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Jack Wealthy said:
Question:
Would you prefer to bang one girl this month, or five girls next month and every month thereafter? Easy question right.

Would you prefer cold approach or social circle?
Well, usually what I do is cold approach chicks, then as I get to know them, I try to work my way into their social circle. It's a very good method that I'm good at using. But I've been slacking as of late.
 

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I got laid by 4 different girls 4 nights in a row last week due to cold approaching
 

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AlexLefty said:
I got laid by 4 different girls 4 nights in a row last week due to cold approaching
is that even possible? what's your definition of cold approach?
 

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devilkingx2 said:
is that even possible? what's your definition of cold approach?
They were all girls I approached (without knowing them beforehand) at the mall that week or the week before

Very possible
 

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Jack Wealthy said:
Question:
Would you prefer to bang one girl this month, or five girls next month and every month thereafter? Easy question right.

Would you prefer cold approach or social circle?
Both.

Cold approaching just challenges you in almost every way. This is great for improvement. You overcome your fear, better charisma, abundance mentality, and get used to rejection. As long as you stay positive, cold approaching will do far more good than harm. Rejection is always better than regret.

Social circle game speaks for itselfs, friends are always good to have for access to pretty much everything in life including women. If you know a lot of people, life will become easier.
 

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AlexLefty said:
They were all girls I approached (without knowing them beforehand) at the mall that week or the week before

Very possible
I guess that makes sense if you dedicated most of every day for 2 weeks.
 

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devilkingx2 said:
I guess that makes sense if you dedicated most of every day for 2 weeks.
Eh, probably cold approached for a total of 4 hours to meet those girls

However, it took over a month of going out everyday all day to get at that level
 

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AlexLefty said:
Eh, probably cold approached for a total of 4 hours to meet those girls

However, it took over a month of going out everyday all day to get at that level
ah, practice made perfect.
 

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devilkingx2 said:
ah, practice made perfect.
Far from perfect my friend
 

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devilkingx2 said:
ah, practice made perfect.
Far from perfect my friend
 

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Either way you have to make moves. Don't let social circle be a buffer excuse for not making moves.
 

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Poop1337 said:
Either way you have to make moves. Don't let social circle be a buffer excuse for not making moves.
I like this because I tend to fall into this trap a lot
 
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