double date intrigue

Jamo · 04-15-2006, 08:25 AM

Ok here is the story:

I saw this HB 8 last weekend at the casino that I sometimes go to (i went with 2 friends of mine). She works there part time as a waitress there. She was really smiling at me etc, and I was doing the same back, and towards the end of the evening (and getting totally broke

) I went up to her stuck a wad of paper on her tray with my number on it, and told her that Im going out clubbing, and that she should gimmie a call.

Long story short she did contact me the next day, but due to being totally wasted (and broke) that saturday I was only able to meet her last night (in fact she was the one who changed the "date" from tonight to last night). Anyway it turned out to be a double date. She told me that she wanted to meet up rather early, and that she had a friend with her, and that I should also bring a friend if possible.

Things turned out that she ended up having had high LOI for my friend, while her friend (Id say HB 8.5), showed high LOI for me. We all had a great night out etc (HB 8.5 was having alot of fun with my buddy, but she was definately interested in me, while hb 8 was more subtle in showing her interest, it was clear that she liked my buddy) but we have decided to "exchange" girls. What is the best way to do this? I am thinking of just taking the other girl's number from my friend and giving him "my" girl's number. Suggestions?

flexion_ · 04-15-2006, 10:35 AM

Hmm... that is a tough one. For sure no more double dates. If you both guys are ok with it then just get the other girls number and continue as if nothing happened between the first girl. Since she did the double date thing so nothing really did in the first place between you and the first girl.

xmlenigma · 04-24-2006, 08:02 PM

set up another double date.. but as a group hangout.. and test some of ur wingman switching skills.. if ur sure that this is the case.. switching in the MIX wont make a difference..

Jamo · 05-01-2006, 02:34 PM

Ok,

I invited bith girls and my friend over to my place 3 sundays ago. The switch worked perfectly - At the beginning of the evening I just started giving HB 8.5 all my attention, and my friend did the same with HB 8. Around 2 hours later, my friend was messing around with HB 8 in some corner of the apartment, and I then took HB 8.5 to another room and started my action

She seemed abit hesitant and shy to really let me do anything - each time I'd advance abit (like trying to take off her bra etc), she would let me then stop me (did this a few times) - she said "oh you are just like all the other boys!" I told her that yea im really evil, and that she is a "good" girl

Anyway I was not really expecting things to really escalate that night. They left the apartment around 4 in the morning (my friend was not able to screw HB 8 either, because HB 8.5 had to leave, and HB 8 was staying at her place - apparently she invited my buddy to come over to her place at 9 am - he did not go, but that is another story). I then saw her again on Thursday, had a coffee with her, and went to the zoo with her for an hour (her idea). I then was supposed to see her on the following saturday, but my "casino month" had me dead broke, so I told her that I had to leave town for a week (it was my birthday that Friday so it really sucked

). Flash forward to this weekend. I called her up on Thursday and told her that we should meet up on Friday. She said ok, Im waiting for your call. I then called her up on Friday evening, and told her to come over to my place after which we would go clubbing. She seemed really hesitant to come over to my place, and said rather abrupt yes yea I will come - but we will go out right?? So I said what you don't want to come over? She said yes yes I do, but I will call you abit later ok? I got the hint that she was not "comfortable" in coming to my place alone, so I smsed her and told her that she could bring a female friend along if she wanted, because I would have a friend over anyway, but that if hb 8.5 was going to come then my buddy would be there. She almost immediately replied ok cool! I will come with hb 8.5.

Anyway long story short, that night was almost the same repetition of that friday I had first "hooked" up with her - would not let me escalate beyond a point - they both left around 5 in the morning with my friend really annoyed that he could not get anywhere either (I really am in no rush) - in fact he wa sso annoyed that he called up up 3 times to sarcastically ***** her out (I can understand because she would actually put her hands down his pants and not let him do anything in return - my girl did not do anything like that). On Saturday my buddy calls up HB 8 again and "patches up" everything. She told him that she would meet up with him, only after I call up HB 8.5 and make a plan for the evening

So I called her up late in the evening, and told them to come over around 11. So they promptly came, but this time we took them clubbing. After a good night out, we tried our moves again (but I was dead tired after 2 straight nights). This time she allowed me to "explore" abit more - managed to get her bra off - but she still would not let me get shirt off. Then she said - why? Then I said, cause I really like you?

