Have been going out with this girl past 2 years. We click a lot on many areas and all the nicest things about good relationship etc.
We broke up for about for a couple of months and got back together again about 4 months ago. Things have been great, her showing high IL, constantly being in touch, calling and texting and all the hallmarks of a woman who wants this to work. I have met her parents and on the verge of commitment. But here is the thing ...
She is going to this place and spend the weekend. This is a place where her previous exes frequently hangout. When she told me first i acted indifferent and I said why not, have fun and all that. But I've noticed past couple of days her communication has dropped and she isn't as interested as she was before. This is almost Deja vu of her behaviour leading up to the break up which was painful.
I want to be confident and let her do whatever but these behaviours have been troubling me a lot. How do I react to this? What would you do? If I suspect something fishy I am pressing the eject button with no way back. What is the best way communicating that she's gambling on our relationship?
Any views would be much appreciated.
We broke up for about for a couple of months and got back together again about 4 months ago. Things have been great, her showing high IL, constantly being in touch, calling and texting and all the hallmarks of a woman who wants this to work. I have met her parents and on the verge of commitment. But here is the thing ...
She is going to this place and spend the weekend. This is a place where her previous exes frequently hangout. When she told me first i acted indifferent and I said why not, have fun and all that. But I've noticed past couple of days her communication has dropped and she isn't as interested as she was before. This is almost Deja vu of her behaviour leading up to the break up which was painful.
I want to be confident and let her do whatever but these behaviours have been troubling me a lot. How do I react to this? What would you do? If I suspect something fishy I am pressing the eject button with no way back. What is the best way communicating that she's gambling on our relationship?
Any views would be much appreciated.