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Women respond to your spirit not your "game"

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As the title says women are not interested in your tactics but the spirit behind your tactics. Some call it "vibe" . A guy who goes up to a girl with good feelings about women in his head and an open happy mind will have a better chance of mate pairing than one who is "red pill". Most red pill niggas succeed with broken women but lo and behold they can't keep the ones they want. Why you ask? Because they have a bad spirit behind their interactions. They are jaded and women can sense this in their voice tone, their eye movements and their microscopic facial and bodily tics and cues. They have dehumanized women to merely conquests forgetting that life is not black and white and that the average human being has complex layers. They have turned the woman into a sosuave green rep point, an ego confirmant...

What's the solution?

Well I would advise having a healthy view about women. Go to a place that is packed with tonnes of beautiful women and see that they feel insecure because of the amount of competitors around you will realise the mindset you should have which is ;

Why am I getting annoyed with this hot woman because she is being female and acting how "some" females act? There are tonnes of women on this planet and I have options. I just need to drop my stinking thinking and stop making snap judgements about women. There are as many nice females as there are perceivedly mean ones. Why? Because women are human that's why. They come with different personalities and if I would just drop the internal bias and negative view and just enjoy the ride of life, socialise and be happy while treating them like humans despite my sexual desire.. I would actually get a mate to pair with in the midst of all the chaos.

Always remember that you are a product of your thoughts therefore you are perceived by other people as having qualities that mirror your thoughts at any given moment.


The feeling you have during and at the end of your interaction with a woman is a function of what mindset you have in your head because this affects your aura. So always keep it in your head that girls are a dime a dozen, there is no scarcity of girls, and the girls that don't dig you are not worthless. They just don't dig you and that's ok because there are lots of women out there who do and who will dig you.

During a period of deliberate no fap, you will experience pain but when you do it long enough you will get a clear mind, focused on important life goals and it will help you humanize women when you get your sex drive under the control of your hands to the steering wheel and brakes.

If you can get this relaxed mindset you will experience playa joy.


The Holy Spirit mentioned in the Christian bible taught me all this.



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YAboi said:
As the title says women are not interested in your tactics but the spirit behind your tactics. Some call it "vibe" . A guy who goes up to a girl with good feelings about women in his head and an open happy mind will have a better chance of mate pairing than one who is "red pill". Most red pill niggas succeed with broken women but lo and behold they can't keep the ones they want. Why you ask? Because they have a bad spirit behind their interactions. They are jaded and women can sense this in their voice tone, their eye movements and their microscopic facial and bodily tics and cues. They have dehumanized women to merely conquests forgetting that life is not black and white and that the average human being has complex layers. They havve turned the woman into a sosuave green rep point, an ego confirmant...

What's the solution?

Well I would advise having a healthy view about women. Go to a place that is packed with tonnes of beautiful women and you will realise the mindset you should have which is ;

Why am I getting annoyed with this hot woman because she is being female and acting how "some" females act? There are tonnes of women on this planet and I have options. I just need to drop my stinking thinking and stop making snap judgements about women. There are as many nice females as there are perceivedly mean ones. Why? Because women are human that's why. They come with different personalities and if I would just drop the internal bias and negative view and just enjoy the ride of life, socialise and be happy while treating them like humans despite my sexuality.. I would actually get a mate to pair with in the midst of all the chaos.

Always remember that you are a product of your thoughts therefore you are perceived by other people as having qualities that mirror your thoughts at any given moment.


The feeling you have during and at the end of your interaction with a woman is a function of what mindset you have in your head because this affects your aura. So always keep it in your head that girls are a dime a dozen, there is no scarcity of girls, and the girls that don't dig you are not worthless. They just don't dig you and that's ok because there are lots of women out there who do and who will dig you.

During a period of deliberate no fap, you will experience pain but when you do it long enpugh you will get a clear mind focused on important life goals and it will help you humanize women when you get your sex drive under the control of your hand to the steering wheel and brakes.

If you can get this relaxed mindset you will experience playa joy.


The Holy Spirit mentioned in the Christian bible taught me all this.



Fin
This post is so advanced no wonder it's slept on crazy post.....

Not gonna add on everything you say is so true, Vibe+Mindset is literally the foundation that most guys need to build their game on.