Oh you are just playing with me! (WTF?) Then I said no, I don't play around with good girls

She took that answer rather well and started frenching me more but she still would not let me go further. I fell asleep soon after hehe

I met her again today - went around town for a walk (holiday no traffic really nice weather), and took her out for a great lunch. It went really well (kino all the time etc). But my question is, what should be the next move? should I be more agressive?, or should I go with the flow for the moment? (I am abit worried that if it does not escalate any time soon I might be in danger of a LJBF - even though she is showing alot of interest at the moment FYI: if it makes any difference she is 20 years old, her dad is so strict with her that he does not allow her to even get her ears pierced!).

Jamo · 05-02-2006, 10:22 AM

Vulpine · 05-02-2006, 10:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jamo

But my question is, what should be the next move? should I be more agressive?, or should I go with the flow for the moment? (I am abit worried that if it does not escalate any time soon I might be in danger of a LJBF - even though she is showing alot of interest at the moment FYI: if it makes any difference she is 20 years old, her dad is so strict with her that he does not allow her to even get her ears pierced!).

What do you want to hear? You are worrying about this too much. Concentrate on your other prospects and leave this one alone until she comes to you. Is that what you want to hear?

Jamo · 05-02-2006, 01:12 PM

Well what I want to hear is'nt relevent nor helpful, I just want to approach it correctly, and I am concerned (perhaps too much as you say) whether or not my current approach is the right one to take

picard · 05-02-2006, 08:17 PM

did you play M II theme music when you were in the car?

Jamo · 05-31-2006, 02:57 PM

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Jamo · 06-01-2006, 01:01 PM

*bump*

04-15-2006, 08:25 AM	#1
Jamo Senior Don Juan Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Somewhere Age: 34 Posts: 264	double date intrigue Ok here is the story: I saw this HB 8 last weekend at the casino that I sometimes go to (i went with 2 friends of mine). She works there part time as a waitress there. She was really smiling at me etc, and I was doing the same back, and towards the end of the evening (and getting totally broke ) I went up to her stuck a wad of paper on her tray with my number on it, and told her that Im going out clubbing, and that she should gimmie a call. Long story short she did contact me the next day, but due to being totally wasted (and broke) that saturday I was only able to meet her last night (in fact she was the one who changed the "date" from tonight to last night). Anyway it turned out to be a double date. She told me that she wanted to meet up rather early, and that she had a friend with her, and that I should also bring a friend if possible. Things turned out that she ended up having had high LOI for my friend, while her friend (Id say HB 8.5), showed high LOI for me. We all had a great night out etc (HB 8.5 was having alot of fun with my buddy, but she was definately interested in me, while hb 8 was more subtle in showing her interest, it was clear that she liked my buddy) but we have decided to "exchange" girls. What is the best way to do this? I am thinking of just taking the other girl's number from my friend and giving him "my" girl's number. Suggestions?

