TheWildOne
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Hello fellow Men,
I read Pook's post on being a man and he mentioned that a man:
-Does not go through life walking on eggshells.
nor does he
-Does not apologize for his testosterone, for his desires.
Now I am guilty of jumping through girls' hoops especially when I am not in the "PUA" mode. For example like I was sitting in front of a computer in my university's computer lab and an HB 7.5 sitting beside me asking whether I can move so her friend (who came later) can sit beside her. I thought they might be doing homework and since I was not doing something important I was being nice(yes, I am guilty of being nice, nice doesn't bring attraction).
And today I was standing in the front area of the bus (there is a holding bar where it allows you to stand) and the bus driver (a woman) asked me, "Could you move back, please?" I was thinking that she said that so that I wont cause a 'bottleneck', since people will be going in from the outside and I moved and sat on a passenger's seat without actually asking why should I move back aaand... I just jumped through her hoops again.
Is doing the right thing equal to being nice? or is there a way to be right without being nice, or to sacrifice the virtue of manliness as outlined by Pook? The man I am striving to be is an unapologetic real man but is a good person at the same time, not a nice guy. I would really appreciate your inputs.
-The Wild One
I read Pook's post on being a man and he mentioned that a man:
-Does not go through life walking on eggshells.
nor does he
-Does not apologize for his testosterone, for his desires.
Now I am guilty of jumping through girls' hoops especially when I am not in the "PUA" mode. For example like I was sitting in front of a computer in my university's computer lab and an HB 7.5 sitting beside me asking whether I can move so her friend (who came later) can sit beside her. I thought they might be doing homework and since I was not doing something important I was being nice(yes, I am guilty of being nice, nice doesn't bring attraction).
And today I was standing in the front area of the bus (there is a holding bar where it allows you to stand) and the bus driver (a woman) asked me, "Could you move back, please?" I was thinking that she said that so that I wont cause a 'bottleneck', since people will be going in from the outside and I moved and sat on a passenger's seat without actually asking why should I move back aaand... I just jumped through her hoops again.
Is doing the right thing equal to being nice? or is there a way to be right without being nice, or to sacrifice the virtue of manliness as outlined by Pook? The man I am striving to be is an unapologetic real man but is a good person at the same time, not a nice guy. I would really appreciate your inputs.
-The Wild One