YAboi said:
Always remember that you are a product of your thoughts therefore you are perceived by other people as having qualities that mirror your thoughts at any given moment.
Just Golden will save this thread for future usage
 

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Your mistake is thinking that each woman is "unique".

Deep down to their rotten core, they are all the same. Don't be fooled.
 

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YAboi said:
Most red pill niggas succeed with broken women but lo and behold they can't keep the ones they want. Why you ask? Because they have a bad spirit behind their interactions. They are jaded and women can sense this in their voice tone, their eye movements and their microscopic facial and bodily tics and cues. They have dehumanized women to merely conquests forgetting that life is not black and white and that the average human being has complex layers. They havve turned the woman into a sosuave green rep point, an ego confirmant...
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El Payaso said:
Your mistake is thinking that each woman is "unique".

Deep down to their rotten core, they are all the same. Don't be fooled.

There are flaws in your reasoning. You see every woman as posessing a " rotten core". They respond to much of the same things but not all are rotten at their cores. That's just your opinion. Men are seen as being all the same (i.e. Having a rotten core) by a certain sect of disgruntled women as well.

No one is arguing that the world is not a bad place but it's a good place too. What the world is to you as an individual, depends on what you choose to focus on. The world is bad because of people who deviate from the original plan of our Creator - God; the Father of Jesus.


People who have deviated from the original plan of a single functioning family unit have created chaos but it's obvious that the man of sin (lucifer) influenced their actions. The need to fit into the worldly system has caused so much chaos and this has been allowed for too long because of a lack of father figures in families to guide infants. That's where external influences go to work on the mind of fleshly mortals and divert their true calling which is to bring heaven to earth through the promotion of peace and unity in society.


External influences range from peer pressure to tattoos to porn to feminism to misandry to revelry and drunkeness to masturbation to homosexuality to lesbianism to consumerism to atheism to intellectualism to tv programming that constantly tells you that you're not good enough.

Don't people see that the world is on fire and if good hearted people sit back and do nothing it will burn? Just visit Mediatakeout.com (celebrity gossip site) to see what your world is turning into. In the old days people had orgies no doubt.. But now infants can access and witness orgies through the world wide web (porn) . The eyes of men are blinded. Masturbation is one of the key culprits of destroying a man's vision and judgement. It turns you into a sex slave and a dopamine addict. It makes your mind reprobate.


Think back to when you had not had sex or masturbated, you we're probably quite content with your interactions with women, but sex was the game changer that turned it all into one big million dollar roundtable negotiation with them.

To get back to your original state you have to deprive yourself of the very thing you want (SEX) get out there and interact non-commitally and healthily until you can get it the right way - In a Godly married relationship. All other ways will continue to skewer your mindset and keep you in bondage as a junkie seeking out sex by all means and doing sicker things as the days elapse.


Starve yourself and seek your passion, your higher calling, be good and happy and you will get the sex you so badly desire as a hot blooded male. It is not abnormal to be aroused but let it come from a place of purity of mind. Not a place of consuming desire like smeagle from lord of the rings. It will hurt at first when you starve yourself of pleasure and debauchery and try to get your life on track and think of the world outside of your own selfish desires. You will even fail... MANY times but, the only true failure will be you giving up because if you keep going you will eventually kill the beast within and develop discipline. The world will then start becoming like heaven on earth to you but you will have to get used to being seen as abnormal by others who stay safe in the sheep pen of mediocrity through consumerism. I know this because I was a selfish masturbator in the past but now I am delivered from bondage.

These things we fill our time with - casual sex, partying, drug use, brainless tv... They distract us from actually having lived, we become merely consumers not producers. They ensure that your name is merely washed away in the sands of time and not written on the stones of immortality like the nelson mandelas or ben carsons. Some people even immortalize their names while they are still alive. Think about that.... One word. Discipline.

Go to YouTube and type in "the truth about maleficent" and watch the video till the very end (the video has a shocking conclusion to its seeming madness and is simply poetic artistry) . Your caucasian brother in that video will explain all this better than I ever can. See said video here - - > http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rLiS1n2GqU4
 
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El Payaso said:
Deep down to their rotten core, they are all the same. Don't be fooled.
I disagree with this. Some are definitely worse than others.
 

