What do I do in a on and off relationship?

So me and this girl have been on and off for like months at a time. I want to make it work, but some bull crap always turns up or something and then we wont talk to each other for like a week or two. Then we get back together for another week or two. Am i doing something wrong? Or should i just give up on a relationship with her completely?

Thanks Ruler! I'll start doing that. I can't wait to see the results, good or bad!

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