Crissco
Master Don Juan
I came to realize something. Here is my theory. I noticed this is in myself at times, my mother, my father(His way of dealing is just an angry rage), and a lot of woman I deal with.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Minimisation_(psychology)
Minimization – downplaying the significance of an event or emotion - is a common strategy in dealing with feelings of guilt.
Two different scenarios:
1. You are texting with a new chick, you ask two questions in one sentence, she avoids one and only answers back on the one that is best for her. I see that as a bit rude and childish behavior. Usually woman in their early 20's do this. If this happens when a woman is in her 30s,40s, a BIG red flag as I came to realize those woman never "grew up" and are more of a "woman child" then anything.... But back to the woman in their early 20's as its most common. Could this also have to do with a low self esteem issue that she dealt with in the past? Which could lead her to be like the woman in their 30s,40s... - I have had a lot of woman also be able to completely answer everything in detail. They where more normal and well put together overall. It makes things a lot easier. Also it could be a sign of low interest level/low self esteem on the girls part
2. You are in a relationship, you get into your occasional arguments, you "talk it out" but when she responds back she puts the blame on her self (I'm sorry, I know you are right, is just a coping mechanism, I got off topic, i shouldn't of acted like that...etc)... while being evasive to the topic and hand...to "avoid future feelings of guilt" from past arguments or past experiences where she knew she was wrong- Blowing it off to a certain degree but fully aware of what you said. To avoid the argument going any further...I see that as a bit of a sign of disrespect. Especially if you have brought up what shes does in the past.
Thoughts, theory's?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Minimisation_(psychology)
Minimization – downplaying the significance of an event or emotion - is a common strategy in dealing with feelings of guilt.
Two different scenarios:
1. You are texting with a new chick, you ask two questions in one sentence, she avoids one and only answers back on the one that is best for her. I see that as a bit rude and childish behavior. Usually woman in their early 20's do this. If this happens when a woman is in her 30s,40s, a BIG red flag as I came to realize those woman never "grew up" and are more of a "woman child" then anything.... But back to the woman in their early 20's as its most common. Could this also have to do with a low self esteem issue that she dealt with in the past? Which could lead her to be like the woman in their 30s,40s... - I have had a lot of woman also be able to completely answer everything in detail. They where more normal and well put together overall. It makes things a lot easier. Also it could be a sign of low interest level/low self esteem on the girls part
2. You are in a relationship, you get into your occasional arguments, you "talk it out" but when she responds back she puts the blame on her self (I'm sorry, I know you are right, is just a coping mechanism, I got off topic, i shouldn't of acted like that...etc)... while being evasive to the topic and hand...to "avoid future feelings of guilt" from past arguments or past experiences where she knew she was wrong- Blowing it off to a certain degree but fully aware of what you said. To avoid the argument going any further...I see that as a bit of a sign of disrespect. Especially if you have brought up what shes does in the past.
Thoughts, theory's?