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Oh man this ****buddy thing, I always fall in love. I cant go around sleeping with more than 1, then when I feel like having diversity 2. If she sleeps around then **** her man I dont want no STDs anyway. Couse when she sleeps around alot the balance of whatever microbes in the juices there are gets ****ed up and she gets infected.

I always fall in love man. THere I said it.

Its not bad. But I wouldnt have the time and energy to "spin plates" its...

I dont like dat **** man. Im old fashioned but realistic same as the old neighbourhood alcoholics who give wisdom for free. Love is good. You just have to look at it realistically not like a soap opera and have realistic expectations.

But Im young.

But then again, existance without love is hollow. Nobody can be happy without love but to use love correctly you gotta know yourself. If you deny some aspects of yourself you will always fail.

Insecurities kill attraction too. The only insecurity left inside of me is that Im not good enough. Like not nice enough, not humane enough, that I **** over people. Its a normal thing anyone has low points, but I always judge myself harsh. Its just that I want to do the right thing. Always. And I dont always succeed. It kills me sometimes knowing that I was a scumbag in a situation.

Now all you DJs may mock me, but it is what I believe in and women are just... they aint all that important man... They are part of the stuff in life, but like... If getting ***** is your goal, thats cool. But I dont get you.

Principles, moral, values - this is what matters. Also Ive heard God doesnt like saints, god likes people who know when they did wrong but hey... Im going to hell 100 % so idk...
 

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Live and enjoy your life and women and great friends will come along.
 

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cautioussun said:
Yaboi, you suggest abstinence?
yes till you get your head right and your life balanced.

BrainDamage92 said:
Principles, moral, values - this is what matters. Also Ive heard God doesnt like saints, god likes people who know when they did wrong but hey... Im going to hell 100 % so idk...
Well you heard partly right. God loves the whole world but the whole world does not love Him. He loves this world so much that He sent Jesus to die for anyone who is humble enough to believe that Jesus died for us no matter how bad you have been and will be, as long as you simply ask Jesus to come into your life and work in you. Just this simple act will transform your latter end by ensuring you enter the gates of heaven when you leave earth through death. God is not a Big daddy in the sky that wants to punish you when you mess up. He is a loving Father. If you accept Jesus died for your sins you will still mess up but you will not go to hell. You would just have to try to limit the damage done on your physical body and mind here on earth by abstaining from sin. If you choose to still sin fair enough God will not punish you but your action's consequences will be what will punish you, but...... your soul will be saved because you put your trust in God . The reason why most christians have a bad rap from atheists is because they have a religious mindset by thinking it's possible to earn your way into heaven and judging people who are immoral. God is the only one true judge at the end of the day because you may eventually find yourself doing what you judged someone for doing. Trusting in what Jesus did on the cross by saying "Jesus i know I'm a sinner come into my life and forgive me, Amen" and then continue to believe this in your heart despite your sins... is the only way to make heaven. The bible gets a bad rap because it's difficult to read knights english of the King James version. I suggest that whoever wants to read it should select the version they can understand easiest. I use ERV version personally. A man has to discover God for himself by reading the whole bible
 
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Danger said:
You should always be judging women....While I agree with much of this post, some of it seems like a closeted way to not hold women to standards.

The reason you should judge those women is so you know where they belong in your life, as a fvkbuddy, a link to hot fvckable girls, or for a potential LTR.

You don't need to suspend judgement of women to achieve this, just be the dominant man who knows what he wants and conveys expectations and thus status.

But never, ever, ever suspend judgement, because that also suspends accountability, which the world very sorely needs right now.
It's impossible to suspend judgement even if you tried. The key is not to let your judgement skewer your perception of reality where you miss out on hidden gems because you see things in black and white. That tattooed chick could be a reformed rebel who is now the best wife and mother ever. Screen people subtly but don't make snap judgements.
 

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If you think a woman can HURT you, then you are not a man, not alpha. Sure, there are vicious women that can "hurt" you monetarily, through the courts, by whatever vicious means, poisoning you, literally with arsenic or something. I heard of a women (my dad knew the fella) who poured hot lead into his ear one night killing him instantaneously. Pretty damn heinous, eh?

