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Being a moron will help you out quite a lot with American women it seems.

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I was always the scholarly type of guy who was down for a political debate many years ago and it was shocking that I did so poorly with American girls. Yes I could get the European foreign exchange or the cute girl from Asia interested in me but there was no way I was getting the blonde bombshell at a college bar or the sorority chick at my college. So I decided to try an experiment, instead of having anything close to an intellectual conversation with a girl, I decided to actively try and sound like a moron when I chatted with them.

It actually worked and stereotypes might have a grain of truth to them because my results with blondes skyrocketed. I would say dumb things that were so dumb that they were funny, one time on July 4th back in 2011 I said "Happy 2011 birthday America!" and the girl that was near me started laughing.

Then I also notice it with a lot of the AFCs I have met, many of them are actually some smart and bright guys. Put these guys in Asia or some European country and they will probably have a girlfriend but here in the US they are lonely and watching porn all night long. I also see it with the posts here, so many of the AFCs seem to have excellent grammar and spelling skills (well you can put that down to spellcheck too). At this point I think that the biggest curse the AFCs here in the US have is a high IQ and lots of booksmarts.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Correct, I've done the same experiments.
given the nature of this forum, I must ask

are you being sarcastic?
 

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I think you're biggest problem was trying to have an intellectual conversation with women in the first place. Women only care about how you make them feel, and as willing as I am to have a conversation about things like politics, or tech, etc with my guy friends, even I have to admit they're boring. How do you think women feel when you're trying this sh!t with them?

Being a moron, in itself, doesn't get you laid. Not being boring gets you laid.
 

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All of your clever, witty, intelligent lines will fly right over the head of these dumber girls. I don't think being well-read or well-spoken is a hindrance at all. Yes, you will have to switch up your game a bit for these dumber girls, but i wouldnt say to come off as braindead
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
No, Im not lol. The majority of the AFC's I know are good, moral men with strong character that want to raise families and strengthen the human race. They are intelligent but very naive. There is a nastly little subset of AFC that is bitter and cvntish though and will stab you in the back like women no problem.
I agree. I've noticed this since I was a teen if not before. Women being given the option to choose who mates are dumbing down and making humanity courser.
 

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I find it weird that my results with blondes I see at bars and other fancy places just skyrocketed. Sometimes stereotypes do shock me but then I notice the guys these girls are dating and they are never really the scientists, doctors, or lawyers, it is usually the jocky football player types who aren't really that bright at all. It's about time we accepted that different kinds of women like different kinds of guys in terms of how they present themselves, that with game it isn't that one kind of approach works on all types of women.

Then again, it's American women in general though, I notice foreign women like to have intellectual conversations. Foreign women find it interesting once you talk about your life experiences and hobbies while American women just want to be treated like kids in a way, so weird.
 

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Idk I've had some pretty bad roommates and they were all pulling girls.

Common characteristics
They are bums: don't have a job, late on rent, bad grades, hobbies only involve marijuana. Manchildren at best.

They bullshvt a lot. I take anything that comes out of their mouth as a grain of salt. Yet, to strangers they are the coolest guy on earth.

They are overly aggressive and want to fight anything that moves.

However, the girls they attract are pretty much like them.
 

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Intelligence is the big sham word women toss out there which is secretly code for smart enough to make a lot of money. Women don't care about technical nuances they just want to get wet and tingly.

Think about gaming is any of it centered around intelligence per se? Nope, it's centered around teasing a girl and reverting to child like behaviors, pushing, pulling, a girl hitting you etc.
 

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Make sure not to be grammatically correct when you text them. Put "lol" and emojis x3 and they'll think you're a fun person.

But honestly, why talk about politics? All you're doing is trying to convince people your political ideas are superior to others but it never changes the nature of politics itself.

But if you want to talk about politics and have hopes of having sex, you can break the ice by starting off with, "do you think any president got their **** sucked in office since Bill Clinton?"
 

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Good Gao said:
Then I also notice it with a lot of the AFCs I have met, many of them are actually some smart and bright guys. Put these guys in Asia or some European country and they will probably have a girlfriend but here in the US they are lonely and watching porn all night long. I also see it with the posts here, so many of the AFCs seem to have excellent grammar and spelling skills (well you can put that down to spellcheck too). At this point I think that the biggest curse the AFCs here in the US have is a high IQ and lots of booksmarts.
Even in Europe and Asia, a "moron" would have better success with women than a nerd. Nerdiness is universally unsexy. Women relate to "morons" better. Also, "morons" keep things light-hearted and "fun".

A mistake that a lot of "smart" guys make is treating women as their intellectual equals and trying to connect with them on an intellectual level. This is usually a pretty bad idea. A connection between a man and a woman is supposed to be sexual, not intellectual. In the old days, men knew better than trying to discuss things like politics, current events, religion, philosophy, etc. with their wives. That's what men's only private clubs were for.
 

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Yep, keep it light. You'll never intellectualize the panties off of her.
 

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Good Gao said:
but here in the US they are lonely and watching porn all night long
YES
Good Gao said:
At this point I think that the biggest curse the AFCs here in the US have is a high IQ and lots of booksmarts.
Finally someone who gets it.

US women want tattoos/bad boys. They hate smart men, because smart men are betas by default.
 

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This is the thread where all the frustrated AFCs come out!! Hahaha
 

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Unless she's your student, stop talking about some boring stuffs like politics, religion or philosophy. When you tried to talk with her about these, probably you wanted to impress her about your superiority. This is a bad idea. You'll make yourself good while making her feel bad about herself for knowing less than you.

The purpose of a good conversation is to make the other person feels good about his or her self. You do this by talking about the most interesting thing for them which is talking about themselves.

Talking about politics, etc. does her nothing. It's boring and she'll lose interest ASAP. When we talk about "stupid things" aka jokes, it means that we're enjoying our lives and a fun person to be with.
 

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Good Gao said:
Then I also notice it with a lot of the AFCs I have met, many of them are actually some smart and bright guys. Put these guys in Asia or some European country and they will probably have a girlfriend but here in the US they are lonely and watching porn all night long. I also see it with the posts here, so many of the AFCs seem to have excellent grammar and spelling skills (well you can put that down to spellcheck too). At this point I think that the biggest curse the AFCs here in the US have is a high IQ and lots of booksmarts.

Hate to break it to you chap but over this side of the pond it is fairly similar. At least in Britain those same AFC's are just as likely not to have a girlfriend as they are in the States. The traits that girls generally find attractive are not those exhibited by a frustrated chump even if he is smart and bright. The qualities that AFC's generally show are those which set him up to be a good option in later years when women look to settle down with a 'safe' option.

I also disagree with your view that a high IQ and booksmarts is a curse. These are two things that any sensible girl of value will appreciate, so long as they are accompanied by other more traditional masculine traits. The problem the AFC's have is not that they are booksmart, more that they are ONLY booksmart and don't have the necessary attributes in other areas to attract a girl.

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