Field Report: Tons of self help and rsd.. Solo night! BALLS!

Having a crap filled week where everything goes to shhyt... I was faced with a night where I had to go out solo or sit at home doing nothing. My fvckk buddy was with her man so I was feeling like shyt. But I have been listening to a ton of RSD and have read the bible and the Game .. armed with this I knew better than to sit at home and watch the x files...

So tonight.. Friday night I go to a bar club I went to last week.. with my fvck buddy.. where she proceded to hit on every guy in front of me..pissing me off.. oddly she bought us a hotel for that weekend.... anyways so I went back to that same bar this week only this time it was solo.

When I arrive at the club I am happy to notice a few guys I have met before. so I grab myself a drink and establish a home base next to them since I rolled solo... I chatted up the guys and noticed that they were the first to make an approach before me.. so I was like hellll no.. I research this stuff.. so I went out to the floor and did my thing by starting to dance...

I danced with a few girls.. started talking to a few of them.. but this time I wasnt afraid that they were not loving me.. I kept talking to a few groups of girls.. approaching mostly two sets.. not doing great but holding my frame and standing my ground.

I went out for a smoke in my car.. and when I came back... the moment I decided not to hit on a girl and just dance.. I all of a sudden start dancing with a HB 9 blonde.. tall but shorter than me.. nice skinny jeans with high heel boots.. she all if a sudden screams "I want to go salsa dancing!" Im not sure if she saw me with my Latina last week but I screamed back... "I love salsa dancing.. I want to take lessons in Burnsville"... then I said.. "come on we can pretend this is salsa music" and danced my most epic dance of the night for a few seconds before I felt a tap on my shoulder... bouncer says I have been cut off and I have to leave... I say to him "what if I show you a test to show you I am not that drunk" he said too bad I still have to leave... I said to the bouncer.. well let me get the girls phone number.. the bouncer asked the girl hb9 if she wanted to give me her phone number.. to kind of my surprise she said yes.. I said whats your number?! She said it fast... testing me.. so I repeated the area code and she slower gave me the rest of her phone number and her name... I did not giver her my name .. said bye to her.. turned around and left. I guess I got kicked out for hitting on too many girls.. im happy I got that number in front of that bouncer and more importantly.. I am almost on cloud 9... I would be off the wall right now because of the number close on a blonde hb9... if I didnt miss my latina soo much.

I plan on calling this new girls number 3 days from now... hope to god it is a real number.. I know since she brought up salsa dancing I have a topic to anchor on.. wich me luck fellas..

Pps.. sorry for bad writting.. typing this on my phone and I will post another field report tomorrow when I go out again.. this time to a bar right next to my moms house where I live.

Well done

You can't feel like shy1t when you're f8ckbuddy is with her man. You have to have the upperhand, the DJ mindset. You don't make an emotional bond with a f8ckbuddy bro. Shes your f8ckbuddy, you said it yourself nothing more nothing less. Next time you meet up, you f8ck her so good, so intense, so fast, flip it up do different sh1t make her scream! Give her the night of her life and bail on her as. She will go crazy. Talk to way more women, spin plates always be on the look out for the next one until you reach that spot where you don't give a f8ck if she picks up, flakes or tells you she loves you. That's the winner's mentality if you wanna f8ck a lot of different women. Be outcome independent and literally laugh when she tries to make you jealous or some sh1t. You just withdraw your attention and call the next girl in your phone. Shoot the bait and sitback relax and let her chase, if she doesn't, next!

TheGambino said:

You can't feel like shy1t when you're f8ckbuddy is with her man. You have to have the upperhand, the DJ mindset. You don't make an emotional bond with a f8ckbuddy bro. Shes your f8ckbuddy, you said it yourself nothing more nothing less. Next time you meet up, you f8ck her so good, so intense, so fast, flip it up do different sh1t make her scream! Give her the night of her life and bail on her as. She will go crazy. Talk to way more women, spin plates always be on the look out for the next one until you reach that spot where you don't give a f8ck if she picks up, flakes or tells you she loves you. That's the winner's mentality if you wanna f8ck a lot of different women. Be outcome independent and literally laugh when she tries to make you jealous or some sh1t. You just withdraw your attention and call the next girl in your phone. Shoot the bait and sitback relax and let her chase, if she doesn't, next!

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This... this is everything that I know to be true just haven't fully internalized it yet... I went out Friday and Saturday without seeing my fvkk buddy like I normally do.. I had a great time.. went home and whaked off to some good porn.. hardly miss the b1tch.. to be fair though.. she did lead me on this whole relationship.. she lied about having a boyfriend.. who she is living with.. who she has a kid with.. and they are not separated yet... she still "loves me" tho.. lol... funny...

swear to god she told me she was single when we met.. I am out of the wanting a realationship mentality with her and now its all about your just my fvcck buddy... not even going to tell her.. hold my cards close.

Thanks for saying what needs to be said.