As the title says women are not interested in your tactics but the spirit behind your tactics. Some call it "vibe" . A guy who goes up to a girl with good feelings about women in his head and an open happy mind will have a better chance of mate pairing than one who is "red pill". Most red pill niggas succeed with broken women but lo and behold they can't keep the ones they want. Why you ask? Because they have a bad spirit behind their interactions. They are jaded and women can sense this in their voice tone, their eye movements and their microscopic facial and bodily tics and cues. They have dehumanized women to merely conquests forgetting that life is not black and white and that the average human being has complex layers. They have turned the woman into a sosuave green rep point, an ego confirmant...
What's the solution?
Well I would advise having a healthy view about women. Go to a place that is packed with tonnes of beautiful women and see that they feel insecure because of the amount of competitors around you will realise the mindset you should have which is ;
Why am I getting annoyed with this hot woman because she is being female and acting how "some" females act? There are tonnes of women on this planet and I have options. I just need to drop my stinking thinking and stop making snap judgements about women. There are as many nice females as there are perceivedly mean ones. Why? Because women are human that's why. They come with different personalities and if I would just drop the internal bias and negative view and just enjoy the ride of life, socialise and be happy while treating them like humans despite my sexual desire.. I would actually get a mate to pair with in the midst of all the chaos.
Always remember that you are a product of your thoughts therefore you are perceived by other people as having qualities that mirror your thoughts at any given moment.
The feeling you have during and at the end of your interaction with a woman is a function of what mindset you have in your head because this affects your aura. So always keep it in your head that girls are a dime a dozen, there is no scarcity of girls, and the girls that don't dig you are not worthless. They just don't dig you and that's ok because there are lots of women out there who do and who will dig you.
During a period of deliberate no fap, you will experience pain but when you do it long enough you will get a clear mind, focused on important life goals and it will help you humanize women when you get your sex drive under the control of your hands to the steering wheel and brakes.
If you can get this relaxed mindset you will experience playa joy.
The Holy Spirit mentioned in the Christian bible taught me all this.
Fin
What's the solution?
Well I would advise having a healthy view about women. Go to a place that is packed with tonnes of beautiful women and see that they feel insecure because of the amount of competitors around you will realise the mindset you should have which is ;
Why am I getting annoyed with this hot woman because she is being female and acting how "some" females act? There are tonnes of women on this planet and I have options. I just need to drop my stinking thinking and stop making snap judgements about women. There are as many nice females as there are perceivedly mean ones. Why? Because women are human that's why. They come with different personalities and if I would just drop the internal bias and negative view and just enjoy the ride of life, socialise and be happy while treating them like humans despite my sexual desire.. I would actually get a mate to pair with in the midst of all the chaos.
Always remember that you are a product of your thoughts therefore you are perceived by other people as having qualities that mirror your thoughts at any given moment.
The feeling you have during and at the end of your interaction with a woman is a function of what mindset you have in your head because this affects your aura. So always keep it in your head that girls are a dime a dozen, there is no scarcity of girls, and the girls that don't dig you are not worthless. They just don't dig you and that's ok because there are lots of women out there who do and who will dig you.
During a period of deliberate no fap, you will experience pain but when you do it long enough you will get a clear mind, focused on important life goals and it will help you humanize women when you get your sex drive under the control of your hands to the steering wheel and brakes.
If you can get this relaxed mindset you will experience playa joy.
The Holy Spirit mentioned in the Christian bible taught me all this.
Fin
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