05-01-2006, 02:34 PM	#4
Jamo Senior Don Juan Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Somewhere Age: 34 Posts: 264	Ok, update and further advice needed :) Ok, I invited bith girls and my friend over to my place 3 sundays ago. The switch worked perfectly - At the beginning of the evening I just started giving HB 8.5 all my attention, and my friend did the same with HB 8. Around 2 hours later, my friend was messing around with HB 8 in some corner of the apartment, and I then took HB 8.5 to another room and started my action She seemed abit hesitant and shy to really let me do anything - each time I'd advance abit (like trying to take off her bra etc), she would let me then stop me (did this a few times) - she said "oh you are just like all the other boys!" I told her that yea im really evil, and that she is a "good" girl Anyway I was not really expecting things to really escalate that night. They left the apartment around 4 in the morning (my friend was not able to screw HB 8 either, because HB 8.5 had to leave, and HB 8 was staying at her place - apparently she invited my buddy to come over to her place at 9 am - he did not go, but that is another story). I then saw her again on Thursday, had a coffee with her, and went to the zoo with her for an hour (her idea). I then was supposed to see her on the following saturday, but my "casino month" had me dead broke, so I told her that I had to leave town for a week (it was my birthday that Friday so it really sucked ). Flash forward to this weekend. I called her up on Thursday and told her that we should meet up on Friday. She said ok, Im waiting for your call. I then called her up on Friday evening, and told her to come over to my place after which we would go clubbing. She seemed really hesitant to come over to my place, and said rather abrupt yes yea I will come - but we will go out right?? So I said what you don't want to come over? She said yes yes I do, but I will call you abit later ok? I got the hint that she was not "comfortable" in coming to my place alone, so I smsed her and told her that she could bring a female friend along if she wanted, because I would have a friend over anyway, but that if hb 8.5 was going to come then my buddy would be there. She almost immediately replied ok cool! I will come with hb 8.5. Anyway long story short, that night was almost the same repetition of that friday I had first "hooked" up with her - would not let me escalate beyond a point - they both left around 5 in the morning with my friend really annoyed that he could not get anywhere either (I really am in no rush) - in fact he wa sso annoyed that he called up up 3 times to sarcastically ***** her out (I can understand because she would actually put her hands down his pants and not let him do anything in return - my girl did not do anything like that). On Saturday my buddy calls up HB 8 again and "patches up" everything. She told him that she would meet up with him, only after I call up HB 8.5 and make a plan for the evening So I called her up late in the evening, and told them to come over around 11. So they promptly came, but this time we took them clubbing. After a good night out, we tried our moves again (but I was dead tired after 2 straight nights). This time she allowed me to "explore" abit more - managed to get her bra off - but she still would not let me get shirt off. Then she said - why? Then I said, cause I really like you? Oh you are just playing with me! (WTF?) Then I said no, I don't play around with good girls She took that answer rather well and started frenching me more but she still would not let me go further. I fell asleep soon after hehe I met her again today - went around town for a walk (holiday no traffic really nice weather), and took her out for a great lunch. It went really well (kino all the time etc). But my question is, what should be the next move? should I be more agressive?, or should I go with the flow for the moment? (I am abit worried that if it does not escalate any time soon I might be in danger of a LJBF - even though she is showing alot of interest at the moment FYI: if it makes any difference she is 20 years old, her dad is so strict with her that he does not allow her to even get her ears pierced!).

05-02-2006, 10:22 AM	#5
Jamo Senior Don Juan Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Somewhere Age: 34 Posts: 264	Bump

05-02-2006, 08:17 PM	#8
picard Master Don Juan Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Toronto, canada Age: 46 Posts: 565	did you play M II theme music when you were in the car? __________________ women lust after bald head men.

05-31-2006, 02:57 PM	#9
Jamo Senior Don Juan Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Somewhere Age: 34 Posts: 264	update! deleted Last edited by Jamo : 06-01-2006 at 10:46 PM.

04-15-2006, 10:35 AM	#2
flexion_ Master Don Juan Join Date: Apr 2003 Age: 43 Posts: 1,625	Hmm... that is a tough one. For sure no more double dates. If you both guys are ok with it then just get the other girls number and continue as if nothing happened between the first girl. Since she did the double date thing so nothing really did in the first place between you and the first girl.

04-24-2006, 08:02 PM	#3
xmlenigma Don Juan Join Date: May 2004 Location: TX Posts: 46	set up another double date.. but as a group hangout.. and test some of ur wingman switching skills.. if ur sure that this is the case.. switching in the MIX wont make a difference..

05-02-2006, 01:12 PM	#7
Jamo Senior Don Juan Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Somewhere Age: 34 Posts: 264	Well what I want to hear is'nt relevent nor helpful, I just want to approach it correctly, and I am concerned (perhaps too much as you say) whether or not my current approach is the right one to take

06-01-2006, 01:01 PM	#10
Jamo Senior Don Juan Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Somewhere Age: 34 Posts: 264	bump