But really, in the olden days (and that Was the olden days), MEN, real men, didn't blink an eye, bat an eye, at even the Thought that a woman could actually "hurt" him. Men regularly (in the olden days) abused women, physically, verbally, you name it. Women, today, are more than ever protected by the courts, but some men still abuse their SO...verbally/physically, but not as much as it used to be (think Russia, still that way, the OLD way, where women are women and men are men).

Today, the waters are muddied, and we are not allowed to treat women like women i.e. the inferior sex that they ARE. They should just BE there, in the room, like an ornament, a pretty little ornament or decoration for the room, saying nice fluffy little things (because their minds are surface, brains smaller in mass). They, SO or your wife, should be with apron and smelling the house up with cookies or with whatever they're cooking for the day/evening. They are NOTHING but fluff conversation. When REAL men get in a room together, it's REAL talk about politics, about guns, about physical/meaningful issues/things/orders of the day. Now sure, there are your Greta Van Susterans, your women lawyers who are VERY male-minded and, I believe, were BORN that way with man genes, somehow crossed in their genetic code or makeup, but those women, who can stand toe-to-toe conversationally with a Man on serious subjects for long periods of time, hours on end, are few and far between, because MOST women drift mentally (because they ARE the weaker sex). They eventually grow tired or lose interest in whatever subject matter, and begin to not focus or CARE about whatever is being talked about. They want to go back to the meaningless "fluff" conversation; therefore, and hence...in the olden days..they'd be relegated to the KITCHEN and chores of the such.

Society, for a couple of decades now, has been going against Nature and more or less trying to fit a round peg into a square hole.
 

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This god shyt needs to stop.. people claim the bible has the answer to everything..

Women responding to your "spirit?" Really bro.. that's some hippie azz shyt.

Don't bring your god into a forum about women. Thanks.
 

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MillionBillionaire said:
This god shyt needs to stop.. people claim the bible has the answer to everything..

Women responding to your "spirit?" Really bro.. that's some hippie azz shyt.

Don't bring your god into a forum about women. Thanks.
I sincerely think you need to learn this - - > en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nonviolent_Communication

It would benefit everyone on the forum actually.
 

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Danger said:
Your judgement IS based upon your perception of reality.

What you are really spewing here is just more of the "new agey" crap that we have been smothered with for the last 30 years.

Not every books contents match its cover, but 99.9% of the time it does. Time is too precious to waste it sifting deeply on every girl you meet.

Save yourself that time and if she appears broken then next her because in all likelihood she is. Stable people do not let themselves fall apart internally OR externally.

One can do all of this, and judge women, and recognize the reality of the modern environment of mainly $hitty prospects while still having a fun and upbeat attitude.

One of the biggest lies foisted upon man is that he must suspend judgement, give people multiple chances or forgive the exterior of a person, lest he be unhappy or unable to enjoy life. This is just a load of bull$hit at its core. Having expectations and standards will actually improve your happiness as you filter the $hitty people out of your life forever....even if that means a "hidden gem" gets tossed out with it.
I think the summary of what you're saying is that it's your decision ultimately on whether or not to choose to pursue a relationship with a female and I agree totally with that.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
this is a good post and I largely agree with it however I can't really go quite as far as you did

I will never understand the desire of the radical "self-improvement"crowd to give women supernatural powers of insight and clarity into men...all this is is a way to pedestalize women and also view their own success with women as some sort of measure of their own internal manhood.

hear what the Bible has to say about non Christian women in particular:

Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.
Nah no one is giving women supernatural powers but I am saying that women generally tend to be more perceptive and self aware than most guys because of the difference in life experiences. Men also possess this exact same ability but since men lead generally more stressful lives, their intuitive capacity becomes numbed until they change things for the better i.e. de-stress themselves to the point where they can put two and two together and think as fast and clearly as most women. For anyone who wants to get this issue of stress handled please be sure to check this out and implement the changes contained therein - - > www.businessballs.com/stressmanagement.htm
 
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Check this out - - - > www.nairaland.com/2169887/which-colour-see-dress


Read the first few comments below the original post especially the one with the instagram caption that explains the phenomenon. It will blow your mind! Perception is reality at any given moment people. Stress can really mess you up. Being horney without an outlet and feeling hopeless about getting one (poontang) , can really mess your thought and perception up.
 
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