "I was just wondering how you were doing". Have a plan when you call
 

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mind_sould_body,
why monday, tuesday, webdnesday?


My friends keep telling me call her today or tmorrow. call her ASAP. lol.
even i asked a girl she told me call her and talk to her on the phone today.l
 

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Somebody make it stop....
 

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francisco,
im just asking for opinions cause i cant find the answer on the search box.
u dont need to be aggresive. i never touched u man.
 

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dude... call her whenever... but the whole reason to call her is to set up another site survey (date). don't call her to ask how her grandmother is doing, how her job is, what she did during the week. the whole purpose of the phone call is to set up another meeting. doesn't matter when you call as long as you're calling to set up another meeting. read the bible
 

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funketekun said:
francisco,
im just asking for opinions cause i cant find the answer on the search box.
u dont need to be aggresive. i never touched u man.
It's nothing personal however I don't know what's worse, cliche BS like the three day rule or putting an effort towards a woman who doesn't know if she is over her ex. Could she be looking for any guy to give her attention and to make her feel better about herself since she's feeling unsure about her relationship with her boyfriend? Could she be doing this to make her BF jealous? Does anyone consider these things? This just doesn't sound like a situation that would merit following a basic sarging strategy.
 

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**** it.
she says she was busy and she has to catch up with homework.

i planned for 24h and she doesnt wanna join me for a cofee.

i feel like a loser now.

p.s. should i have asked when i should call her?
 
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funketekun said:
**** it.
she says she was busy and she has to catch up with homework.

i planned for 24h and she doesnt wanna join me for a cofee.

i feel like a loser now.

p.s. should i have asked when i should call her?
Put it behind you. Personally, I would call this an advanced pickup with little chance of pulling it off for anything substantial. Take that with the fact that you were still wondering how long you should wait before calling and I saw a lamb being led to slaughter. For the time being just work on the basics and stay away from women who are still dating or are on the rebound.
 

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Because this girl is really smart + pretty. I will giver her another chance Ill call her again on wednesday.
 

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I'm putting on a mask, I smell a bit of "one-itis" in the air. :woo:
 

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francisco,

no at all. she is really smart and worth to be her. she is in one of the top 10 university in the world.
she is is as smart as im.
 

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funketekun said:
francisco,

no at all. she is really smart and worth to be her. she is in one of the top 10 university in the world.
she is is as smart as im.
How does she compare to the other women you are seeing. You are seeing other women, right?
 

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She is not interested man. Oh yeah, i'm sure she's great. Just one problem. There is no interested in you. The homework excuse was just that, an excuse. When a girl is interested, she WILL jump through loops for a guy and always make time for him. Forget about her and find someone else that is actually interested in you enough to make time for you.
 

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francisco,
im seeing nobody. im really newbie to this stuff.

ryannath,
but im interested in her. thats why i will giver her another chance.
 

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Hey man, I am interested in Jessica Alba and Jessica Simpson too. Does that mean if I am interested in them, they will want me? No, it does not work like that. Read the DJ bible.
 

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funketekun said:
francisco,
im seeing nobody. im really newbie to this stuff...
ALRIGHT EVERYBODY, GET OUT OF HERE! I'M CLEARING THE THREAD AND QUARANTINING FUNKETEKUN BECAUSE HE HAS A CASE OF ONE-ITIS!
 
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