I'm a 52 yo divorcee who is financially secure, fit, and a little too complacent when dealing with potential LTR girls. I had one move in six months ago after a protracted break-up with a no-kidding high-functioning BPD. I thought the protracted break-up had me in a reasonable position to make decent emotional decisions about a girlfriend, but no.
I came to this forum when researching BPD relationships and have learned quite a bit, and I'm paying the price for my recent ignorance (never mind a life of blue-pill bullsh!t).
My priorities are changing for the better. Me first. I've found that ladies twenty or more years younger than me are taking interest.
Now I'm going to go through a little pain, but I'm going to be smiling a whole lot more when this is over with.
My lesson learned is to never give anything - time, money, subsistence - in advance to a woman in hopes of a return. Focus on the what's going on today and plan for the next, but take your time and don't invest what you do not need to!
I came to this forum when researching BPD relationships and have learned quite a bit, and I'm paying the price for my recent ignorance (never mind a life of blue-pill bullsh!t).
My priorities are changing for the better. Me first. I've found that ladies twenty or more years younger than me are taking interest.
Now I'm going to go through a little pain, but I'm going to be smiling a whole lot more when this is over with.
My lesson learned is to never give anything - time, money, subsistence - in advance to a woman in hopes of a return. Focus on the what's going on today and plan for the next, but take your time and don't invest what you do not need to!