Hey guys
Just want some opinions on a current situation I'm dealing with.
Met a cute girl who is my cousin's coworker and friends with my cousin's girlfriend a couple weeks ago at my cousins birthday party. long story short, we had sex that weekend and exchanged numbers. i thought she was interesting and tried to see where this was going
Saw her again a couple weeks later with my cousin, his girl and a couple of their friends. We all went to a bar and played some pool. end of the night, all the girls had to go cause they had work early in the am. We made out and vowed to make plans late next week.
3rd time out with her was out first 1 on 1 date. It was during this time i realized her personality was actually kind of annoying and started to think of her as more of a potential friend w benefits/booty call then anyone I would actually date (shes smoking hot if that isnt obvious already).
After dinner, we ended up at a quiet little bar. at around 1am, she invited me back to her house. Seeing as I had a huge important meeting in the morning and we live on completely opposite ends of the city, I denied and playfully said next time. her response was playful and she said something like "wow youre actually denying my invite" to which I said we'll make up for it next time. We kissed good night, and I went home. She texted me thanking me.
Next day my cousin messages and told me im blowing it. Apparently, she was offended I denied her advances and was *****ing to my cousins gf about it. At the end of the day, I had a big day at work and was just looking to let loose that night with a few drinks....we've already had sex and I initiated the date so I really dont see how she can think im not interested
anyway just curious what you guys think and how i should approach the situation because she is super sexy and i would love to booty call her in the future...dont want her shattered ego stopping me from hitting it
few additional facts
- this chick texts a lot when she responds but never initiates ever
- takes hours to reply
- goes from very mushy and lovey dovey to ball breaker, although playfully, at the drop of a hat
very different from most girls ive hooked up with.
chime in with any thoughts on the situation.. thanks mates
Just want some opinions on a current situation I'm dealing with.
Met a cute girl who is my cousin's coworker and friends with my cousin's girlfriend a couple weeks ago at my cousins birthday party. long story short, we had sex that weekend and exchanged numbers. i thought she was interesting and tried to see where this was going
Saw her again a couple weeks later with my cousin, his girl and a couple of their friends. We all went to a bar and played some pool. end of the night, all the girls had to go cause they had work early in the am. We made out and vowed to make plans late next week.
3rd time out with her was out first 1 on 1 date. It was during this time i realized her personality was actually kind of annoying and started to think of her as more of a potential friend w benefits/booty call then anyone I would actually date (shes smoking hot if that isnt obvious already).
After dinner, we ended up at a quiet little bar. at around 1am, she invited me back to her house. Seeing as I had a huge important meeting in the morning and we live on completely opposite ends of the city, I denied and playfully said next time. her response was playful and she said something like "wow youre actually denying my invite" to which I said we'll make up for it next time. We kissed good night, and I went home. She texted me thanking me.
Next day my cousin messages and told me im blowing it. Apparently, she was offended I denied her advances and was *****ing to my cousins gf about it. At the end of the day, I had a big day at work and was just looking to let loose that night with a few drinks....we've already had sex and I initiated the date so I really dont see how she can think im not interested
anyway just curious what you guys think and how i should approach the situation because she is super sexy and i would love to booty call her in the future...dont want her shattered ego stopping me from hitting it
few additional facts
- this chick texts a lot when she responds but never initiates ever
- takes hours to reply
- goes from very mushy and lovey dovey to ball breaker, although playfully, at the drop of a hat
very different from most girls ive hooked up with.
chime in with any thoughts on the situation.. thanks mates