Years ago, it did bother me about "missing out" in HS and college. I'm way over that now because of my age. But I had an interesting thought the other day about this topic. It hit me like the proverbial "ton of bricks."
"I had no chance anyway."
I was super nerdy, skinny, shy, and had zero clothing style. Even though I had hair then, I had a really boring hairstyle too. I just studied all the time. I commuted to college and was not involved in any extra curricular activities. I knew zero about women and had no friends either.
So, not to be negative, but just to be brutally honest, knowing what I know now, I had absolutely ZERO chance of scoring or having a gf at the time anyway.
My point is that to "regret" or blame myself for something that I didnt know at the time is foolish.
So Skinnyguy, don't blame yourself for stuff you didn't know at the time.
